I am quite fond of being rimmor or rimmee. It kind of falls in the middle of my sensual waveband in that its not something I HAVE to indulge in but its something I really enjoy when I do it. So if anal sex with men is my infra red and kissing is my ultra violet then rimming is green.
Im often joyful at the variety of preferences expressed and exhibited by memebers of our community.
I wondered how other folk felt about rimming and how they would define their extremes.
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Love it - give and receive. When you can make someone's toes curl (and vice-versa) you know you're doing it right 
For me, I think rimming is more my orange and kissing is my ultra violet too (loving your scale). My infra red? Hmmm? It's definitely not anal sex with men but then neither is that too high up the scale for me.. I'll have to think on this one
Rimming men seems to be the infra red of many bi-curious guys, along with kissing for some - I guess they see them as too personal? I dunno
Can anyone enlighten us? x
For me, I think rimming is more my orange and kissing is my ultra violet too (loving your scale). My infra red? Hmmm? It's definitely not anal sex with men but then neither is that too high up the scale for me.. I'll have to think on this one
Rimming men seems to be the infra red of many bi-curious guys, along with kissing for some - I guess they see them as too personal? I dunno
Can anyone enlighten us? x I like it a lot. But then I love anything to do with Anal.
Ummm I don't get the ultra violet and infra red thing.
I don't define my extremes. I either like things or I don't. I do them or I don't.
I suppose that those things change too and I can be persuaded to do certain things or forced to do others but it is all context dependent. Have I answered your question or have I waffled on a bit ?
I suppose there are reasons why I don't really look at the forum very much at the moment and my ability to get distracted by my own waffle is one of them.
Ummm I don't get the ultra violet and infra red thing.
I don't define my extremes. I either like things or I don't. I do them or I don't.
I suppose that those things change too and I can be persuaded to do certain things or forced to do others but it is all context dependent. Have I answered your question or have I waffled on a bit ?
I suppose there are reasons why I don't really look at the forum very much at the moment and my ability to get distracted by my own waffle is one of them.
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Ummm I don't get the ultra violet and infra red thing.
"Red and yellow and pink and green, orange and purple and blue.."
And no, there is no Judy Garland/rainbow connection here... I think it's just opposite ends of the scale with green being about half way down...
Oh and 'hello'
Sex God
Rimming is lush. Ditto Bloke, giving and receiving although giving is my preference.
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Ummm I don't get the ultra violet and infra red thing.
"Red and yellow and pink and green, orange and purple and blue.."
And no, there is no Judy Garland/rainbow connection here... I think it's just opposite ends of the scale with green being about half way down...
Oh and 'hello'
am I being dumb ? I have heard of colour wheels.. Like a circle in a spiral like a wheel within a wheel, never ending or beginning on an ever spinning reel..... but a linear colour 'thing' How do I know what is at one end or another ?
I AM confused.
and, Hello !
Sex God
I made it as red at one end, violet at the other... the rainbow spectrum. ROYGBIV, as Blokey prettily crooned earlier! 
Sex God
Yes... he croons prettily indeed. You should hear him do his Willy Wonka number!
Yep. I went for Red at the 'no' end and Violet at the 'yes' end, given that Bloke loves kissing.
Yep. I went for Red at the 'no' end and Violet at the 'yes' end, given that Bloke loves kissing.
Sexlightened
love both ,best option perhaps is to be rimmed whilst rimming,
I love giving and recieving, but find to be rimmed while rimming takes some of the consentration away, theres nothing I love more than being rimmed while wanking myself, may be a bit selfish, but it work's for me, and I don't mind returning the favour,and while doing this I see all the colours, some times all at once.
I love giving and recieving, but find to be rimmed while rimming takes some of the consentration away, theres nothing I love more than being rimmed while wanking myself, may be a bit selfish, but it work's for me, and I don't mind returning the favour,and while doing this I see all the colours, some times all at once.
Sex God
Talking honestly I can say its not something I could do, its a poo thing. As for having it done to myself I am trying to envisage it but the image is not stimulating me in anyway.
What did make me laugh though is my Dad had a saying when I was younger. Ive quoted it below. For those of you who have maybe you can confirm or deny if its true
"rough as old assholes"
I am trying to envisage it but the image is not stimulating me in anyway.What did make me laugh though is my Dad had a saying when I was younger. Ive quoted it below. For those of you who have maybe you can confirm or deny if its true
"rough as old assholes"
Sex God
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Thank you for the fascinating insights.
Sorry about the confusing analogy.
My dad used to use the expression "rough as old arseholes" too. In my experience they are rarely rough.
We have the expression "Rough as a BEARS arse"
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Thank you for the fascinating insights.
Sorry about the confusing analogy.
My dad used to use the expression "rough as old arseholes" too. In my experience they are rarely rough.
We have the expression "Rough as a BEARS arse"
:lol:Don't know - can't say I ever touched a Bear's arse.
Plim
Well Brucie my experience if my sexual partners is that they neither have "arse grapes" by which I assume you mean projecting piles or faecal residue nor do they take the opportunity to fart in my face.
I assumed from your post that you believed your sexual partners were likely to fit your description and felt my advice was warranted.
I assumed from your post that you believed your sexual partners were likely to fit your description and felt my advice was warranted.
To be honest, before I get into any sexual situation I ensure ALL of my bits are clean, regardless of what may or may not be 'used' during the events that follow. If I came across somebody with a dirty arse I'd assume they applied the same kinda of hygiene standards (or not as the case may be) to other areas 
Equally, if they had 'arse grapes' then I'd hope they'd tell me - either way, I wouldn't be going near someone's arse until they had gone.
Sorry, but your analysis seems a bit 'playground' to me brucie.
Equally, if they had 'arse grapes' then I'd hope they'd tell me - either way, I wouldn't be going near someone's arse until they had gone.
Sorry, but your analysis seems a bit 'playground' to me brucie.
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To be honest, before I get into any sexual situation I ensure ALL of my bits are clean, regardless of what may or may not be 'used' during the events that follow. If I came across somebody with a dirty arse I'd assume they applied the same kinda of hygiene standards (or not as the case may be) to other areas
Equally, if they had 'arse grapes' then I'd hope they'd tell me - either way, I wouldn't be going near someone's arse until they had gone.
Sorry, but your analysis seems a bit 'playground' to me brucie.
:thumbup: to the cleanliness side of things and to the playground analogy. Surely no one would play with anyone unless they were 100% comfortable with the persons hygene standards? Its not a matter of being fussy, its more a matter of having respect for myself and for the person I was playing with.
Back to the topic. It is something that I have had done only a ver few times and although I am still a little on the nervous side about any kind of anal activity, I have to say that it has been very, very nice. I have only actually done this once and in an odd kind of way, it made me feel a little on the submissive side, which is also odd considering I had the bloke (not THE Bloke, but the bloke I was playing with, names in lower case) tied up with a pair of my stockings at the time and was teasing/threatening him with a very large dildo and a bottle of lube
As for where it fits on my 'rainbow', I think it is probably mid range at the moment, and although anal play (rimming, anal sex, etc) is not something I have much experience of, it is something I actually adore watching in porn, and if I could ever learn to relax enough, I do think it is something I could really enjoy doing more often.
Intersting topic Ben, and certainly got me thinking about my preferences :wink:
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Not my cup of tea.
Imagine going in for a rim and finding arse grapes.
or taking a fart in teh face mid act.
too dangerous. id rather take my chances bare back with a south african crack ho.
Actually Brucie that is very funny.
The thought of going down on someone to find they have piles, is certainly not a nice thought.
Sexlightened
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Not my cup of tea.
Imagine going in for a rim and finding arse grapes.
Could this be taken to be part of your five a day
rimming is gorgeous. I love both giving and receiving!! giving is great before receiving though. I also like to take rimming that step further... "Anal Tongue Fucking" (obviously to stiffen your tongue in order to actually do it is near on impossible but you get my gist) I swear it drives me wild. Admittedly not a lot of people are into it.
Its an exclusively cool club dont you know
Its an exclusively cool club dont you know
Sex God
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I also like to take rimming that step further... "Anal Tongue Fucking" (obviously to stiffen your tongue in order to actually do it is near on impossible but you get my gist) I swear it drives me wild.
Bloke - is that the 'oh fuck yeah' moment?!
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I also like to take rimming that step further... "Anal Tongue Fucking" (obviously to stiffen your tongue in order to actually do it is near on impossible but you get my gist) I swear it drives me wild.
Bloke - is that the 'oh fuck yeah' moment?!
I think so - ask him if we can find out?
Don't tell anyone.... Quote by BIoke
I also like to take rimming that step further... "Anal Tongue Fucking" (obviously to stiffen your tongue in order to actually do it is near on impossible but you get my gist) I swear it drives me wild.
Bloke - is that the 'oh fuck yeah' moment?!
I think so - ask him if we can find out?
Don't tell anyone....oooh the "fuck yeah" moment??!! that sounds intriguing. what is this "fuck yeah" moment you speak of? :lol: as for finding out about the tongue fucking technique, dont tell me you both have no clue? :twisted:
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oooh the "fuck yeah" moment??!! that sounds intriguing. what is this "fuck yeah" moment you speak of?
Question 1: You have a PM :rascal:
Question 2: No clue?! I have witnesses! :lol:
Sexlightened
With me the "oh fuck!" is never a moment it's all the time it's happening,I could quite happily be rimmed all day long. :twisted:
Orgasminator
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Not my cup of tea.
Imagine going in for a rim and finding arse grapes.
or taking a fart in teh face mid act.
too dangerous. id rather take my chances bare back with a south african crack ho.
Must say I agree.....too much of a poo thing !
