What I mean,gonna tell you!
But first need to say IAM a DutchLADY.
Came online and added my advert. Have given people that i,m wanted to get to know mails .
Thinking and hoping that they would reply back !
But NO forget it ! Other they are FAKE or have NO MANNERS !!!
Thought that MOSTLY i could expect normal: REALLY wanting to get to know and MEETING up!
With REAL like minded .
Hopefully I don,t get it wrong and are there still NICE HONEST people around !!
Hi Dutch lady, sorry to hear that you are unhappy with the site thus far. I've read your post and I've read your ad and your profile, and......please take this positively, but I would assume that there is a very high probability that the person who created these posts was a "guy", and I don't actually care whether or not the poster would be male or female, but imagine how a girl would feel if she thought the same as me. I'll be happy to give you a telephone number, and if a lady calls me to say she's yourself then I'll be happy to publicise the same...maybe we need voice ads and introductions.
Hi I've left the previous post, just a personal observation, without leaving any helpful advice...if you genuinely wish to meet likeminded ladies on the site then you ought to join the banter in the chatrooms and show yourself on cam...and I don't mean they wish to see you naked or anything of that nature, just someone identifiable. good luck.
When someone from Holland wants you to arrange the hotel, oh and when you ask for them to stick a cam on to confirm who they are and they do a runner, alarm bells tend to go off and mail gets ignored. Funny that.
Hi, so as far as I can tell the situation is that you are a single female in Holland wanting to meet with females or couples. Unfortunately you seem unhappy with the site, so after rereading your post above a few times to try to understand further, I think perhaps that I can shed some light on the matter.
Firstly, your above post seems to be written as if you,ve been a member a few weeks and your getting nowhere. However you have been a member of this site for 15 months, joining on 9th Oct 2010. So is it a case that you have had no luck for 15 months or just in the past week after having a prolonged break?
I noticed that you appear to have some SHREP, but only from the past week. Once again this leads me to think that you joined, dissapeared and have recently ressurected your single fem account.
It has already been mentioned by a previous poster that your profile comes over as if it has been written by a man. I agree with that statement. Furthermore I noticed that the standard of English between your profile text/ad and your forum post is markedly different. Once again suggesting to a suspicious mind that there isn't a single fem behind this single fem account.
Then I read your advert...
Your ad opens with the line 'Hi, we are new to this' yet it was posted three days ago and you have been a member for fifteen months.
Did anyone notice the other glaringly obvious anomaly in the opening line? You used the word 'we', furthermore you also used the word 'we' another 3 times, and the word 'us' once. Which seems a serious mistake to make on a single fem profile? But the ultimate mistake is surely the line in the middle? 'We are a mixed couple, he is white (VWE, 48Y), she is light coloured, living in Holland.'!!!
Whoooahhhh hold the horses, you mean to say that this single fem profile on a UK site is actually a male and female couple living in Holland?
Or is it? After all your profile home page does clearly say 'CH60, Heswall, Merseyside'!
I have included a copy of your ad below, just because I know full well that it will probably change in the next few days when you read this, (unless you dissapear for another 15 months).
All in all I think it's a bit rich of you to come out moaning that people and profiles are fake when yours is in breach of the site rules and is clearly NOT the single fem you claim it to be.
Kinda makes me wonder what your ashamed of or trying to hide with YOUR fake profile?
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Dutch lady seeking female friends and couples
17th Jan 2012
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Location:
Heswall, Merseyside, CH60
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Hi, we are new to this! Love to have fun with girls as well as couples. We want to wake up every day eager to face the possibilities and explore new places abroad with fun loving friends. We are a mixed couple, he is white (VWE, 48Y), she is light coloured, living in Holland. But we are willing to fly in for the right persons. Would be great to meet and socialize and play. If you like to get to know us, please reply and include a face pic.
as such a posting seems to get a mixed response ( as a result of their vagueness and pleading quality) I am beginning to think that some are designed for that purpose alone. ie to get any kind of response whatever. probably providing the originator with some kind of comfort?
anyway holland has a reasonably cool swinging scene, so i expect once the posters get their act together they will be busy enough.
I agree totally, I only hope that Heswall, Merseyside, CH60 has as good a swinging scene as holland :swingingchair:
as the saying go s u can fool some of the people some of the time but u cant fool them all, all of the time . on sh think most peeps r wise.n the forums will shoot u down with out a gun.... :twisted:
