Hi everyone!
I found these posts really interesting because it's only fairly recently that I've come round to thinking that I shouldn't feel guilty about being attracted both ways. I was a bit of a raver in my school days at a boys only school but then 'discovered' girls and went off the boys idea for a bit. As I've got older I've found myself attracted back again and had a few pleasurable experiences. I agree that at the end of the day one is what one is. It can't really be altered - if you get strong feelings it's difficult not to go with them - so I don't feel guilty anymore but do try to go carefully and safely.
But I agree that there are people out there who seem really anti the bi thing and I find that a bit difficult to understand. After all they don't have to get involved if they don't want to, do they?