As the title say's my wife has cut off my sex life at 60, we have been married for over 40 years and I still love her but don't know if I can stay faithful for much longer, we have had a good sex life she never had a headache when it came to having sex and we had it on a very regular basis and in many different places like the back garden and even in the local woods if we went for a walk albeit some guy was following us and I'm sure he watched us, but then when I hit 60 it stopped, she told me she no longer wanted sex as it felt uncomfortable doing it, so I respected her wishes and we stopped.
But I do need sex or sexy fun now and then like all guys especially as I enjoy it, my wife has been very understanding in our marriage even allowing me to carry out photo-shoots of females from being clothed to naked, I've shot from a 19 year old to a 60 year old, I asked my wife if she had a problem with me doing photographing, she said no as I can trust you, which she can and so far I have managed to shoot them and behave, trust me sometimes it has not been easy when you have a lovely lady in front of you topless or naked on the bed playing, but I have never expected more than a photo-shoot even though I know some of the models would like to have fun, I always gave full respect, I'm not saying if the model made a move on me I wouldn't but it never happened, and it would have to come from the model.
I look on this site and often watch the nice videos of the ladies giving the best blow job I could imagine, again this is a distant dream as my wife would never do this for me, she tried it once and didn't like sucking my cock, and as much as I enjoyed it I respected her and I didn't expect it again, but I do often wonder what it would be like and what I have missed out on but I suppose I will never know.
I visited a supermarket near me in Cornwall where I live, and on the checkout was this very attractive young lady around 25 with long dark hair and a lovely figure, she caught my eye and gave me this wonderful smile and every time I looked at her she smiled, now was I dreaming she fancied me or was she just being polite, I have had some lovely thoughts about her and maybe I should have passed my phone number, then if she was interested she could have made the choice I've been back a couple if times but haven't seen her since but I will keep looking I know some younger ladies like a farther figure, now that would be nice.
So I'm stuck really, do I pursue a bit of fun on this site and others or do I remain faithful and have the occasional wank I don't know what to do, I must be honest I have always had a fantasy of meeting a lady for a photo-shoot and she makes a pass, but as I said that has never happened to me a probably never will, I'm not the sort of person who would make a move on the model they always have respect, I would never suggest fun that would have to come from her but we can all dream.
It would be interesting to hear other peoples thoughts about this.
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Quote by DirtynSquirty
I would have thought that your wife's thoughts on you getting sex elsewhere would be of most benefit to you especially given that she must know you very well after so many years together. Have you discussed with her?
Hi no we have never discussed this at all, I suppose if I felt in a position that I thought it would happen for instance a contact from this site or on a photo-shoot then I would discuss it with my wife, and if she felt ok with it and agreed she didn't mind then I continue but again if she felt it was the wrong thing to do then it wouldn't happen.
I would always respect her feelings and never go behind her back.
So what would you have done if smiler from supermarket had propositioned you?
Hi no we have never discussed this at all, I suppose if I felt in a position that I thought it would happen for instance a contact from this site or on a photo-shoot then I would discuss it with my wife, and if she felt ok with it and agreed she didn't mind then I continue but again if she felt it was the wrong thing to do then it wouldn't happen.
I would always respect her feelings and never go behind her back.
Quote by Cornishtog
I would have thought that your wife's thoughts on you getting sex elsewhere would be of most benefit to you especially given that she must know you very well after so many years together. Have you discussed with her?
Hi no we have never discussed this at all, I suppose if I felt in a position that I thought it would happen for instance a contact from this site or on a photo-shoot then I would discuss it with my wife, and if she felt ok with it and agreed she didn't mind then I continue but again if she felt it was the wrong thing to do then it wouldn't happen.
I would always respect her feelings and never go behind her back.
Quote by DirtynSquirty
So what would you have done if smiler from supermarket had propositioned you?
I would have thought that your wife's thoughts on you getting sex elsewhere would be of most benefit to you especially given that she must know you very well after so many years together. Have you discussed with her?
Hi no we have never discussed this at all, I suppose if I felt in a position that I thought it would happen for instance a contact from this site or on a photo-shoot then I would discuss it with my wife, and if she felt ok with it and agreed she didn't mind then I continue but again if she felt it was the wrong thing to do then it wouldn't happen.
I would always respect her feelings and never go behind her back.
If that had happened I would have chatted and seen what was on offer from this young lady and if she felt she wanted to pursue sexually then I would have chatted with my wife and if approval was given I would have continued, as I said it has to be full respect to my wife, always will be.
Sex at 60 is pushing it, at 60 you need some amount of concentration, keen eyes, and when told to stop you need to stop and pretty quick at that. Also at 60 your awareness of others around you needs to be a little more 'on it'. Of course it needs to be said that at 60 you cant really go up back alleys with any degree of success, maximum caution should therefore be applied.
Still at 40mph it's a much safer bet *wink*
Still at 40mph it's a much safer bet *wink*
skinny's first line of advice does seem the obvious as well as most sensible route to take Cornish.
Any chance you could write up your dark alley experience with Toots and put it in stories section skinny?
Any chance you could write up your dark alley experience with Toots and put it in stories section skinny?
Quote by skinny
Just tell her that "no sex" isn't working for you, then take it from there.
Oh, and don't go up a dark alley wi' Toots
Quote by Toots
Sex at 60 is pushing it, at 60 you need some amount of concentration, keen eyes, and when told to stop you need to stop and pretty quick at that. Also at 60 your awareness of others around you needs to be a little more 'on it'. Of course it needs to be said that at 60 you cant really go up back alleys with any degree of success, maximum caution should therefore be applied.
Still at 40mph it's a much safer bet *wink*
So Toots looks like you think I'm ready for the knackers yard ?
Master of Sex
You talk about respect a lot in your post, especially towards your wife. That's great. Although at times I felt you were perhaps trying to "sell yourself" as an upstanding photographer to any ladies on here..but anyway.. I think the biggest show of respect you can give your wife is to tell HER what you just told all of us! Simples.
For all you know, her cut off might have nothing to do with you or your age..but no one here can tell you.
For all you know, her cut off might have nothing to do with you or your age..but no one here can tell you.
Warming the Bed
if she is finding sex uncomftable wouldnt it be wise for her to see a doctor to rule out anything wrong physically?
