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Having read about a program on T.V about sex addiction, although it hasnt been shown yet, I thought I'd google it, and see what it came up with.
I had a look at the Sex Addicts Anonymous website, and they have 12 questions to self assess your addiction.
One of the questions was
your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?
Leaving aside the coercion or violence, all sexual activity leaves you at risk, threat or reality of disease and pregnancy.
I realise that SAA is a life saving organisation for some people, but I answered yes to several of the 12 questions, including the one above.
Am I really a sex addict?

Are you?
Well it looks like I am as I def answered yes to more then one of the questions!! woops lol
11/12 quick wheres the straight jacket tie me up forever wheres the nearest SAA meeting think i need help :shock:
can ya guess which one i answered no to though redface
Thanks for that info redangle, I'm now booked up for a meeting in London this wednesday.
Oh the shame of it! redface :shock:
aaah I'm a good girl, I only answered YES to two.. :angel:
I know the organisation is probably worthwhile. Although i would like to know the percentage of the population who would answer no to all 12 questions!!!
My names Wenchy, and I'm a sex addict.
(Although I've been feeling scarily reformed lately :shock: )
But going on those questions, show me someone who's not a sex addict, and i'll show you a liar.
Well that was kinda my point.
There is always a risk of pregnancy or disease. So that 1 question, people are gonna have to say yes.
But then a lot of people I've spoke to think that if they use condoms, and are on the pill, then there is no risk.
Which we know to be nonsense!!!
My names Dawnie, I'm a sex addict and I only read thr first 3 questions redface
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can ya guess which one i answered no to though redface

Question One?
Lonni xxx
I passed with flying colours smile :) :)
I need no help at all....I just need a man! confused :? :?
xanaisx
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I need no help at all....I just need a man! confused :? :?

Are you sure about that ? innocent
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I need no help at all....I just need a man! confused :? :?

Are you sure about that ? innocent
Oh shush woman an giv us a snog :lol2::lol2::lol2:
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Oh shush woman an giv us a snog :lol2::lol2::lol2:

Bristol ;)
Quote by Lonni

can ya guess which one i answered no to though redface

Question One?
Lonni xxx
nah hun was 12 lol
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Oh shush woman an giv us a snog :lol2::lol2::lol2:

Bristol ;)
Were ready for ya!!! :taz: :taz: :taz:
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Were ready for ya!!! :taz: :taz: :taz:

Thats what you think rotflmao
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Were ready for ya!!! :taz: :taz: :taz:

Thats what you think rotflmao
Ohhhhhhh bugga!!! Now Im worried.... bolt
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Ohhhhhhh bugga!!! Now Im worried.... bolt

I have a feeling you know exactly how to handle me anyway anais, with both hands rotflmao
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Ohhhhhhh bugga!!! Now Im worried.... bolt

I have a feeling you know exactly how to handle me anyway anais, with both hands rotflmao
The hunted hunts :giggle: :giggle:
In edit: Best answer the question - No, i never did the questionnaire, don't need to as i'm still in training wink
I answered yes to four of the questions, but I dont think im an addict as such, I enjoy sex but im not addicted to it.
Louise xx
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Thanks for that info redangle, I'm now booked up for a meeting in London this wednesday.
Oh the shame of it! redface :shock:

Well I attented the meeting last night and they got me to take the test again. They then informed me I had answered yes to 13 out of the 12 questions and since that was impossible and 13 is an unlucky number I was told to leave immediately!
Oh the continued shame of it! surprisedops:
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Is all I'm saying!
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Ohhhhhhh bugga!!! Now Im worried.... bolt

I have a feeling you know exactly how to handle me anyway anais, with both hands rotflmao
Oh double bugga!!! :shock:
Its your turn on top Dawnie!!! :grin:
My name is Suze and im NOT a sex addict but i can truthfully say i rather like it!! biggrin
Suze xx
Quote by anais

Ohhhhhhh bugga!!! Now Im worried.... bolt

I have a feeling you know exactly how to handle me anyway anais, with both hands rotflmao
Oh double bugga!!! :shock:
Its your turn on top Dawnie!!! :grin:
You are right anais :thumbup:
My turn to take control :rascal:
Tomorrow dunno
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Having read about a program on T.V about sex addiction, although it hasnt been shown yet, I thought I'd google it, and see what it came up with.
I had a look at the Sex Addicts Anonymous website, and they have 12 questions to self assess your addiction.
One of the questions was
your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?
Leaving aside the coercion or violence, all sexual activity leaves you at risk, threat or reality of disease and pregnancy.
I realise that SAA is a life saving organisation for some people, but I answered yes to several of the 12 questions, including the one above.
Am I really a sex addict?

Are you?

Well ermm..
Hi my name is foxy..
AND I AM A SEX ADDICT..
:giveup:
I feel that being bi-sexual only makes it worse!!!!!
boink
Quote by redangel
Having read about a program on T.V about sex addiction, although it hasnt been shown yet, I thought I'd google it, and see what it came up with.
I had a look at the Sex Addicts Anonymous website, and they have 12 questions to self assess your addiction.
I realise that SAA is a life saving organisation for some people, but I answered yes to several of the 12 questions, including the one above.
Am I really a sex addict?

Are you?

OMG!!! They must know me.. apart from the dodgy bits!!!!!lol
A Useful Tool for Self-Assessment
Answer these twelve questions to assess whether you may have a problem with sexual addiction.
1. Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?
2. Have your needs driven you to have sex in places or situations or with people you would not normally choose?
3. Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media?
4. Do you find that romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with your relationships or are preventing you from facing problems?
5. Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Do you frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?
6. Do you feel shame about your body or your sexuality, such that you avoid touching your body or engaging in sexual relationships? Do you fear that you have no sexual feelings, that you are asexual?
7. Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?
8. Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring the same levels of excitement and relief?
9. Have you ever been arrested or are you in danger of being arrested because of your practices of voyeurism, exhibitionism, prostitution, sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.?
10. Does your pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with your spiritual beliefs or development?
11. Do your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?
12. Has your sexual or romantic behavior ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?
If you answered yes to more than one of these questions, we would encourage you to seek out additional literature as a resource or to attend a Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting to further assess your needs.
The programme was Am I a Sex Addict? with Ulrika Johnson.
I googled it and there is a 20 question questionaire and i think i answered yes to 16 of them. But I don't necessarily feel good about it.
I know I use sex instead of intimacy and I know i use sex to make me feel good about myself, at least for a few hours (or minutes depending on the man).
I hate when I see myself in the mirror and having people on here saying nice things makes me feel better about myself.... for a while.
But the fact is I'm single.... still.... and likely to stay that way cos guys always seem to find someone they like better than me