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To the guys out there and the women/men who have played with them..how do you deal with guys who get overly sensitive to the point of needing to stop and not being able to cum? Do you think a physiological reason is purely the contributing factor as said male has considered getting the snip to deal with sensitivity..What's your sure fire techniques when it comes to blowjobs (pun inteneded!! lol ) as those are proving very challenging blink
Condoms create a "downer" and lack of does mean a sure thing..but that's not really ideal when playing with new people..and doesn't resolve the blowjobing issue..
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I've had a few guys who are very very sensitive just after they have cum... But never one where the sensitivity stops them cumming
As for the snip... No physical reason for that to have any effect, it's a long way from the business end smile
I've had the snip twice. (one reversal) It makes no difference at all.
Two factors regarding "can't cum".
1st is just a disguised plea to go bareback, very common.
Less well known is the effect of viagra or similar stimulants; these can cause the male to be less likely to reach an orgasm easily.
On the point of stopping short of orgasm, this is what I would recommend to guys who don't last very long. Practice can produce a guy who will last a long time. The flip side is that he'll be further away from his orgasm each time.
I used to date a guy who had this problem.
It didn't happen every time, but there were times when he became overly sensitive. Generally we'd stop paying attention to that particular area and have other fun for a while to allow it to calm down.
However I have also been in the position on meets that skinny describes, where it is simply an excuse to not use a condom. rolleyes They get short shrift!
I can get incredibly sensitive apres cumming so much so that any touch or the like gets me giggling in an oo oo oo no don't touch giggly sort of way but this is only apparent for a few minutes thank goodness. It can also happen before I've cum but this is usually when being BJ'd. In the latter case i just tell Jay to nibble me nuts and shaft instead. Either way its very temporary thank goodness
I know a few insensitive dickheads (some on here as well rolleyes) but I feel that it might be a different sense of the word!
Never heard a sensitive end being used as a reason for stopping orgasm though? Hubby has a very sensitive one after he's cum, and I'm a bitch so it depends who was in charge at the time and as to whether I can get him begging me to stop :twisted:
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I know a few insensitive dickheads (some on here as well rolleyes) but I feel that it might be a different sense of the word!
Never heard a sensitive end being used as a reason for stopping orgasm though? Hubby has a very sensitive one after he's cum, and I'm a bitch so it depends who was in charge at the time and as to whether I can get him begging me to stop :twisted:

I am the same....blush there are one or two people that like to ummmm tease after and I could kill them lol
I do get that sensitive dick head after cumming. But it's one of those 'wriggle around orgasm' moments. It's never caused me to stop or want to stop though. I believe you can get those sprays.. You know.. The ones that numb slightly. I think they're for delaying orgasm really but I reckon that could work
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There can be a few reasons for this, The nerve endings in the penis can get very "excited" when stimulated. The feeling of sensitivity after cumming are actually present before but with the drive to have sex and cum, these are felt in the same way. Once a guy has cum and the urge has gone the feeling can become intense.
The nerve endings are not normally an issue prior to cumming but in some cases (especially with guys who have not been cut apparently)the intense feeling can be overwhelming is usually most sensitive where the head meets the shaft. It is therefore quite normal for some guys to feel this.
However! Certain medical conditions can also cause this such as balanitus. This is not a sexually transmitted disease but a condition, most common in people with diabetes or people who have trouble controlling there blood sugar levels for other reasons.