Hi, Could we have a section or type that shows we are married but playing alonre? There must be a lot of women out there that want some fun in a sexless marriage just like some of us guys. After all we are all adults and surely discreet meets are ok? Any thoughts. BTW I just wish I had joined years ago as my then G/F would have been up for it.
This is genuine. Are there women that think the same?
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Hi, Could we have a section or type that shows we are married but playing alonre? There must be a lot of women out there that want some fun in a sexless marriage just like some of us guys. After all we are all adults and surely discreet meets are ok? Any thoughts. BTW I just wish I had joined years ago as my then G/F would have been up for it.
This is genuine. Are there women that think the same?
Are you looking for a "married and playing alone with permission" or "cheating" label?
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Honest answer is the latter but as I dont get any at home and am horny as hell I wanted to meet like minded thinkers who are discreet.
Nice to see an honest answer, and that gains respect from some quarters. However you also suffer the well documented wrath of a large group of people who would even question your right to be on here.
The groupings that we have today could in theory be subdivided many times. Those people who are "active", those not. Maybe everybody from Plymouth should have a green symbol (green army!) lol.
Others have asked that symbols should represent sexual orientation as well as gender.
The downside is that with too many categories, you'd need a second monitor with a listing of all the different options.
Hi , maybe I was was being to frank and honest. I would just like to meet, chat and enjoy the compamy of people who enjoy this lifestyle. I think I try to be upfront and honest and surely that's good.
I am hoping a female friend will be join me on the website but she is a bit retisant at the moment.
I am hoping a female friend will be join me on the website but she is a bit retisant at the moment.
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No i think given your situation honesty is the best policy,believe me everyone on here can spot a married man pretending to be otherwise,but if you truly want to enjoy the "lifestyle"then reject labels and get to know people a people.
I think that's really good advice :thumbup:
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I am not sure how much of a lifestyle it really is. most of seems to be spent sitting at a computer, so its not much different from many other lifestyles.
Hell no.. some of mine is spent in laybys, clubs & hotels too but I do see your point
Its a bit like 80% rehearsal 20% performance, for a 'lifestyle'. Which generally begins some time after the disillusionment of monogamy, which is then your existing 'lifestyle'.
I think those of you in relationships where you both play, or are aware that the other is a player with your blessing, are tremendously lucky.
For others in long-term, loving platonic relationships, the choices are simple. Leave your partner. Or be celibate for life. Or cheat.
The choices are simple but they're not easy.
I would never judge anyone who's shoes I had not walked in.
For others in long-term, loving platonic relationships, the choices are simple. Leave your partner. Or be celibate for life. Or cheat.
The choices are simple but they're not easy.
I would never judge anyone who's shoes I had not walked in.
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Quote by brucie
im married to jesus.
he doesnt know im here... shhhh!
Is Jesus not male??
So glad that you have finally got the balls to admit you're Gay then Brucie??
Well done....
I am sure the bi/gay guys will welcome you with open arms
:lol: 
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Quote by brucie
im married to jesus.
he doesnt know im here... shhhh!
You're a nun?! :shock:
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Just had a thought......mostly men imo, come on here and be "honest" in that they are saying they are married and playing behind their partners back! Isn't that selective honesty?? As they are not being honest with their partner!!
What do you think?
You make a good point, the people may be honest with potential playmates but they are 'possibly' not being honest with their partners (I say possibly, as there are married people on here, playing as a single with their partners permission).
However, whether this is something people agree with or not, I dont think we should judge someone just because they are married and using this site. Unless you are in that situation it is very difficult to say what you would do. People join here for many different reasons, and I dont think I am so good that I can say who should and shouldnt use the site.
Each to their own, and each person can make a decision if they want to meet a 'married' swinger (and yes, we do regularly meet someone who is in a relationship and his partner does not know, however, we also know the circumstances of his relationship (we have met his partner socially) and fully emphathise with his situation).
