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Does anyone know (or am just incredibly stupid?) whether there are any secret signals that swingers of any persuasion use to advertise themselves to one another whilst on social occasions, ie secret handskakes used by the freemasons? You can't really just carry Pampas Grass around everywhere can you? wink
Unknown User
well....if a woman flashes her tits and whispers in my ear....fancy a shag.....I normally take that I'm in !!
However if a guy goes up to woman and says same.....its normally taken as just par for the course for a saturday night out..lol lol
tweeky
Sex God
Umm no, how would you know? You would look a bit silly trying to initiate a secret hand shake with a non swinger :shock: Plus it would soon become common knowledge to Joe public anyway which could lead to embarrassing situations.
Unknown User
It was a tongue in cheek kind of question.... tend not to go around shaking hands but there could be secret codes? rolleyes
Unknown User
Quote by Custard1966
Does anyone know (or am just incredibly stupid?) whether there are any secret signals that swingers of any persuasion use to advertise themselves to one another whilst on social occasions, ie secret handskakes used by the freemasons? You can't really just carry Pampas Grass around everywhere can you? wink

There are, but I'm not telling 'cos they're secret!! flipa
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Geordiecpl2001
Sex God
In hotels, the code used is to hang a "do not disturb" notice on your room door. If you see one, you can be sure that there are swingers inside, therefore knock loudly on the door and when they answer just announce that you are swingers and would like to join them for fun.
We always find that this works.
John & Shel
Unknown User
Ok will start by frequenting our local travel lodge..... are you sure there aren't just very tired people in those 'do not disturb' rooms? I will take my Pampas Grass as a furry weapon in case the occupants do get a little irked by my appearance! wink
essex34m
Sex God
I find wearing a balaclava and waving gaffa tape tends to portray a particular message after munches and socials.
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Apart from wearing a badge....
Outside of functions it boils down to perception, your attire and signals.
I've been out socially for beers with mates and have encountered the more than willing glance from a 'straight' guy that materialized into something more, aren't we all bi? At some level.
There's no shake of hands, albeit of a masonic nature, if there is, feck I'm well....
Paddy x
tweeky
Sex God
Quote by Custard1966
It was a tongue in cheek kind of question.... tend not to go around shaking hands but there could be secret codes? rolleyes

Mmmmmm are you hinting thats a secret signal? I'll give it a whirl next time I'm out on a weekend.
Quote by flower411
Don`t think there`s any particular signals. It`s pretty much the same whether people are swingers or not ......
If you start flirting with them and they flirt back, it`s a good sign :thumbup:
I always say that honesty is the best policy and that being direct and to the point does frequently pay dividends. Once the flirting has started just ask ...
"So.... do you ever indulge in gratuitous recreational sex ? "

Thanks Flower! From today on I will start every conversation with "Hi, my names Bob and I'm a swinger" and then I'm going to put my tongue in my cheek and stare at them until they answer lol
novice1
Casanova
Quote by Geordiecpl2001
In hotels, the code used is to hang a "do not disturb" notice on your room door. If you see one, you can be sure that there are swingers inside, therefore knock loudly on the door and when they answer just announce that you are swingers and would like to join them for fun.
We always find that this works.
John & Shel

This really made me chuckle.
I've just been away for a few days.
I used the "do not disturb" when I went out for the day, cos I left the room in a shit tip and I'd been smoking!
Steve
Sex God
My tongue hanging out would likely be a signal ;-)
Gufuncouple
Orgasminator
Surely if we told you the 'secret' signals - they wouldn't be secret anymore......:doh:
However, once you got nominated, bribes have been passed and a sacrifice made to the SH Gods then maybe................
lol
noladreams
Sex God
Quote by essex34m
I find wearing a balaclava and waving gaffa tape tends to portray a particular message after munches and socials.

rotflmao You're funny.
Unknown User
Quote by Geordiecpl2001
In hotels, the code used is to hang a "do not disturb" notice on your room door. If you see one, you can be sure that there are swingers inside, therefore knock loudly on the door and when they answer just announce that you are swingers and would like to join them for fun.
We always find that this works.
John & Shel

Next time I want a lay in when staying in a hotel remind me not to use the do not disturb sign....lol
tmann
Sex God
There is the rainbow button (see above), this is more an SH symbol than swinging.
There are those who just know. I walked into a hotel, booked in as one and the receptionist asked, "Will you need an extra key." I do not know how she knew.
T
tweeky
Sex God
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There is the rainbow button (see above), this is more an SH symbol than swinging.
There are those who just know. I walked into a hotel, booked in as one and the receptionist asked, "Will you need an extra key." I do not know how she knew.
T

Or is that just a standard question? We use one hotel that has electronic check in and even the machine asks if you want an extra key smile
karrob
Sexlightened
Quote by Custard1966
Does anyone know (or am just incredibly stupid?) whether there are any secret signals that swingers of any persuasion use to advertise themselves to one another whilst on social occasions, ie secret handskakes used by the freemasons? You can't really just carry Pampas Grass around everywhere can you? wink

on a more serious note many companys have tried to come up with an visual "only in the know" item. you can see the "swing pin" its a lapel pin badge see swingpin co uk.
ya never know comeup with another style and people may actually like it
hugs
karen robert
Scotchlander
Warming the Bed
Quote by Geordiecpl2001
In hotels, the code used is to hang a "do not disturb" notice on your room door. If you see one, you can be sure that there are swingers inside, therefore knock loudly on the door and when they answer just announce that you are swingers and would like to join them for fun.
We always find that this works.
John & Shel

 Love this one 🤣 .... saying that, I always have my do not disturb sign if I am in or out. And never had one knock. I can live I hope.