Well I sat outside a cafe after arranging to meet someone this morning, fully expecting this person to come and have a chat to see if we were interested in persuing things further. I wrote to him 2 days ago to confirm the meeting was still ok and he sent me a message saying it was still ok and he was looking forward to meeting me.
Sadly today I sat there with my very expensive coffee alone. I tried phoning the mobile number he had given me and found it was turned off. He had also given me his works number so I phoned that only to find out that he had gone on holiday till next Tuesday.
To this person if he dares look on here again all I can say is that you are a very rude and inconsiderate man and you have hurt and offended me deeply.
I am a genuine woman looking for a loving relationship with a like minded man and I am sure this man knew what I wanted. He said he visited my area regularly so implying he was willing to meet me on a regular basis.
Sorry for the moan but I just wanted to show the fellas that its not just the women who let men down.
DD
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Seriously Cross
Although it wasnt a nice thing to do and i can undertsand your frustration, maybe a pm to the guy in question would have been better. The let down threads have been done time and time again and we undertstand that all types of people do it, men, women, couples etc. Here have one of these instead :therethere:
Louise xx
Louise xx
Awww Devon :therethere:
Your post reminded me of one of WBBs yonks ago - should make you feel better, and certainly not the only person for this to happen to
Reading that back after such a long time ..... it should be an anthem! :lol2:
It's his loss hun
Your post reminded me of one of WBBs yonks ago - should make you feel better, and certainly not the only person for this to happen to
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ok, i guess it happens to everyone.. but last night was the first ever time for me! :cry:
i felt moved enough to write this!!!!
Sat alone inside the bar,
Wearing undies a bit too tight,
The pain should have been worth it,
Big hopes for the rest of the night.
Alas, my time was all wasted,
Was really horny too –what a shame.
Went home alone, all disappointed.
But the man involved I wont name.
Its not that he was too ugly,
Or that he was not tall.
The problem with my meet was…
He never arrived at all!!!!!!
Reading that back after such a long time ..... it should be an anthem! :lol2:
It's his loss hun
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Although it wasnt a nice thing to do and i can undertsand your frustration, maybe a pm to the guy in question would have been better. The let down threads have been done time and time again and we undertstand that all types of people do it, men, women, couples etc. Here have one of these instead :therethere:
Louise xx
Yes thats right Louise .. a nice quiet PM which the man seeing its from me deletes without reading. Conscience untouched and no one the wiser. Sorry but I don't take rejection or rudeness laying down quietly. I am a handful yes but a real person and those that know me will understand my reaction. I'm totally unPC and uncomplicated. If I hurt I say ouch .. is that so wrong
DD
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Although it wasnt a nice thing to do and i can undertsand your frustration, maybe a pm to the guy in question would have been better. The let down threads have been done time and time again and we undertstand that all types of people do it, men, women, couples etc. Here have one of these instead :therethere:
Louise xx
Yes thats right Louise .. a nice quiet PM which the man seeing its from me deletes without reading. Conscience untouched and no one the wiser. Sorry but I don't take rejection or rudeness laying down quietly. I am a handful yes but a real person and those that know me will understand my reaction. I'm totally unPC and uncomplicated. If I hurt I say ouch .. is that so wrong
DD
I really do understand where your coming from DD and if he is/or will be deleting your mails and this is the onlyway for your point to get through then thats fine. I was trying to sympathise in a round about way.
Louise xx
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Still think in some cases you should be able to 'name and shame'. It doesnt take long to text/ring.
Lets hope he just stood DD up............
...............and not in A&E or worse, in the morgue.
There are a lot of reasons why the person didn't turn up. If it was because he couldn't be arsed then DD has every right to be angry at him..........but it could be a number of important reasons why he didn't.
To name and shame someone is not a good idea until you have both sides of the story.
Dave_Notts
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Still think in some cases you should be able to 'name and shame'. It doesnt take long to text/ring.
Lets hope he just stood DD up............
...............and not in A&E or worse, in the morgue.
There are a lot of reasons why the person didn't turn up. If it was because he couldn't be arsed then DD has every right to be angry at him..........but it could be a number of important reasons why he didn't.
To name and shame someone is not a good idea until you have both sides of the story.
Dave_Notts
This brings to mind a line from the new Shakira song - "You said you'd love me until you died but as far as I know you're still alive".
Seriously though DD - NOT COOL that this chap stood you up without a word, although I've found that it's quite difficult to judge someones' sincerity just by mail or text. Did you chat on the phone first?? Don't let it put you off, though and better luck next time!! (and arrange to meet at McDonalds - the coffee's cheaper!)
Mrs F xxx
`sThanks folks for the hugs and understanding .. just when I get mad I get 
:x :x lol
As for in the morgue well if I see him he will be lol.
No seriously I spoke to his secretary at work .. he is alive and well and on holiday. As was said I wouldn't have been so angry if he had just postponed the meet to a more convenient time, but 2 days before, he must have know he was going away and still agreed to a meet. Yes I did speak to him on the phone and he says he is a professional working man in his profile. I know what his job entails as my son does similar work. It was one of the reasons I was so interested in him. Common interests.
Oh well as they say .. his lose.
DD
:x :x lol As for in the morgue well if I see him he will be lol.
No seriously I spoke to his secretary at work .. he is alive and well and on holiday. As was said I wouldn't have been so angry if he had just postponed the meet to a more convenient time, but 2 days before, he must have know he was going away and still agreed to a meet. Yes I did speak to him on the phone and he says he is a professional working man in his profile. I know what his job entails as my son does similar work. It was one of the reasons I was so interested in him. Common interests.
Oh well as they say .. his lose.
DD
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A friend off another website sent it to me with a couple of others to choose from. She said it was so me .. bless her (She definitely needs glasses)
DD
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I know what its like to get angry DD it hurts you more than them to build up those feelings of frustration. Make sure you meet somewhere always to your convenience so if they dont show its not a wasted effort. You are a lovely person so its their loss but as DaveNotts says, usually there are other reasons why people dont meet as life has a canny way of getting in the way.
Take care xxxx
Take care xxxx
he gave you (someone he had never met) his work number :shock:
sorry to say i think most of us have had no shows b4 i have had men and couples not show its all part of swinging and a part that will never go away
what you could do is phone his work up and leave a message.....something like (after asking for him knowing hes on holiday till tuesday lol)...... could you tell *insert name* that *insert name* off swinging heaven called and i just wanted to know why he didnt turn up for our meet :lol2:
sorry to say i think most of us have had no shows b4 i have had men and couples not show its all part of swinging and a part that will never go away
what you could do is phone his work up and leave a message.....something like (after asking for him knowing hes on holiday till tuesday lol)...... could you tell *insert name* that *insert name* off swinging heaven called and i just wanted to know why he didnt turn up for our meet :lol2:
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he gave you (someone he had never met) his work number :shock:
sorry to say i think most of us have had no shows b4 i have had men and couples not show its all part of swinging and a part that will never go away
what you could do is phone his work up and leave a message.....something like (after asking for him knowing hes on holiday till tuesday lol)...... could you tell *insert name* that *insert name* off swinging heaven called and i just wanted to know why he didnt turn up for our meet :lol2:
Don't think I haven't thought of doing this in my darker moments :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Good job I'm a discreet and not vengeful person.
DD
Erm ... oh eck ... am I really really red faced now.
This man just got back from his hols and picked up my message so like an avenging angel I swooped down on the poor fella before he had time to work out what my message said and turn his phone off.
Bless him .. he said .. its this Friday we meet not last friday
ops: :oops:
So I am eating humble pie here by the shed load now.
Sorry sorry sorry ... good job he has a sense of humour.
Anyway ... said man is still going to meet this mad mare from Plymouth after all.
Yes yes I can hear all those .. 'we told you so' digs coming over the ether :sticky:
Anyone got a brain that actually works that I can borrow
DD
This man just got back from his hols and picked up my message so like an avenging angel I swooped down on the poor fella before he had time to work out what my message said and turn his phone off.
Bless him .. he said .. its this Friday we meet not last friday
ops: :oops: So I am eating humble pie here by the shed load now.
Sorry sorry sorry ... good job he has a sense of humour.
Anyway ... said man is still going to meet this mad mare from Plymouth after all.
Yes yes I can hear all those .. 'we told you so' digs coming over the ether :sticky:
Anyone got a brain that actually works that I can borrow
DD
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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Erm ... oh eck ... am I really really red faced now.
This man just got back from his hols and picked up my message so like an avenging angel I swooped down on the poor fella before he had time to work out what my message said and turn his phone off.
Bless him .. he said .. its this Friday we meet not last friday
So I am eating humble pie here by the shed load now.
Sorry sorry sorry ... good job he has a sense of humour.
Anyway ... said man is still going to meet this mad mare from Plymouth after all.
Yes yes I can hear all those .. 'we told you so' digs coming over the ether :sticky:
Anyone got a brain that actually works that I can borrow
DD
Ya Numpty....:giggle::giggle:
