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Season Affected Disorder
Its mid January, I go to work in the dark, I come home in the dark. sad The weather is lukewarm and wet. :( As I look out the window the world is grey. :( All the colour has drained away. confused
I hate this time of the year :(
Am I the only one who feels like this?
What can I do to cheer myself up?
There are lamps you can get which mimic the effect of the sun which are meant to be helpful
Keeno
Concentrate on the things that make winter so lovely - home cooked casseroles, eating more chocolates, log fires, cosying up on the sofa with rain pounding on the windows, long walks in the rain, the amazing speed of the clouds moving on a stormy day.
I guess for you working (as in paid for it) folk this makes it harder going to and from work in the dark, I do remember that, but try where possible to enjoy the benefits of winter, we've had some beautiful sunny days recently (down south anyway)
pink x
There's this poem I remember from my school days. It's called November but I think it should be renamed January
November
by Thomas Hood
No sun--no moon!
No morn--no noon!
No dawn--no dusk--no proper time of day--
No sky--no earthly view--
No distance looking blue--
No road--no street--
No "t'other side the way"--
No end to any Row--
No indications where the Crescents go--
No top to any steeple--
No recognitions of familiar people--
No courtesies for showing 'em--
No knowing 'em!
No mail--no post--
No news from any foreign coast--
No park--no ring--no afternoon gentility--
No company--no nobility--
No warmth, no cheerfulness, no healthful ease,
No comfortable feel in any member--
No shade, no shine, no butterflies, no bees,
No fruits, no flowers, no leaves, no birds,
November!
I know how you feel Keeno and I feel the same too. It doesn't help because I work nights so for 5 days of the week, I go to work in the dark, come home in the dark and sleep during the daytime. I get to see daylight about twice a week ! confused I love walking but can't do much this time of year because of the short days. I can cope with being cold, I just hate the rain mad
and is it me or do kids wear three times more clothes in the winter? :? I'm sure I washed ( and dried ) the same pair of my son's jeans twice last week evil
It's midday and still gray. The drizzle is constant.
Bugger I'm so miserable sad
Keeno
Know it may not be much help, but for a laugh please look at the thread titled "Is Dammie moonlighting?". I was crying with laughter.
pink x
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Keeno
Concentrate on the things that make winter so lovely - home cooked casseroles, eating more chocolates, log fires, cosying up on the sofa with rain pounding on the windows, long walks in the rain, the amazing speed of the clouds moving on a stormy day.
I guess for you working (as in paid for it) folk this makes it harder going to and from work in the dark, I do remember that, but try where possible to enjoy the benefits of winter, we've had some beautiful sunny days recently (down south anyway)
pink x

Thats so sweet xx kiss
Keeno
Concentrate on the things that make winter so lovely - home cooked casseroles, eating more chocolates, log fires, cosying up on the sofa with rain pounding on the windows, long walks in the rain, the amazing speed of the clouds moving on a stormy day.
I guess for you working (as in paid for it) folk this makes it harder going to and from work in the dark, I do remember that, but try where possible to enjoy the benefits of winter, we've had some beautiful sunny days recently (down south anyway)
pink x

Thats so sweet xx kiss
Thanks mdr, just trying to help.
pink x
Taking St John`s Wort can help lift your serotonin levels and try to get out on your lunch break so that you get some fresh air and bright light, that`ll help you too.
The lamps mentioned above do really help when there`s a lack of sunlight.
Also, Bach flower remedies can help. I find the Mustard remedy helps lift my spirit and makes me feel less down. You just add a few drops to water.
Hope you feel better soon.
winter is the time for the earth to take her rest ready to come back bursting with new life in the spring.
its time for snuggling up in front of fire, hiding under the duvet and not wanting to get up, the frost biting at your face, wind and rain whipping around you, all the elements reminding us they are there.
i like the winter, i like all the seasons for completely different reasons
i think january has a lot to answer for mainly because its after xmas, the high is over, the bills are in, everyone is skint
Earthy xx
Get up in the dark, go to work in the grey and cold, come home in the dark.
Yes I too get affected by this.
I try and not be on my own too much around this time because of it or find plenty to keep me occupied until spring arrives.
Chin up you are definitely not alone with this
smile
Best cure I've found for SAD is sunbeds........a couple of sessions in the winter period normally sorts me out........
I know they are bad for you, but the amount it helps is amazing......... biggrin
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Best cure I've found for SAD is sunbeds........a couple of sessions in the winter period normally sorts me out........
I know they are bad for you, but the amount it helps is amazing......... biggrin

Quite right PK, bad for you..but not always :D
Better than sunbeds which are really very bad for you are Daylight or Craft bulbs.
They are blue in colour and give off a nice, very clean light rather than the yellowish light of incandescent and fluorescent bulbs.
Replace the bulbs in your bedroom, bathroom, lounge and kitchen with these bulbs - they really do work.
You can get them from B "und" Q and other lighting emporiums.
all of the above help. But we moved from the south east up to yorkshire 20 years ago and have not suffered it since !
Its reet grand up ere !
jay
A long time ago I was in Iceland, never had a SAD day.
Never had time, up before dawn, she always sleeps late. Out into the cold, bath in the hot pools. It's cold when you get out! Busy all day then make camp by head lights.
Keep active, I think it helps. Last year when I was forced to do a lot less, I was just not myself.
Thanks for the response everyone. biggrin
Try to answer some of the points raised.
Hillwalking - Not an easy thing to do in Essex, the county can only mustere a mild gradient. Would slope walking count?
I get a lot of exercise already, swim everyday and do tai chi 3 times a week.
I can't sit in front of a log fire cos its so warm, honest. I love cold frosty wintery days but in recent years winter has just been grey and wet.
I think I sound a bit ungrateful but I'm not. As ever I am so pleased that people here care enough to write.
What's happened to cold winters?
Oddly this is a better day.
The wind is howling round our office block. Small trees are being uprooted and blown across the road and in my opinion its great. Why? Real weather not some bleak grey day.
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What's happened to cold winters?

That'll be the Global Warming then. By all accounts, the temperature has risen by 3 degees in the last 50 years and whereas this makes for some fab summers, it's melted some of the polar ice caps, raised sea levels by 4 inches and the higher temps have resulted in flooding and heavy downpours instead of freezing conditions. ( here's a great site to check out )
I miss the freezing cold winters where you could see your breath, you knew snow would be here in January and the cold killed off all the germs and bugs that lay people low at this time of year ( me included at the mo confused )
I can hear Greenpeace shouting 'WE TOLD YOU SO' !!!!! :?
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Season Affected Disorder
Its mid January, I go to work in the dark, I come home in the dark. sad The weather is lukewarm and wet. :( As I look out the window the world is grey. :( All the colour has drained away. confused
I hate this time of the year :(
Am I the only one who feels like this?
What can I do to cheer myself up?

Light a candle lol
Happy Winter kiss
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
The sun is out,
the sky is blue
Hooray
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The sun is out,
the sky is blue
Hooray

And down on the coast we have seagulls too smile
I've got a really bad cold atm so I think I'll go back into hibernation. I've set my alarm for early Spring, my favourite season
confused
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I've got a really bad cold atm so I think I'll go back into hibernation. I've set my alarm for early Spring, my favourite season
confused

Feels like Spring down here today lol
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I've got a really bad cold atm so I think I'll go back into hibernation. I've set my alarm for early Spring, my favourite season
confused

Hope you feel better soon passionkiss