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What is it that attracts males and females to each other? is it beauty or youth? eloquence, perhaps money or just plain oldfashioned sex?
Its all done wiv mirrors and magnets OK just like really old magic sets from woolies.
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The moving razor cuts close and having cut moves on
VICTOR KYAM
With Hosty, it was his eyes...
He peered at me over the tops of his half frame spectacles, and it was like he had x-ray vision and suddenly I felt all naked and started to twitch like a bunny rabbit caught in the headlights of a lorry. :inlove:
Then when she had got out of hospital , he apologised and she helped him clean her blood from the grill of his Volvo truck and they fell head over heels ( quite often until her physio started working)
:-)
AAAh sweet love.
I do not claim to be any sort of of expert, but surely initial "sexiness" an even sexual chemistry is strongly linked to body language. For sure, being pretty/handsome helps, but so long as you don't look as though you have been hit by a bus, it is not a prerequisite.
The most sexually attractive people stand and walk tall and look confident ..... Over and above that, there are the small signals like quick eye contact, flicking back the hair (for girls!), and all those other little things, some of which we consciously pick up and others that our underlying animal instincts register.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
What an interesting topic!!!! You certainly won' t get an intelligent answer from me, cuase i just don't have a clue!!!!
And i mean that quite sincerely, unless someone spells it out to me, i'm lost in the wonderment of illusion, anticipation and imagination.!!!!!
Bit of a shame really, if i told everyone i fancied, that i did fancy them, i would need to stay indoors, away from the general public, just to give myself a rest.!!!! Don't think i would need to buy batteries so often though. biggrin
Love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
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I do not claim to be any sort of of expert, but surely initial "sexiness" an even sexual chemistry is strongly linked to body language. For sure, being pretty/handsome helps, but so long as you don't look as though you have been hit by a bus, it is not a prerequisite.
The most sexually attractive people stand and walk tall and look confident ..... Over and above that, there are the small signals like quick eye contact, flicking back the hair (for girls!), and all those other little things, some of which we consciously pick up and others that our underlying animal instincts register.

I think there is nothing more sexually attractive than a man"flicking back his hair"!!
As for everything else its a combination, looks, attitude humour, pheromones etc
God foxy lady, what a fabulous bum xxx
redface
I feel sorry for all of the balding men (of which i am not one...yet) who have read Foxybum's entry. With a bum like that, all of the baldies will be wishing they can flick back some hair (like the man in the Hamlet Ads??) to 'do it' for Foxybum LOL!!!
I think attarction, chemistry, sexual magnetism is very personal. Some people love George Clooney, some like Sean Connery some like Keith Chegwin (OK, maybe that's not true), the fact is, natural selection allows us to fancy different people of all shapes and sizes and that can only be a good thing.
Some people are friend first and become lovers, for some, its animal like lust from day one.
I think its best not to know the answer and let natur takes its course!!
Either way, I know I love Foxybum's foxy bum!!
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What is it that attracts males and females to each other? is it beauty or youth? eloquence, perhaps money or just plain oldfashioned sex?

I think it doesnt matter and can't be catagorised if theres chemistry,theres chemisty,theres not always a simple explanation.
When i met my beloved Steve,there was some chemistry on the night we met but that was highly fueled by alcohol,following that there was just a spark which developed,theres not one thing i could pin it down to.
The chemistry has been there ever since,getting more and more :grin:
If you want the ACTUAL chemical compound . its...................
Smirnoff+chocolate+foreplay divided by compliments over humour to the power of Rohypnol.
Tell no one! Its top secret.
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Over and above that, there are the small signals like quick eye contact, flicking back the hair (for girls!), and all those other little things, some of which we consciously pick up and others that our underlying animal instincts register.

come 'ere a minute??? quietly mind . . . . i thought these hair flicks were just like . . . well just getting the hair out their face when they do that head-swinging, eye-rolling, flinching, tutting thing after me attempted eye contact? have i got it all wrong? it's a bit late to be telling me this now FFS! dunno
and Big G thank you for sharing. ;-) i now have a cunning plan for the notts! hehehehe
neil x x x x ;-)
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If you want the ACTUAL chemical compound . its...................
Smirnoff+chocolate+foreplay divided by compliments over humour to the power of Rohypnol.
Tell no one! Its top secret.

Not fair,i can't stand vodka and can't have chocolate either,looks like im missing out then confused sad
Mars` eyes ensnared me too, and as for the vibes....OH MY GOD! :shock:
He used to have hair down to the middle of his back *sniff* I miss it, but he makes thinning look sexy too! biggrin
It`s those damn cheekbones! *swoon*
Venusxxx
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Its all done wiv mirrors and magnets OK just like really old magic sets from woolies.
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The moving razor cuts close and having cut moves on
VICTOR KYAM

Dem wer de days, wen wee could buy fings from woolies eh Silk and Big G!!!
feel sorry for all of the balding men (of which i am not one...yet) who have read Foxybum's entry. With a bum like that, all of the baldies will be wishing they can flick back some hair (like the man in the Hamlet Ads??) to 'do it' for Foxybum LOL!!!

I dont really see an individual has any problems in any field of attractiveness because they have something missing? Judy is right to ponder, and I feel sorry for her because she has to trawl through the so called 'normal' listings of topics and occasionally finds something she has insight into within her field of likes. I often pm judy, just to say hi, and to let her know I am a friend. I wonder if David Beckham feels less active, or any other star, who has really cut their hair back. Baldness is not a sign of lacking in anything, likewise coming on here is not a sign you are a sexual god. If they could bottle attractiveness and have it on sale you would never get enough. Myself I find the inner person...because people are like shells...what you see aint often what you get?
To me most of the men that I have had relationships with I have got on with really well, I was mates with all of them before we did some horizontal gymnastics lol
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feel sorry for all of the balding men (of which i am not one...yet) who have read Foxybum's entry. With a bum like that, all of the baldies will be wishing they can flick back some hair (like the man in the Hamlet Ads??) to 'do it' for Foxybum LOL!!!

I dont really see an individual has any problems in any field of attractiveness because they have something missing?
Baldness is a siign of too much testestorone.........make what you will of that, because I for one have a field day with Mars :twisted:
Venusxxx
Morbius and I met in a nightclub .. my mate fancied his mate so we kind of got pushed together.
Immediately though there was a spark .... and we chatted all evening, had the last dance of the evening together and a bit of a snog ... i never expected to see him again but I did and I really enjoyed his company.
Humour, looks, consideration, conversation and I suppose some sort of chemical reaction smile I still feel the same way when I look at him now as I did 7 years ago when we met :inlove:
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I do not claim to be any sort of of expert, but surely initial "sexiness" an even sexual chemistry is strongly linked to body language. For sure, being pretty/handsome helps, but so long as you don't look as though you have been hit by a bus, it is not a prerequisite.
The most sexually attractive people stand and walk tall and look confident ..... Over and above that, there are the small signals like quick eye contact, flicking back the hair (for girls!), and all those other little things, some of which we consciously pick up and others that our underlying animal instincts register.

I think there is nothing more sexually attractive than a man"flicking back his hair"!!
I agree, Im a child of the 60s and long hair on blokes makes me week at the knees :grin: As for everything else its a combination, looks, attitude humour, pheromones etc
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When i met my beloved Steve,there was some chemistry on the night we met but that was highly fueled by alcohol,following that there was just a spark which developed,theres not one thing i could pin it down to.
The chemistry has been there ever since,getting more and more :grin:

redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops: Your too lovely my dear,youve made me all warm inside.
Chemistry is great,but generally its a mixture of several may notice how a person looks first,then get to know them,it depends on the people and the situation.
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When i met my beloved Steve,there was some chemistry on the night we met but that was highly fueled by alcohol,following that there was just a spark which developed,theres not one thing i could pin it down to.
The chemistry has been there ever since,getting more and more :grin:

I know what you mean about the chemistry on first meeting... for us though it was a tad one sided... At our first meeting I remember GT smiling at me and flicking my hair commenting on the fact that the reason I'd forgotten to do something was because I was blonde... I just remember my stomach doing a flip flop at his grin...
We were both in relationships with other people at the time so I didn't think anything more about it other than walking away thinking... 'cor blimey - not felt that in a long time!' GT can't actually remember us meeting for the first time... What an impression I made! rolleyes lol
Where do one night stands fit into all of this then?? Although I'm an old gezer now (49), as a young innnocent and not to mention shy, musician in the early 70's, I was shocked at what I witnessed and had access to, on a regular basis when I was suddenly thrown into the world of rock music and night clubs.
If you really want to pee me off very quickly, get a woman (sorry ladies) to tell me that "personality, getting to know the man and a genuine attraction to them is necessary before they can even start to desire sex with them". That may be the case for the odd woman, but she would be VERY ODD!
Female statements like that are absolute rubbish of the highhest order!!! I couldn't count the number of women who have claimed that claptrap within earshot of me, and then took the bloke she has just met straight to bed.
Blokes are usually honest on this one and admit they would be happy to have sex as long as there is a pulse.
I can feel my blood boiling......... mad
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Duck!

Must admit to currently biting my tongue and delaying a response to that one mad
Now there`s a familiar character............ :idea:
Venusxxx
sexual chemistry...shit i was useless at all the sciences at school....so what do I know.
However I will tell you this the attraction can be far better after a few drinks...suddendly all the women look lovely !!!
as I'm sure us guys look better after a few drinks as well. So my advice is buy the girl a drink and you will look far more handsome !!!