Apologies in advance if this has been done before....can't find anything that allows me to look up old thread titles.....I'm sure someone will tell me if i've messed up!!
Do you think sex appeal crosses over from one sex to the other....if men find someone sexy, will women too?
I'm worried that this is a stupid question...but it intrigues me.
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Sexy....male and female.
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i think maybe men and women find different things sexy.....
I would say that bit goes a little bit further into all individuals find different things sexy ;)
While both a man and a woman might find say Angelina Jolie sexy, chances are the man would like one part more than the woman...then if there was another woman who fancied her, they might like something else the first man and woman didn't etc etc...
Does that make sense ?
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Does that make sense ?
Nah
You pissed again per chance???
Actually the answer did make perfect sense to me
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Does that make sense ?
Nah
You pissed again per chance???
Actually the answer did make perfect sense to me
No! I have only had one drink ffs!
:smackbottom: Now no hi-jacking of the nice lady's thread please Mr Lard-ass
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I wasn't hijacking, your answer did make sense. What one person describes as sexy is not likely to be what someone else does. We all have differing tastes after all.
Actually it does make sense to me.....but I have had a big glass of wine!
Of course it's an individual thing....I do appreciate that....I just wondered (sort of out loud) if any of the sexiness that one sex perceived would cross over to the other sex.
Now I'm not making sense.....could be because i find Minx's picture terribly attractive :giggle:
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Of course it's an individual thing....I do appreciate that....I just wondered (sort of out loud) if any of the sexiness that one sex perceived would cross over to the other sex.
Now I'm not making sense.....could be because i find Minx's picture terribly attractive :giggle:
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I met a woman once who I did not find attractive or sexy, but we were in a group of friends who went back to my mates mums house and it got a bit rauncy and she stripped off, put a dildo up her and crawled accross the kitchen worktop, it still rates as one of the most sexy things I have seen. Strange really, a woman I found unattractive doing something that made her very sexy.
And before you ask, yes we did have sex, but so did everyone else!.
And before you ask, yes we did have sex, but so did everyone else!.
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Now I'm not making sense.....could be because i find Minx's picture terribly attractive :giggle:
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Exactly my point, not everyone has the same taste
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Now I'm not making sense.....could be because i find Minx's picture terribly attractive :giggle:
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Exactly my point, not everyone has the same taste
Leave Minxy alone!
I think she's :inlove:
Awww Dollop!! Where have you been ?
I have been wondering why Lard-ass was calling me MtheM-it must stand for MinxtheMinger
chashoniton-it must be the wine love ;)
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Of course it's an individual thing....I do appreciate that....I just wondered (sort of out loud) if any of the sexiness that one sex perceived would cross over to the other sex.
I suppose my thinking on this is that in general yes, males and females will find the same things sexy to a degree..dunno if that helps I am gettting confused! :silly:
Minx x x
In edit: a major difference I have noticed is that a lot of the males I know find physical and visual things more sexy than females and most females I know find more subtle things sexy, like a filthy text message or an erotic story for example. But that kinda rules me out cos I love porn as much as the next bloke
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Doesn't it depend on the sexuality as opposed to the sex of the observer?
A straight woman is unlikely to find a woman sexy although she may acknowledge that by common standards she is. But if she's bi or gay then she'll find her as sexy as a straight man might.
Shit I'm confusing me now.
Binxy, got any more wine in the bottle?
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A straight woman is unlikely to find a woman sexy although she may acknowledge that by common standards she is. But if she's bi or gay then she'll find her as sexy as a straight man might.
Shit I'm confusing me now.
Binxy, got any more wine in the bottle?
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Binxy, got any more wine in the bottle?
And perhaps an open fire and soft rug in front of it?
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Doesn't it depend on the sexuality as opposed to the sex of the observer?
A straight woman is unlikely to find a woman sexy although she may acknowledge that by common standards she is. But if she's bi or gay then she'll find her as sexy as a straight man might.
Shit I'm confusing me now.
Binxy, got any more wine in the bottle?
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Leave me out of this one I am in a right pickle
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Lard-ass ;)
What did I do
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Binxy, got any more wine in the bottle?
And perhaps an open fire and soft rug in front of it?
I have and it's an enormous rug. P'raps the lovely Minx can pop over and we can see if three fit on it.
Just to keep the thread on topic and speaking as a welshman that's the first time I've considered an offer from a sheep as sexy! :giggle:
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Just to keep the thread on topic and speaking as a welshman that's the first time I've considered an offer from a sheep as sexy! :giggle:
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Aha!! There's a difference right away! I have never had an offer from a sheep that has been sexy...rams on the other hand....
S'my second name - didnt ya know? Tune "Ram" Essence
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You're all very naughty you know
I agree with Minxy about men going more for the physical attraction whereas women tend to pick up on the more subtle hints as we're generally better at reading body language than men.
That said, I can perv over a woman's sexy pics just as well as a man can and you're right to find Minxy sexy chas. She's even lovelier close up :twisted:
I agree with Minxy about men going more for the physical attraction whereas women tend to pick up on the more subtle hints as we're generally better at reading body language than men.
That said, I can perv over a woman's sexy pics just as well as a man can and you're right to find Minxy sexy chas. She's even lovelier close up :twisted:
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You're all very naughty you know
I agree with Minxy about men going more for the physical attraction whereas women tend to pick up on the more subtle hints as we're generally better at reading body language than men.
That said, I can perv over a woman's sexy pics just as well as a man can and you're right to find Minxy sexy chas. She's even lovelier close up :twisted:
I can vouch for that too Sassy......
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Sorry to cause total confusion and then go to bed!
Didn't mean to be confusing...........
God, i don't know!!!.....today Chas said that of course there are plenty of men who wouldn't find me sexy cos I just wouldn't be their type......
can't decide if i'm hurt or not!!! :shock:
have looked at your pics
and if there is a man on this planet who doesnt find you in the least bit sexy then he must be dead. :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: If you look at men's magazines (I mean the men's health type not the slightly harder porn type) the women in them are a very definite type. Invariably they have big boobs, lots of hair, lots of make-up - you know the type of thing. However, if you look at women's magazines, the women in them are of a completely different shape and presentation. Usually very thin, generally shorter hair, more natural make-up.
Now the question is, are the men's magazines catering for men's taste and giving them what they want or implying that that's what men should find attractive? Equally, are the women's magazines catering for what women aspire to or dictating to them.
I'm not sure you can say gay or bi women have a 'type' that they find attractive, just the same as you can't say that all men find a certain 'type' of woman attractive. It's a personal thing. I once read that each 'type 'only appeals to 5% of the population, so I would say that that would be true for either gender, whether they were looking for the same or the opposite sex. Although I would argure with it because, if Angalina Jolie only appeals to 5% of the population I may aswell become celebate now!!!!!
H.x
Now the question is, are the men's magazines catering for men's taste and giving them what they want or implying that that's what men should find attractive? Equally, are the women's magazines catering for what women aspire to or dictating to them.
I'm not sure you can say gay or bi women have a 'type' that they find attractive, just the same as you can't say that all men find a certain 'type' of woman attractive. It's a personal thing. I once read that each 'type 'only appeals to 5% of the population, so I would say that that would be true for either gender, whether they were looking for the same or the opposite sex. Although I would argure with it because, if Angalina Jolie only appeals to 5% of the population I may aswell become celebate now!!!!!
H.x
