Hi! I have been married to my wife for 18 years and in that time we have had some really good sex. Although, sadly, not in recent years, and when we were sexually active it was always just the two of us. The thing is, I've always wanted to see her pleasured by another man or men or showing herself off to other men and being fondled. I have discuused this with her and, although she doesn't protest, she says she would never allow another person into our relationship. My point is, even thou I want a lot more sex, and to see my wife with other men, I love her more than anything else in the world and will accept that it's not going to happen. So, basically, sexual compatability in a relationship is a bonus! What do other members think?
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Sexual compatability, is it a bonus?
Sexlightened
With out doubt, if you are not compatible sexualy, in most relationship's thing's do go wrong in the end,I am fortunate or unfortunate enough to have a extreamly high sex drive, and in my relationships in the past it as alway ended and started in the same way, to start with partners have alway thought it was christmas and birthday's rolled into one, I not just blowing my own trumpet here, I don't mean the usual man shag, a quick rub slip[ it in and fall asleep, to me its the whole experience, kissing, massage oral "I love oral," I could eat it for breakfast dinner and tea, yes a quicky can be fun, coming home at dinner time and lifting her bottom up onto the kitchen side and well, you know the rest, but after a while thing's alway's go the same way, which leads to marathon wanking session's, and a feeling of resentment no matter how much I love them,only a couple of time's in my life have I come across some one how fit's in to my life style like a glove, but then also sex isn't every thing and other factor's come into play, at the moment I have found one such person and thing's are better than at any other in my life, so in answer sexual compatiblity is improtant, but not the end of the world.
Now if you are lucky enough to find a partner that you love that is not compatible, who dosn't mind you playing with one that is, then you in heaven, lol.
Now if you are lucky enough to find a partner that you love that is not compatible, who dosn't mind you playing with one that is, then you in heaven, lol.
Sex God
Can you get a tgungy that makes sexual compatibility with a usb socket avaiable? Or do I have to really on my old floppy?
Sex God
OMG If there's ever abvreason to check a post before hitting submit its my post before this one. My sincere apology to anyone of a literary nervous disposition.
Whips..external harddrives give me Mega bits of gig gles although Mrs Lost likes to think they would ram her to capacity - Oooooerrrr i've come over all Benny Hillish
Whips..external harddrives give me Mega bits of gig gles although Mrs Lost likes to think they would ram her to capacity - Oooooerrrr i've come over all Benny Hillish
Quote by Lost
OMG If there's ever abvreason to check a post before hitting submit its my post before this one. My sincere apology to anyone of a literary nervous disposition.
Whips..external harddrives give me Mega bits of gig gles although Mrs Lost likes to think they would ram her to capacity - Oooooerrrr i've come over all Benny Hillish
funny i'd never seen you as benny hill but now you say it ....
Sex God
Quote by willing2try_4
OMG If there's ever abvreason to check a post before hitting submit its my post before this one. My sincere apology to anyone of a literary nervous disposition.
Whips..external harddrives give me Mega bits of gig gles although Mrs Lost likes to think they would ram her to capacity - Oooooerrrr i've come over all Benny Hillish
funny i'd never seen you as benny hill but now you say it ....
:lol2:
Eh?
Bollox 2trying!
Quote by Lost
OMG If there's ever abvreason to check a post before hitting submit its my post before this one. My sincere apology to anyone of a literary nervous disposition.
Whips..external harddrives give me Mega bits of gig gles although Mrs Lost likes to think they would ram her to capacity - Oooooerrrr i've come over all Benny Hillish
funny i'd never seen you as benny hill but now you say it ....
:lol2:
Eh?
Bollox 2trying!
yeah yeah ya wuvs me really you old git :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by willing2try_4
OMG If there's ever abvreason to check a post before hitting submit its my post before this one. My sincere apology to anyone of a literary nervous disposition.
Whips..external harddrives give me Mega bits of gig gles although Mrs Lost likes to think they would ram her to capacity - Oooooerrrr i've come over all Benny Hillish
funny i'd never seen you as benny hill but now you say it ....
:lol2:
Eh?
Bollox 2trying!
yeah yeah ya wuvs me really you old git :twisted:
Nah I just tolerate J lusting after you's
You know how i find it all so tedious 
So what we doing when next then
Sexlightened
It wouldn't be life if it wasn't
Sexpert
sexual compatability is a must
understanding each others needs is the icing on the cake
:-)
understanding each others needs is the icing on the cake
:-)
Quote by duncanlondon
In most cases its down to luck.
Only a few fortunate people are taught to explore enough to find what suits them. unfortunately for most people, they jump in at one of the first opportunities and realise later that they overlooked several important things.
That's a very good point, it's worth thinking with your head sometimes and not just your dick I guess.
