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Sex God
That's it LibraLove start them young. 
Sex God
Thats fucking ridiculous..... I dread to think how often my daughter's gonna get told off.. she's one of the most huggy/kissy kids at her nursery!! It really pisses me off the sort of rules they are imposing on kids now. At my local primary school (don't know if its all over or not) the girls aren't allowed to do handstands any more.. coz they flash their knickers!!! 
Its all pathetic nonsense!!!
Its all pathetic nonsense!!! 
Mod
Don't worry honey. If it makes you feel any better, you can do some handstands next week. You will only show your nickers when you pull them out your pocket!! :twisted:
As for the original post - the world is getting pc silly nowadays. Limits are fine, but tempered with common sense!
Mal
As for the original post - the world is getting pc silly nowadays. Limits are fine, but tempered with common sense!
Mal
Sex God
Jees!! Thats attrocious!
Kiss Chase was de riguer when i was ickle!
And I made sure i had my best knickers on for school i.e Snoopy, Sindy etc, ready for when the boys lifted up my skirt!
The world surely has gone PC mad.
Kiss Chase was de riguer when i was ickle!
And I made sure i had my best knickers on for school i.e Snoopy, Sindy etc, ready for when the boys lifted up my skirt!
The world surely has gone PC mad.
:banghead: :banghead: What is this world coming to?
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I remember an afternoon when I was about 7 I decided it'd be fun to run around the playground pinching girls on the bum. The teacher gave me telling off, which I can still remember today, the gist of which was that if you pinch people on the bum it gives them cancer. (No, really!) But I never did it again. (Of course, about ten minutes later a bunch of other kids held me down while they put grass cuttings down my trousers, which may also have had something to do with it. :shock: )
I guess if I was 7 again and did that now, I'd find myself in court on a charge.
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There's a pretty good page of rants about similar ridiculous over-reactions in mostly-American schools here:
On the one hand this is funny... right up until you remember that there's real people making these stupid decisions (and they can vote too), and these are real children being messed around with, with real parents who have every right to be incensed at the pea-brained stupidity of the people they entrust with their children's wellbeing.
Ask to be given a copy of the schools behaviour and discipline policy with regards to pupils and see what is mentioned in there. If nothing is mentioned in the policy regarding this type of behaviour ask them to review the policy and add something to cover this type of incident and make sure it's distributed to all parents, it is one of your rights as a parent to do this. It will cause hell for the teachers and head teacher and will soon make them rethink their stand on the issue, it will take at least 3 months of hard work for them to comply with your request, if they want to be shity then you can be shity back!
By the way I’m a chair of governors a vice chair of governors and a parent governor and I know how much the school will hate it!!!!!
By the way I’m a chair of governors a vice chair of governors and a parent governor and I know how much the school will hate it!!!!!
Quote by butters999999
Ask to be given a copy of the schools behaviour and discipline policy with regards to pupils and see what is mentioned in there. If nothing is mentioned in the policy regarding this type of behaviour ask them to review the policy and add something to cover this type of incident and make sure it's distributed to all parents, it is one of your rights as a parent to do this. It will cause hell for the teachers and head teacher and will soon make them rethink their stand on the issue, it will take at least 3 months of hard work for them to comply with your request, if they want to be shity then you can be shity back!
By the way I’m a chair of governors a vice chair of governors and a parent governor and I know how much the school will hate it!!!!!
Nice one, bloody good idea, & it would EDUCATE (pun definitely intended) them about such stupidity.
Quote by Libra-Love
I honestly wish I was joking. They hauled him and I into the office and told him off for being bad.
I'm so fucking angry right now
How horribly intimidating for a child who`s not long started school. Give him a big cuddle from me.
Second thoughts best not :shock:
(((Libra)))
Venusxxx
That's PC for you!....our son is nine and another boy accused him of making a sexual movement on him.....which he was totally oblivious about....but the teachers panicked about the complaint and i had to go up to the school....to cut a long short the boy had lied and our son had only banged into him in the playground and because he came off worse made up the because of all this our son now knows certain things that he did not know before and wasn't really ready to understand!
But to your story to have a go at a five year old for kissing a was just showing affection nothing more than that so why should the school make it worse than it seems!
We all played games like kiss chase and postman knock at school and did us no harm!
I hope the telling off does not affect your son he're be scared to give his mum a kiss!
But to your story to have a go at a five year old for kissing a was just showing affection nothing more than that so why should the school make it worse than it seems!
We all played games like kiss chase and postman knock at school and did us no harm!
I hope the telling off does not affect your son he're be scared to give his mum a kiss!
That is so VERY fucking stupid
Why oh why tell a child off for something so natural as to show affection to someone they 's 5 ffs he should be show when and where is appropriate. I work in a special school and the kids love to show us affection, but we don't tell them off. Just asy to them "save kisses for mummy and daddy"
People like that sooooo piss me right off :x
Why oh why tell a child off for something so natural as to show affection to someone they 's 5 ffs he should be show when and where is appropriate. I work in a special school and the kids love to show us affection, but we don't tell them off. Just asy to them "save kisses for mummy and daddy"
People like that sooooo piss me right off :x
Poor little muffin.
I'm really interested in the psychology of sexuality and it's stuff like this that makes me soooo sad. Children are being taught that natural interactions are wrong and immoral...he'll probably remember this, it's that type of memory that sticks. Even if he did 'fancy' her (i fancied the pants off Kevin Thorne when I was 5!), these little rituals and play gestures are an important part of growing into a sexually un-screwed up adult!
I'm really interested in the psychology of sexuality and it's stuff like this that makes me soooo sad. Children are being taught that natural interactions are wrong and immoral...he'll probably remember this, it's that type of memory that sticks. Even if he did 'fancy' her (i fancied the pants off Kevin Thorne when I was 5!), these little rituals and play gestures are an important part of growing into a sexually un-screwed up adult!
This makes me angry too! Children are not alowed to be children any more! Adults imposing their moral world views on children. What's the problem FFS! Is he going to pass on a disease or something! I think this kind of PC nonsense is an abuse in itself, because it may affect the childs natural inclination towards affection.
LC
LC
Sex God
Expressing physical affection is instinctive, and stifling it (out of fear of the compensation culture and being accused of whatever the sick-minded PC brigade choose to read into it) can only lead to people growing up repressed and unable to form normal human relationships. I believe children should be guided, but not controlled because I have confidence that after a million years of evolution they pretty much know what to do, and meddling with normal instinctive behaviour is presumptuous and, I believe, dangerous.
Master of Sex
i recall my first kisses (age 8) with maria (age 6) behind the dumper truck opposite our houses. shortly afterwards her family moved to australia, which i thought was a little extreme.
good luck, libra.
good luck, libra.
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Casanova
My 5 year old is a sweet lovely little boy (when he isnt torturing the cat), he would think nothing of kissing and cuddling with other boys from his class, at partys the boys dance with each other (well run about like dafties) no-one could see it as sexual, (unless there has been a problem in the past, but that surely would be an exception to the rule).
Children will naturally express there affection for each other by kissing, its nothing more than affection, they will embrace each other like they have not seen each other for months, where in reality they saw each other 20 minutes ago. You take them to school and stand there in the freezing bloody cold waving at them when the lines get taken in, and what do they do they bloody ignore you and wave at there pals.
I learned so much from girls doing handstands at school, and think it is very wrong for my boys to miss out on that, games of "doctors and nurses" and "mums and dads" will obviously be a big no no, that meana "hide and seek" will be even more important to them (this is where I first got to stick my hand up a girls skirt ) a good hiding place will give them ample oppertunity to find out what they need to. We will have sexually repressed children but they will be bloody good at hiding
Children will naturally express there affection for each other by kissing, its nothing more than affection, they will embrace each other like they have not seen each other for months, where in reality they saw each other 20 minutes ago. You take them to school and stand there in the freezing bloody cold waving at them when the lines get taken in, and what do they do they bloody ignore you and wave at there pals.
I learned so much from girls doing handstands at school, and think it is very wrong for my boys to miss out on that, games of "doctors and nurses" and "mums and dads" will obviously be a big no no, that meana "hide and seek" will be even more important to them (this is where I first got to stick my hand up a girls skirt ) a good hiding place will give them ample oppertunity to find out what they need to. We will have sexually repressed children but they will be bloody good at hiding
Most of all I want these kids to have a better time of it than I did - I went through so much adolescent angst,so much loneliness over what should have been a sweet natural joy to resonated through my adult life and here I am still,trying to resolve it all in myself.I want to see them live as they desire and not feel shame or be reproached for simply being human beings.
Well when I was at school I played Knicker Chase which bascially was where the boys chased the girls and if they caught them then they pulled down their knickers......of course we got caught and me and a guy got hauled into the Headmistress's office and I blamed the guy LoL......
But back to the original subject....I think it's absolutely ludicrous that kids can't be affectionate with each other and give each other a little kiss and cuddle....we certainly did worse when we were kids.....
But back to the original subject....I think it's absolutely ludicrous that kids can't be affectionate with each other and give each other a little kiss and cuddle....we certainly did worse when we were kids.....
Sex God
OMG hun just read this thread The Schools are getting worse, kissing and cuddling is a natural thing to a child of that age
i thought not letting them play conkers without a pair of goggles and gloves ridiculous but this takes the biscuit.
hes only 5 years old ffs
butters is correct ask for the school policy if its not there cause em as much work as you can.
A friend of mine had her hubby moved out the house. After a chance remark from her daughter at school, Social services stepped in kept that family apart for 3 months. he was allowed home after a lot of meetings and interviews.
the reason for this
He blew a raspberry on his daughters bottom while they were playing.
i thought not letting them play conkers without a pair of goggles and gloves ridiculous but this takes the biscuit.
hes only 5 years old ffs
butters is correct ask for the school policy if its not there cause em as much work as you can.
A friend of mine had her hubby moved out the house. After a chance remark from her daughter at school, Social services stepped in kept that family apart for 3 months. he was allowed home after a lot of meetings and interviews.
the reason for this
He blew a raspberry on his daughters bottom while they were playing.
Thank you all who have added to this thread, especially to Butters for your advice. I've asked for a copy of the schools behaviour and discipline policy and will collect it this afternoon. But after this mornings phone conversation with the Head Mistress I think a good lawyer is what I need.
UPDATE
My son and 9 other children have been enrolled into a *teaching children how to play* programme at the school.
This is a situation I cannot accept nor am I willing to walk away from it.
UPDATE
My son and 9 other children have been enrolled into a *teaching children how to play* programme at the school.
This is a situation I cannot accept nor am I willing to walk away from it.
