Sexual tastes

26 Jun 2005

I've been thinking about my sexual preferences and have come to the conclusion that my "tastes" have broadened a lot in the past 2 years or so.... I know I'm only a young'un but I'm much more willing to try different things and different people than I was before.
I find more people sexually attractive and they're all different to what I used to consider attractive.
Is this because I've come into contact with people I wouldn't have done in real life? Or is it part of growing up and finding out what you like and dislike? Personally I think it's a mixture of both.
So now it's time for your interaction:
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
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26 Jun 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
I've been thinking about my sexual preferences and have come to the conclusion that my "tastes" have broadened a lot in the past 2 years or so.... I know I'm only a young'un but I'm much more willing to try different things and different people than I was before.
I find more people sexually attractive and they're all different to what I used to consider attractive.
Is this because I've come into contact with people I wouldn't have done in real life? Or is it part of growing up and finding out what you like and dislike? Personally I think it's a mixture of both.
So now it's time for your interaction:
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?

I think so, since meeting my wife ( Smoking Muff ) I have learnt to appreciate, interracial, bi- and homosexuality, group / orgy, outdoor sex ( not dogging as I understand it ), daring sex, hetro anal, etc, etc, - I feel I am even losing the feelings of jealousy I initially had when we started exploring byond the boundries of mono-amourous sex. As for where I am going on this journey of sexual exploration - DFK-DFC - I'm enjoying the ride.
BTW onlyme1981 - kiss

nice thread, I look forward to see what others put.

26 Jun 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?

No, but my arse has. (____I____) :shock:

26 Jun 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?

No, but my arse has. (____I____) :shock:
Same here - along with responsibility, bills, work.
Just a shame the wages haven't kept up..........

26 Jun 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?

No, but my arse has. (____I____) :shock:
Hehehe.... mine too but we won't go there! (pun intended)

26 Jun 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?

No, but my arse has. (____I____) :shock:
Hehehe.... mine too but we won't go there! (pun intended)
I see your sexual tastes haven't broadened quite as far as you might imply or as far as I ( for one ) would hope.
*smokerjim takes the huff, and flounces off - but only as far as he needs to make the point, while still being able to eavesdrop the convo....*

26 Jun 2005

Quote by smokerjim
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?

No, but my arse has. (____I____) :shock:
Hehehe.... mine too but we won't go there! (pun intended)
I see your sexual tastes haven't broadened quite as far as you might imply or as far as I ( for one ) would hope.
*smokerjim takes the huff, and flounces off - but only as far as he needs to make the point, while still being able to eavesdrop the convo....*
There is only so much broadening one can take! :grin:
Don't make me hi-jack my own post again! smackbottom

26 Jun 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?

No, but my arse has. (____I____) :shock:
Hehehe.... mine too but we won't go there! (pun intended)
I see your sexual tastes haven't broadened quite as far as you might imply or as far as I ( for one ) would hope.
*smokerjim takes the huff, and flounces off - but only as far as he needs to make the point, while still being able to eavesdrop the convo....*
There is only so much broadening one can take! :grin:
Don't make me hi-jack my own post again! smackbottom

I've never liked the idea of pain - but who knows how I'll feel about it tomorrow?
As for the other....well if you don't mind, I'll tell you in a PM - if that's alright?

26 Jun 2005

Well as we get older we get wiser - theorically that is. So some of the things that we grew up with as becomes less and less scarey, not to mention that we become bolder and bolder.
As to my ermm tastes, well was always a society norm deviant but yes horizons, waist and back side have broadened. Thank god my waist and ass have not expanded at the same rate as my horizons. :crazy: :crazy:

26 Jun 2005

Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Mine have but more since i past 40 years of age
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Before 40 I was totally into one on one straight sex, with a little kink
since 40, now experianced, a bi side i never knew I had, had some fun with
a tranny which was really great and gentle, interracial sex is next on the list,
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
I now look at people in a totally differant way, everyone is not the same, Black/Whire/Boy/Girl. Its great to have found I can stil be normal and like differant
things

26 Jun 2005

Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Absolutely! I'm not as shallow as I use to be (sexybriefs where are you?). Give me child-like playfulness over looks anyday please.
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
:rascal: :grin:
Oh yes....
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
Well I've had the 20 stone body-builder and the 23 stone fat man. Who knew fat could be so much fun. I was like a kid on an amusment ride :twisted:
And the oldest person I see regularly is a very sweet 68 year old gentleman. So yes, I'd say my taste have change, boundries have been moved and there's always something new waiting to be explored just around the corner.

26 Jun 2005

Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Very much so.
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Oh Yes :twisted:
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
Variety has most definitley become the spice of life :twisted: :twisted:

26 Jun 2005

Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Yup! I think I've always had a lot of ideas over the years and as time goes on you get to try a few of them and then you get more ideas ! It's also about understanding that sex is fun and being able to have sex without it being more, or rather at least without expecting more.
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Yes I think that's probably true. It's hard to say, again time adds to what you'll try with experience.
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
I like all sorts. Obviously I think most people would love to have sex with hotties, but they're not usually the ones that are best at sex. They can be a little uptight. If you're a size 16 rather than a size 12, (or whatever), sometimes you're just less up yourself and prepared to have more fun. I try not to judge books by their covers and just enjoy experiences. Of course I still love to look at slim cute ladies, but when it comes to having fun there's a lot more to it than just the body!
Tiggs smile

26 Jun 2005

Quote by tiggs
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Yup! I think I've always had a lot of ideas over the years and as time goes on you get to try a few of them and then you get more ideas ! It's also about understanding that sex is fun and being able to have sex without it being more, or rather at least without expecting more.
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Yes I think that's probably true. It's hard to say, again time adds to what you'll try with experience.
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
I like all sorts. Obviously I think most people would love to have sex with hotties, but they're not usually the ones that are best at sex. They can be a little uptight. If you're a size 16 rather than a size 12, (or whatever), sometimes you're just less up yourself and prepared to have more fun. I try not to judge books by their covers and just enjoy experiences. Of course I still love to look at slim cute ladies, but when it comes to having fun there's a lot more to it than just the body!
Tiggs

Scratches tiggs off her maybe list :notes: and takes her head out from up her size 8 self.

26 Jun 2005

Hahaha Libra+Love - i simply mean't that it's not just the body that counts. I find that sometimes slim chicks can be a bit self interested and so dont have as much fun. There are plenty that arent of course! hahaha. lol

Size doesn't really matter that much, as you said yourself biggrin

And nice Avatar btw ;)

26 Jun 2005

Quote by tiggs
Hahaha Libra+Love - i simply mean't that it's not just the body that counts. I find that sometimes slim chicks can be a bit self interested and so dont have as much fun. There are plenty that arent of course! hahaha. Size doesn't really matter that much, as you said yourself
And nice Avatar btw ;)

:lol: Playing with you babe. Did not seriously take offense. Promise, you'll know when I do wink

And ta for the comp....the nurse or the eggs? :haha:

26 Jun 2005

Heh good I hoped so ;) The nursey one. Nicely packaged!

26 Jun 2005

Quote by tiggs
Heh good I hoped so ;) The nursey one. Nicely packaged!

:P But the eggs get to stay, expecially for TnH and his bouncy boobies avatar thread.
Sorry for the hijack onlyme1981

26 Jun 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
definitely!
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
to a certain extent, yes
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?tend to go for the person before the package these days

26 Jun 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Yes
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Oh yes, still got lots more to try though :twisted:
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different? I guess I am generally attracted to a certain type initially, but as I said earlier, my tastes have broadened over time

26 Jun 2005

Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Yes, in a way tho I still like the look of these young 18 year olds flashing their midrifts and the occassional thong flash. boink

Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Not yet!! :rascal:
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
In terms of sexual encouters the looks of my....erm.....victims wink

......have varied but those I've had longish relationships with have been very similar!

26 Jun 2005

Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Definitely
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Yes. I think a lot of it is to do with being more comfortable with myself and having bags more self confidence now I`ve hit my 30s
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
I definitely have a "type" but sometimes I surprise myself by the people I`m sexually attracted to.

27 Jun 2005

the answer to the question,most joininy the site ie the personals,i had a certain type of lady in mind,but all that changes very quickly as 'like someone else said its alot to do with what going on in your head and how sexy the situation your in.
i would like to think iv been around the block till i met a few people in the personals small,big,tall,and round and its all about pressing the right buttons,ive had just as many good times with larger ladys as with your model types.
so as the ad says ' JUST DO IT'
and enjoy all

27 Jun 2005

I'll answer my own questions now (forgot about that!)
My tastes have definitely broadened....be it personality wise, looks wise, friendship wise, sex wise.... in fact in all ways! (or should that be in all wise?! smile

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Not sure about the activities..... I'm still pretty shy about certain things but I have done more than I ever thought I would.....if my mum only knew what I've been up to........ :twisted:
I don't really have a set "type"...... personality gets me first every time but there does have to be some attraction there obviously! biggrin

27 Jun 2005

I think my tastes have stayed pretty much the same its just harder as you get older to find willing particiPANTS. biggrin

27 Jun 2005

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Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Maybe not broadened, more more confident to actually talk about my tastes - when a bit younger felt like a perv for some of the things i like - now come to the conclusion that once you talk about things to partners I actually have "normal" tastes, just i'll come out and say them first!
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Yes, but due to experience and confidence.
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
Must admit to being quite picky on this bit, always have been and think I always will.
What has changed is that i can actually have friendships with women now, i used to be incredibly shallow and really just want women for a relationship / sex. Now i can get to know someone and if that "thing" aint there can be actually a good friend and stay in touch - thats a big change for me. - probs Maturity??
I'll be totally honest - i was the classical bastard bloke who had his brains in his pants! Done some horrible things that i now deeply regret, but have changed for the better and have a few good female friends now. - may not have done myself any favours with that admission!!

28 Jun 2005

1) yes in a way tho id say they narrowed then rebroadened
2) most definitly coz im becoming less shy about things .. though i still think im going to die of embaresment at the start of every meet biggrin

3) have to say no coz once apon a time not so long ago i wouldnt have spoken to men for friendship purposes let alone to satisfy bi tendances and only really had female friends/ encounters
heaysy
1) yes
2) yes coz thers so much fun to be had :D
3) no coz i didnt look at fems as for mor than friends and now look at men thinking hmm thier nice i wonder if matt fancies them too ;)
crystal

28 Jun 2005

variety is the spice of life
i would not turn a lady down on looks alone
there needs to be a bit of chemistry there
so in conclusion yes i have a broader sexual outlook

28 Jun 2005

Guess when I was younger I had a much more fixed idea of what turned me on and didn't.
As I've got older I've relaxed, I'm more confident and very much more accepting of people. FIgure now it's how you feel with or around a person and that lots of our preconceptions actually dont apply.
Think I'd be up for anything but it would be the other person or people that made me want to do it.

28 Jun 2005

Having not even met anyone yet I'm still changing.
I would not have been up for a MMF 3sum before coming on here now its right up there :twisted: