Has anyone else had sex at work?
Whenever "M" goes away with her boss on conferences, she sleeps with him in the interest of bettering her career!
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Sex God
Quote by sheffieldfun4two
Has anyone else had sex at work?
Whenever "M" goes away with her boss on conferences, she sleeps with him in the interest of bettering her career!
How sad. I would never cheapen the gift of sex by putting a price on it. I would also take no satisfaction whatsoever from gaining a career advantage by any means other than professional merit. I would also have no respect at all for an employee who thought I was stupid enough to be manipulated in such a cynical way. I would also think twice before invading a decent community forum to brag about my wife being a prostitute.
Warming the Bed
A few years ago I met an ex partner of mine at work and had numerous exciting encounters.. the two times that stick in my memory are when we arranged to get into the office very early before anyone else, she was wearing a short black skirt and she just lifted it up, slipped her thong to one side and just slid onto me at my desk.. wow.. the other was when she brought her vibrator into work for some lunch time fun and it fell out of her bag at her desk! You should have seen her face... 
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! lol... Hmmm, well, since the original question was about 'having sex at work' I'll stick to the topic, rather than moralise about other people's lives...
Yes - sex at work is a huge turn-on! I suppose it must be something to do with the 'cloak-and-dagger' nature that makes it particularly exciting.
Then there's the thrill of arranging something and waiting for it to happen, and the surreptitious flirtation that goes on during the day before a lunchtime or after-hours shag!
Very exciting indeed!!!
Yes - sex at work is a huge turn-on! I suppose it must be something to do with the 'cloak-and-dagger' nature that makes it particularly exciting.
Then there's the thrill of arranging something and waiting for it to happen, and the surreptitious flirtation that goes on during the day before a lunchtime or after-hours shag!
Very exciting indeed!!!
Sex God
Yes I have!
Earlier this year I have a couple of *personal contacts* at work
Really fancied the guy who was standing in for the Manager whilst he was on his hols. Spoke to Jon about it and we agreed I could do it - as long as I told him *all* the graphic details when I got home :twisted:
The guy was very surprised with it all, but certainly didn't complain. He said he had never had so much fun in the office
Haven't seen him since, but my boss is going on holiday again in October and guess who will be standing in for him?! :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
Earlier this year I have a couple of *personal contacts* at work
Really fancied the guy who was standing in for the Manager whilst he was on his hols. Spoke to Jon about it and we agreed I could do it - as long as I told him *all* the graphic details when I got home :twisted:
The guy was very surprised with it all, but certainly didn't complain. He said he had never had so much fun in the office
Haven't seen him since, but my boss is going on holiday again in October and guess who will be standing in for him?! :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
Well to keep to the topic...had sex afew times at the old place i worked at...however...i did sleep with a boss but it was not for any gain...just for fun...and we never talked when infront of other people...so no 1 knew about what we got upto in the early hours at the office....
Have saying this the personel manager of this place was given her job through sleeping around with the bosses....every1 knew and she had alot of trouble from us on the factory floor.. what made it worse is she didn't have any qualifications to justify her right to the job....i do not agree with sleeping with the boss to better a career....if your talanted in your profession then sleeping with sum1 important need not b done...u do it on your own merit...
But sex at work is fun if no1 will get hurt from your actions....if sum1 happens to walk in on u then u'll have to explain what u where doing...but i think alot of people do it...but don't admit it...
Have saying this the personel manager of this place was given her job through sleeping around with the bosses....every1 knew and she had alot of trouble from us on the factory floor.. what made it worse is she didn't have any qualifications to justify her right to the job....i do not agree with sleeping with the boss to better a career....if your talanted in your profession then sleeping with sum1 important need not b done...u do it on your own merit...
But sex at work is fun if no1 will get hurt from your actions....if sum1 happens to walk in on u then u'll have to explain what u where doing...but i think alot of people do it...but don't admit it...
Quote by JudyTV
I find myself totally agreeing with Ice Pie here and after some reflection I find myself asking the question ....."Is the use of, or the participation in sexual favours ever justified when used for personal gain or advancement".
My personal view is no, not in general anyway. There will always be exceptions but these exceptions should be few and far between, perhaps if someone is in personal danger or in a life and death situation then of course this is a different issue. Certainly not to either secure ones employment or for any kind of career advancement, Ice is of course right, here it is tantamount to prostitution and therefore the position gained is not because of ones merit or qualification or for a deserved and justifiable reason.
I sit back and wait for the bullets to fly in my general direction. I will be away for a couple of days from Wednesday lunchtime and again from Friday until Sunday night so you can shoot me in my absence.
Judy TV
Judy sorry to hear your away because I realy would like to say this to you and not behind your back. You are usual one person on here who can be relied on to talk sense but not this time!! You are being very judgemental and clearly have no idea of the sort of pressures women face if they want to get on in the work enviroment. Men use other advantages, like the old school chums , socialising etc that we can never, however hard we try join in. women can be used as an advantage sometimes, but it can also bounce back and become a disadvantage. Everyones circumstances are different, pleas dont be so ready to judge and condem!!
What realy annoyed me was Ice Pies use of the word prostitute as an insulte. Prostitutes work hard and their skills, it can be argued, actually help other women to remain safe.
Again its another case of not judgeing others.
For the record yes Ive done the sex at work think, no it wasnt with a superior and I seem to remeber posting something about it on a thread not long ago.
I've had sex in the work place but certainly not with a colleague ...
A lot has already been said about the ethics but I'd just like to add ..... when your girlfriend has advanced her career and moved into another position, is the "boss" going to think that all women act accordingly and try the same on with the next female? How does that lie?
I certainly wouldn't want to work for someone with whom I had to sleep with the gain advancement, I'd much rather work hard and prove my skill and ability than open my legs and be judged on that.
What about her reference in the future? Is the boss likely to brag about his conquest with your girlfriends next boss?
I'm sorry ...... regardless of your girlfriends willingness ...... what is happening is improper for a workplace (work colleagues) and smacks of sexual discrimination. The Sexual Discrimination act was set up to stop this sort of behaviour and here you are perpetuating for future employees!
A lot has already been said about the ethics but I'd just like to add ..... when your girlfriend has advanced her career and moved into another position, is the "boss" going to think that all women act accordingly and try the same on with the next female? How does that lie?
I certainly wouldn't want to work for someone with whom I had to sleep with the gain advancement, I'd much rather work hard and prove my skill and ability than open my legs and be judged on that.
What about her reference in the future? Is the boss likely to brag about his conquest with your girlfriends next boss?
I'm sorry ...... regardless of your girlfriends willingness ...... what is happening is improper for a workplace (work colleagues) and smacks of sexual discrimination. The Sexual Discrimination act was set up to stop this sort of behaviour and here you are perpetuating for future employees!
In my job it happens to many prospective women bosses! That is why although the business is the topdog, the moral and attitude of the staff is crap. because we have bosses who are good at shagging about but not at running the business. I think if it is casual sex between staff and managers it is ok in my books, but like ice says to do it to get further is a cheap trick and to me cheapens the reason. Sorry if it offends.
First on the main subject - yes I have - some time ago now, and yes it was extremely exciting.
However - I am in total agreement with Ice, Judy and Calista. It is 'prostituting' oneself to have sex with someone for personal gain - whatever form that 'gain' takes. I know there are some professions where career advancement is easier for men than women, but that should not mean that you should to use these tactics to get on. It smacks more of potentially blackmailing your way up the ladder.
By all means - if you like the bloke, he likes you and no-one will get hurt - go ahead - but for enjoyment - not to use him!
I'm sure this sounds a bit prudish - I don't mean it to be at all - I just think that there is a world of difference between consenting couples having sex for enjoyment alone and someone having sex for gain - eiher financially or for career advancement.
My apologies if I have come across a little strong - it's difficult to put it anyother way. They are just my feelings on the subject.
However - I am in total agreement with Ice, Judy and Calista. It is 'prostituting' oneself to have sex with someone for personal gain - whatever form that 'gain' takes. I know there are some professions where career advancement is easier for men than women, but that should not mean that you should to use these tactics to get on. It smacks more of potentially blackmailing your way up the ladder.
By all means - if you like the bloke, he likes you and no-one will get hurt - go ahead - but for enjoyment - not to use him!
I'm sure this sounds a bit prudish - I don't mean it to be at all - I just think that there is a world of difference between consenting couples having sex for enjoyment alone and someone having sex for gain - eiher financially or for career advancement.
My apologies if I have come across a little strong - it's difficult to put it anyother way. They are just my feelings on the subject.
Sex God
On reflection, my words were rather harsh, and it is of course not my place to pass moral judgements on people who are not doing anyone any harm, so I apologise unreservedly for that. However, I do still feel that, although I sell my professional skills to the highest bidder, and in that sense prostitute myself every day, my intimate self is not for sale at any price - it is freely given to those I trust to treat it well. The idea of sex being traded like a commodity constitutes, in my mind, the loss of something beautiful, and that is what I find saddening.
Ice
Ice
I have a lot of friends who work in the professional spanking scene (both giving and recieiving). I must say that they are amongst the most professional & wonderful bunch of people I know.
If you would say that they are degrading themselves or losing some intimate part of their being then I guess you've never spent time in the company of professional sex-workers.
I can hear the echoes of those who condemn us as perverts, lacking in morals, decadants in the voices who condemn those who work in the sex industry. It's a kind of moral fugue it seems...
If you would say that they are degrading themselves or losing some intimate part of their being then I guess you've never spent time in the company of professional sex-workers.
I can hear the echoes of those who condemn us as perverts, lacking in morals, decadants in the voices who condemn those who work in the sex industry. It's a kind of moral fugue it seems...
Sex God
Alex,
I work in Wigan, so if you ever fancy sex in my work place.....
I work in Wigan, so if you ever fancy sex in my work place.....
Orgasminator
turned it down a few times not good in the building trade to shag customers, gets in the way of why you are really there, well that to drink lots of tea and steal all the biscuits when they arent looking. 
The working environment is a great place to meet people, so arranging a date and sleeping together afterwards is quite normal.
Obviously the people in this forum are more promiscuous and have recreational sex as a hobby, so we can expect a few wilder stories.
I personally have sex with people at work - at work - nip downstairs into the shower rooms, toilets, or go home for a nooner if you meet somebody who happens to live nearby.
Saves wasting a lot of time, or if you fancy someone who is dull, why waste an evening on them?
I never had a guy I fucked complain that I only wanted him for sex and that I turned down a future date with him.
It's also a great way to arrange 3sums if you have 2 different people you're shagging and arrange to invite them both round.
At one place Richard worked he was shagging a girl he brought home to join in with us for a FFM.
Then he did this with another girl.
Then, the two girls both having been introduced to girl-girl action with me, agreed they'd like to try it with each other, so he brought them both home for a long lunch of 4 way swapping.
When he went back to work, a colleague asked him if he'd been to the pub.
"No, I just had sex with 3 women"
For some reason they thought he was kidding.
Rachel
Obviously the people in this forum are more promiscuous and have recreational sex as a hobby, so we can expect a few wilder stories.
I personally have sex with people at work - at work - nip downstairs into the shower rooms, toilets, or go home for a nooner if you meet somebody who happens to live nearby.
Saves wasting a lot of time, or if you fancy someone who is dull, why waste an evening on them?
I never had a guy I fucked complain that I only wanted him for sex and that I turned down a future date with him.
It's also a great way to arrange 3sums if you have 2 different people you're shagging and arrange to invite them both round.
At one place Richard worked he was shagging a girl he brought home to join in with us for a FFM.
Then he did this with another girl.
Then, the two girls both having been introduced to girl-girl action with me, agreed they'd like to try it with each other, so he brought them both home for a long lunch of 4 way swapping.
When he went back to work, a colleague asked him if he'd been to the pub.
"No, I just had sex with 3 women"
For some reason they thought he was kidding.
Rachel
Quote by sheffieldfun4two
Has anyone else had sex at work?
Whenever "M" goes away with her boss on conferences, she sleeps with him in the interest of bettering her career!
Yep, certainly have. I used to work in the same place as my current GF, and had my own office, and more than a few times we got it on after most everyone else had left. She's quite vocal during sex so she really had to bite her tongue, and I had to cut out the grunts and try not to fuck her too hard from behind (the slap of hip on buttock can't half travel ;-)). Of course we had to get it over with quickly so there was little time for tenderness or foreplay and nearly always it was standing up doggie style, but sometimes a dirty quickie is just what both of you want, with the added frisson of a colleague with your office key popping in by accident. (Of course the real fantasy was for one of our tastier colleagues, M or F, to come in unexpectedly and decide to join in, but that sort of thing only ever happens in cheesy Europorn flix.)
I've never had it off with a boss at work, although I certainly wouldn't have said no - you get your rocks off and earn brownie point. For two years I was a male temp but sadly never got to sit on the bosses' knee or get groped
Mr Licks
Well i dont want to get into the heated topic of is it or isnt it prostitution.?...
but back to the topic YES i have had sex at work but both times with my gorgeous hubby!
the first time was at the office, in the basement where they have a games room lol wink wink yes you guessed it on the snooker table!
the second was at a clients house and we had to christen the cream carpetsooooooooh the memories arehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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love peppsxxxxxxxxxxx
but back to the topic YES i have had sex at work but both times with my gorgeous hubby!
the first time was at the office, in the basement where they have a games room lol wink wink yes you guessed it on the snooker table!
the second was at a clients house and we had to christen the cream carpetsooooooooh the memories arehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
:P :wink: :P :wink: :P :wink: :P :wink: :P :wink: :P :wink: :P :wink: :P :wink: love peppsxxxxxxxxxxx
