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Hi. now dont know how many of you on this site have found when you have sent a reply to someone's AD,& you have seen they have read it,yet they have hot even sent a
"no thanks" reply back, Now I find this very rude how long does it take to write NO THANK YOU what 10 secs ? Now with the way this new layout is on this site you dont give away your email addy any more, so why dont people just say no thanks if they are not interested, Now to all the people YES YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE that dont reply back please do so what harm does it do
Would like to know if others feel same way I do ?
Quote by 40smale
Would like to know if others feel same way I do ?

No.
Work out the numbers (and read some of the other threads - this has been covered within the last week or so).
If an advert attracts 500 responses (not unfeasible at all), then that's almost an hour and three quarters working at 10 seconds a go. Add to that, the fact that many will be either one-line reponses, or (shock , horror !) just plain RUDE, then just how inclined do you think anyone would be to reply ?
Wind your neck back in a bit and see it from both sides.
rolleyes
it depends, were they asking for a reply? were u what they were looking for?
was it even an ad????? a lot of people on here have profiles but no ad, and so why should they spend all day replying to replies that they never even wanted?
anyway, i could go on for ages but in the words of the SH cheerleaders "the search button is your friend!!!" and this topic has been done millions of times.
happy to help
wbb
xx
Quote by 40smale
YES YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE

Possibly not - you are assuming that they are reading the post.
They might not.
As an aside, this post has really worked me up - am I wrong for feeling that way but I get the impression that this really doesn't do the single guy reputation any good.
Maybe I'm just grouchy today - slap me if you think I'm wrong !
Actually......... slap me anyway, it might be nice .......
Quote by marriedmale
Actually......... slap me anyway, it might be nice .......

What a great time to jump into a thread
smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: marriedmale
Quote by Dawn_Mids
smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: marriedmale

Owww ! That hurts, that hurts, that ..... hur......
Mmmmm, OK, a little bit more then ? redface
Hehehehe
This is a recurring situation. If people don't reply, they are not deliberatley causing the offence, to which you have taken. They have too many emails etc. to deal with and just don't cope very well with it.
Why bring your whinge into the forums.....ever thought that these people you complain about even come into or use the forums. rolleyes
and before you say it again......we have heard this all before..
Hi see I have caused some of you to think that I just reply to others for the fun of it I dont ok I look for ads that that are asking for guys as for dont have time to reply why then put a AD on in the 1st place we all know we will get replys so why not just be polite to all whats the harm in that ?
i say that if you do fit there criteria that they r lookin for but they arnt interested in u for wotever reasons,looks a polite thanx but no thanx goes along way... just my personal view, lol
hi there think its my AD you are on about have I offened you in anyway why did you put what you did in post just wish to know am not being rude I just asked a question thats all
Quote by 40smale
Hi. now dont know how many of you on this site have found when you have sent a reply to someone's AD,& you have seen they have read it,yet they have hot even sent a
"no thanks" reply back, Now I find this very rude how long does it take to write NO THANK YOU what 10 secs ? Now with the way this new layout is on this site you dont give away your email addy any more, so why dont people just say no thanks if they are not interested, Now to all the people YES YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE that dont reply back please do so what harm does it do
Would like to know if others feel same way I do ?

Just stop fucking whinging, you're boring now - this has been done to death time after time after time after....................................
Quote by karl74
i say that if yo do fit there criteria that they r lookin for but they arnt interested in for wotever reasons,looks a polite thanx but no thanx goes along way... just my personal view, lol

maybe they get sick of the text talk replys and just cannot be bothered! rolleyes
Quote by Mal
Hi. now dont know how many of you on this site have found when you have sent a reply to someone's AD,& you have seen they have read it,yet they have hot even sent a
"no thanks" reply back, Now I find this very rude how long does it take to write NO THANK YOU what 10 secs ? Now with the way this new layout is on this site you dont give away your email addy any more, so why dont people just say no thanks if they are not interested, Now to all the people YES YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE that dont reply back please do so what harm does it do
Would like to know if others feel same way I do ?

Just stop fucking whinging, you're boring now - this has been done to death time after time after time after....................................
Go Mal,Go Mal,Go Mal,Go Mal,Go Mal!!! lol
Quote by 40smale
hi there think its my AD you are on about have I offened you in anyway why did you put what you did in post just wish to know am not being rude I just asked a question thats all

rolleyes
How can you offend yourself dunno
WELL IF THERE WAS A FACE PHOTO ON YOUR AD AND MORE DETAIL ABOUT YOU THEN I THINK EVEN IF IT IS A NO THANKS U WOULD GET A REPLY !!!!!!!!!!!
rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
Are you two the same.....you both the have the same pic in your profile?
your find that this guy has a split personality or he's just full of S**T.
You're never alone with schizophrenia rolleyes
Am I.
Are you.
Are we.
No I'm not.
Nice duvet btw :thumbup:
Tell me ........................ is that a roll of arse wipe on the bedside cabinet ?
hahahahahahahahaha
wtf is going on here ?
a thread started by one half of himself, then carried on by the other half ?
I can hear keys jangling .......
Quote by dambuster
You're never alone with schizophrenia rolleyes
Am I.
Are you.
Are we.
No I'm not.
Nice duvet btw :thumbup:
Tell me ........................ is that a roll of arse wipe on the bedside cabinet ?
You're never alone with schizophrenia rolleyes
Am I.
Are you.
Are we.
No I'm not.
Nice duvet btw :thumbup:
Tell me ........................ is that a roll of arse wipe on the bedside cabinet ?
Quote by dambuster
You're never alone with schizophrenia rolleyes
Am I.
Are you.
Are we.
No I'm not.
Nice duvet btw :thumbup:
Tell me ........................ is that a roll of arse wipe on the bedside cabinet ?
weird loon then I guess it takes all types lol
I can't lock this - he may want to argue with himself again!!! confused :? :? :? lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I will merge it with the other one though!! :? :? :? :? :?
oi dammie i thought i had the monopoly on multiple personality disorders :shock:
yes so did i , youre right there warwick :shock:
oh just shut up you pair :shock:
Quote by Sgt Bilko
I can't lock this - he may want to argue with himself again!!! confused :? :? :? lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I will merge it with the other one though!! :? :? :? :? :?

Yeah .... but ............
Then me and Warwick won't know which thread to post in,
Or Warwick
Or me
Or Warwick
:confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:
Well were sure as hell we have missed the odd reply and if we do and find out later we always say sorry to the peeps.... If the reply is worth a responce as it seems genuine we always reply, even if as you say its a thanks but no thanks.....
If the reply is a chancer and has nothing to do with what we seek in anyway, being honest we now hit the ignore button... Yep the one that does nothing lol.... makes you feel as though you at least bothered lol.. we have tried replying to mail that we didn't ask for like some single guys etc (sorry guys just not our thing lol well not as yet Ooerr) explaining we are not looking at the min etc just to be bombarded with more from the same like your long lost pals!! Maybe this explains why some don't bother!
Mike xxx