sexless marriage

maybe you need to speak to your wife. Let her know how you feel. It might make it better, I might destroy it but isn't that better than living in a marriage where your unhappy - and she probably is too

Not a sexless marriage but  a low quantity in sex. I've tried many things including talking  to her toys underwear etc. I try to do as much housework as it can be possible to do. 

The love is there just her general lack of desire for sex. Wanking is my main release to keep me going.