same room or seperate rooms

22 Apr 2006

Quote by vdub
Also, I like to be able to be there for Sarah if she ever gets in to trouble - moreso on the club scene, but I'd never forgive myself if somebody hurt her.

Hit the nail on the head there vdub.
:thumbup:

22 Apr 2006

Same room only.............

22 Apr 2006

Quote by redpantherman
...and listen to the moans of the couple next door through the paper thin walls...

Or soundpoof them by slapping some more paper up with your bucket of 'paste' :giggle: rotflmao

:giggle:
Stop that right now !

Bad boy ! Go to my room ! :smackbottom:

22 Apr 2006

Nah....all pile in together. a big heap of arms legs and all sorts.

22 Apr 2006

Quote by Bloke2005

Agree totally, thumbs up to this guy

I think da68ve is straight dunno

I said 'up to' him, not 'up' him!! lol

:lol: :lol:
hey save the innuendos for Bloke2005! :lol:
He thinks he's straight too :twisted:
one day i might just get a complex about this :lol:

22 Apr 2006

Quote by flidais-media
If your not comfortable having sex in front of your partner......are you really ready to swing?
we swing in same room because thats what turns us on....besides its also safer for the ladies.

Agree totally, thumbs up to this guy biggrin

Personally - same room, same bed all sharing.
However....
I don't think doing it in seperate rooms is only a "I can't watch you being fucked" thing. I do know a few people who just love their partner being boned senseless when they can't see it happening, as it is the 'knowing' it is happening that foats their boat.
I also know a few couples who do seperate rooms with singles - they just feel the singles are more relaxed that way.
Each to their own I guess - but for me the more the merrier. :twisted:

22 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
If your not comfortable having sex in front of your partner......are you really ready to swing?
we swing in same room because thats what turns us on....besides its also safer for the ladies.

Agree totally, thumbs up to this guy biggrin

Personally - same room, same bed all sharing.
However....
I don't think doing it in seperate rooms is only a "I can't watch you being fucked" thing. I do know a few people who just love their partner being boned senseless when they can't see it happening, as it is the 'knowing' it is happening that foats their boat.
I also know a few couples who do seperate rooms with singles - they just feel the singles are more relaxed that way.
Each to their own I guess - but for me the more the merrier. :twisted:
i suppose that could also go for guys who like their partners going out for the night,meeting a guy or guys and getting shagged senseless then going home and telling them all the details about it while they have sex!......as they say "whatever rocks your boat!"

22 Apr 2006

Definately same room!!! Well what else can a girl do when her fella is pleasuring another woman than to sit, watch and salivate!!! lol

22 Apr 2006

Well i beg to differ folks.
If you allow your lady to go off with some bloke you dont know, then you are bound to be nervous about the possibility of her being hurt, so how about a bit of common sense and get to know people before you shag 'em.
We prefer seperate rooms as we are more comfy that way, but i wud never even consider letting Gilly go with someone who hadnt been vetted personally by me, at least as far as i could.
Arms , legs and tits are fine with us too, but the seperate rooms are always best in our opinion, as we feel more comfortable.
Someone said 'are you ready to swing ' if you have to do seperate rooms. Bit short sighted that! Like pololady said , 'each to their own'. And to say that seperate rooms is like wifeswapping is also daft, as the original swingers, were wifeswappers, thats where swinging started, isnt it?
Correct me if i'm wrong, by all means, but i was always of the opinion that swinging was about the open sexual attitude of like minded people, and that this included the swapping of partners for sexual purposes.
And just one more point, why is it that most of the swinging encounters that i have witnessed have been on a one to one basis.

23 Apr 2006

Quote by The Muttleys
Correct me if i'm wrong, by all means, but i was always of the opinion that swinging was about the open sexual attitude of like minded people, and that this included the swapping of partners for sexual purposes.

If you feel more comfortable in separate rooms then that's your choice. There are however, men who maybe couldn't relax enough to enjoy their own swap if they're worrying about their Mrs next door. How would you feel if after meeting another couple and getting along like a house on fire you find the other male insisting on trying some titty torture experiment on your nearest and dearest when he gets her all to himself? It COULD happen but why leave anything to chance?

23 Apr 2006

Quote by skybluebabes
Definately same room!!! Well what else can a girl do when her fella is pleasuring another woman than to sit, watch and salivate!!!

Join in

In fact if one half is just going to sit there and watch - they can fluck off into another room and watch the bloody telly! :lol: :lol: :lol:

23 Apr 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren

Correct me if i'm wrong, by all means, but i was always of the opinion that swinging was about the open sexual attitude of like minded people, and that this included the swapping of partners for sexual purposes.

If you feel more comfortable in separate rooms then that's your choice. There are however, men who maybe couldn't relax enough to enjoy their own swap if they're worrying about their Mrs next door. How would you feel if after meeting another couple and getting along like a house on fire you find the other male insisting on trying some titty torture experiment on your nearest and dearest when he gets her all to himself? It COULD happen but why leave anything to chance?
Like they said.... :thumbup:

23 Apr 2006

we always play in the same room never go separate , plus it adds to the exitment seeing ur wife partner there as well having fun hump