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6 Mar 2005

Seen the same threads at the top of the board for ages . So thought Id chuck a spanner in and ask one of those questions where i get three replies and then dissapear off the board .
So on balance what do you think , swinging couples or straightforward monogamous couples - in the main who are the most insecure about themselves as individuals ??
As always sweeping generalisations are allowed , and positively encouraged .
Peace Y'all

6 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
Seen the same threads at the top of the board for ages . So thought Id chuck a spanner in and ask one of those questions where i get three replies and then dissapear off the board .
So on balance what do you think , swinging couples or straightforward monogamous couples - in the main who are the least insecure about themselves as individuals ??
As always sweeping generalisations are allowed , and positively encouraged .
Peace Y'all

The more I think about the question the more I realize just how complex the answer is.....
I don't do complex rolleyes

6 Mar 2005

hehehehe :twisted:
Thanks ( Nice av pic by the way )

6 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
Seen the same threads at the top of the board for ages . So thought Id chuck a spanner in and ask one of those questions where i get three replies and then dissapear off the board .
So on balance what do you think , swinging couples or straightforward monogamous couples - in the main who are the least insecure about themselves as individuals ??
As always sweeping generalisations are allowed , and positively encouraged .
Peace Y'all

It's a shame the double negative makes this an exercise in wriiten logic to decide how to answer!!!!! wink

In my opinion swinging couples are probably more insecure individually because in a monogamous couple there is less competition and it is easier to "let yourself go" however I think swingers have more fun! :lol:
Roger the Dragon. cool

6 Mar 2005

I have corrected it Rog
Im glad you took the time to correct the writing before you addressed the question. Similar length answers , which says alot :-)
Fell free to do a search and correct any of my other posts , I like to think i learn something new everyday xx

6 Mar 2005

Sweeping generalisation here,
were all at some point ..................................insecure :cry:

6 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
As always sweeping generalisations are allowed , and positively encouraged .
Peace Y'all

Translation. Fuck off Venus rotflmao

Venusxxx

6 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
I have corrected it Rog
Im glad you took the time to correct the writing before you addressed the question. Similar length answers , which says alot :-)
Fell free to do a search and correct any of my other posts , I like to think i learn something new everyday xx

LOL -

:lol: :lol:
The question now is, are you insecure about your grammer? Or am I insecure about apearing to be a nit picking arsehole?
All this insecurity is very difficult! confused

Roger the Dragon. cool

6 Mar 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
I have corrected it Rog
Im glad you took the time to correct the writing before you addressed the question. Similar length answers , which says alot :-)
Fell free to do a search and correct any of my other posts , I like to think i learn something new everyday xx

LOL -

:lol: :lol:
The question now is, are you insecure about your grammer? Or am I insecure about apearing to be a nit picking arsehole?
All this insecurity is very difficult! confused

Roger the Dragon. cool

Bless you Sir
I believe both our posts confirm that our ego's make us immune from insecurity :-)

6 Mar 2005

Insecure is when the cuffs and chains have been left off! wink

:wink: :twisted:
bolt

6 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
Seen the same threads at the top of the board for ages . So thought Id chuck a spanner in and ask one of those questions where i get three replies and then dissapear off the board .
So on balance what do you think , swinging couples or straightforward monogamous couples - in the main who are the most insecure about themselves as individuals ??
As always sweeping generalisations are allowed , and positively encouraged .
Peace Y'all

Swinging couples who stay together are the most secure. Monogamous couples who stay together are generally secure but there's always that doubt.
Anyway that's not the reason for answering. The reason for answering is that sometimes (not all) swinging couples (notably the women), who stay together are, to my perception so secure that they are totally flucking insensitive to anyone else's feelings.
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6 Mar 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
I have corrected it Rog
Im glad you took the time to correct the writing before you addressed the question. Similar length answers , which says alot :-)
Fell free to do a search and correct any of my other posts , I like to think i learn something new everyday xx

LOL -

:lol: :lol:
The question now is, are you insecure about your grammer? Or am I insecure about apearing to be a nit picking arsehole?
All this insecurity is very difficult! confused

Roger the Dragon. cool

You mean grammar , of course?

6 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
Seen the same threads at the top of the board for ages . So thought Id chuck a spanner in and ask one of those questions where i get three replies and then dissapear off the board .
So on balance what do you think , swinging couples or straightforward monogamous couples - in the main who are the most insecure about themselves as individuals ??
As always sweeping generalisations are allowed , and positively encouraged .
Peace Y'all

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm
I will go and ask my lady friend who studies some 'ology or other and ket her decidse for me
cuz I sure as hell have no answer to this

7 Mar 2005

12 !!!!! Thats a record for one of me 'awkward questions' . Question is did it not take off because
1) Venus thought i was havin a pop at her and wouldnt join in ?
2) It was a fuckin dull question?
3) Its one of those questions no one really wants to think too hard about in case they come up with an answer they dont like?
Answers on a postcard to Blue Peter Swinging Heaven Appeal

7 Mar 2005

It's Monday, we're recovering and brain stuck in neutral. confused

7 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
12 !!!!! Thats a record for one of me 'awkward questions' . Question is did it not take off because
1) Venus thought i was havin a pop at her and wouldnt join in ?
2) It was a fuckin dull question?
3) Its one of those questions no one really wants to think too hard about in case they come up with an answer they dont like?
Answers on a postcard to Blue Peter Swinging Heaven Appeal

Its had 216 views,so our hunch would be,its one of those questions wink

7 Mar 2005

Quote by wewantu2
12 !!!!! Thats a record for one of me 'awkward questions' . Question is did it not take off because
1) Venus thought i was havin a pop at her and wouldnt join in ?
2) It was a fuckin dull question?
3) Its one of those questions no one really wants to think too hard about in case they come up with an answer they dont like?
Answers on a postcard to Blue Peter Swinging Heaven Appeal

Its had 216 views,so our hunch would be,its one of those questions wink

You mean we're too insecure to answer? I disagree, I think we're just too lazy.
Whoops, just proved myself wrong by answering.
On the other hand... some people wouldn't swing due to being too insecure, and some shoudn't for the same reason (jealousy insecurity). That doesn't mean swingers can't be insecure - you get to be the centre of attention (if you're doing it right) and that could motivate some people who feel insecure iin themselves (star-of-the-show insecurity).
Talking drivel. Maybe I should have posted this in the absentmindedness thread.

7 Mar 2005

Ive been looking at this question since sunday night and still cant come up with a smart ass answer,so fuck it , im not looking at it anymore,,,ever !!! confused

:? :?

7 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
Seen the same threads at the top of the board for ages . So thought Id chuck a spanner in and ask one of those questions where i get three replies and then dissapear off the board .
So on balance what do you think , swinging couples or straightforward monogamous couples - in the main who are the most insecure about themselves as individuals ??
As always sweeping generalisations are allowed , and positively encouraged .
Peace Y'all

You've compartmentalised them as couples or individuals not one within another.
IME 1 individual within a couple (swinging or monagamous) will always be more secure than the other (or insecure depending on your outlook).
In effect there is no difference between swingers or monogamous. We're all humans so will always have insecurities no matter how hard we try to hide them.
:shock:

7 Mar 2005

Quote by freckledbird
I have corrected it Rog
Im glad you took the time to correct the writing before you addressed the question. Similar length answers , which says alot :-)
Fell free to do a search and correct any of my other posts , I like to think i learn something new everyday xx

LOL -

:lol: :lol:
The question now is, are you insecure about your grammer? Or am I insecure about apearing to be a nit picking arsehole?
All this insecurity is very difficult! confused

Roger the Dragon. cool

You mean grammar , of course?
Actually I meant grammer because I'm so secure I feel that my way to spell things must be the right way!! :lol:

7 Mar 2005

Quote by Peanut
Seen the same threads at the top of the board for ages . So thought Id chuck a spanner in and ask one of those questions where i get three replies and then dissapear off the board .
So on balance what do you think , swinging couples or straightforward monogamous couples - in the main who are the most insecure about themselves as individuals ??
As always sweeping generalisations are allowed , and positively encouraged .
Peace Y'all

You've compartmentalised them as couples or individuals not one within another.
IME 1 individual within a couple (swinging or monagamous) will always be more secure than the other (or insecure depending on your outlook).
In effect there is no difference between swingers or monogamous. We're all humans so will always have insecurities no matter how hard we try to hide them.
:shock:
Thanks for the answer . If you read it again the question was really about the individuals involved , and since I mentioned couples then yes by inference I meant individuals within a couple. I didnt really mean by comparison to each other , but by comparison to individuals who dont swing . I understand why you answered how you did , but its no answer really . I invited generalisation seriously as we are all only guessing , but within our own experience if were all thoughtful and honest about it im sure we could all express a calculated guess at the scales tipping one way or the other regarding the men and women and their level of personal insecurity.

8 Mar 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
I have corrected it Rog
Im glad you took the time to correct the writing before you addressed the question. Similar length answers , which says alot :-)
Fell free to do a search and correct any of my other posts , I like to think i learn something new everyday xx

LOL -

:lol: :lol:
The question now is, are you insecure about your grammer? Or am I insecure about apearing to be a nit picking arsehole?
All this insecurity is very difficult! confused

Roger the Dragon. cool

You mean grammar , of course?
Actually I meant grammer because I'm so secure I feel that my way to spell things must be the right way!! :lol:
Is that the same reason for "apearing"? wink

8 Mar 2005

Quote by Peanut
I have corrected it Rog
Im glad you took the time to correct the writing before you addressed the question. Similar length answers , which says alot :-)
Fell free to do a search and correct any of my other posts , I like to think i learn something new everyday xx

LOL -

:lol: :lol:
The question now is, are you insecure about your grammer? Or am I insecure about apearing to be a nit picking arsehole?
All this insecurity is very difficult! confused

Roger the Dragon. cool

You mean grammar , of course?
Actually I meant grammer because I'm so secure I feel that my way to spell things must be the right way!! :lol:
Is that the same reason for "apearing"? wink

It certainly is!!! :lol:

8 Mar 2005

Hijacked by the Pedant Gang !