shagging partners / bunny boilers etc

20 Jun 2004

look i'm confused
is it at all possible to have a regular shag buddy without her thinking, despite dozens of convos, that she's now a g/f and getting all scary, stalker, bunny boiler all of a sudden?
i've been completely honest again and again and again, but shagging on a 3-4 times weekly basis sending the wrong message obviously?????
she's a lovely girl but has never been / will never be a g/f, and thought i'd made that abundantly clear??????? dunno

all advice gratefully received........
neil x x x x x x x

20 Jun 2004

Neil mate,
Yer as good as married :shock: wink

You'll have to get a new identity and move, and all that other gubbins, get a round the clock police protection.
Tell her your really gay and was only experimenting to see if it were true or not - tell her to log on the chat room and ask, she'll get told in there biggrin

about your real sexual persuasion rolleyes

:wink: :D

20 Jun 2004

Quote by Jon_TJ sarcastic bastard funny fecker
Tell her your really gay and was only experimenting to see if it were true or not - tell her to log on the chat room and ask, she'll get told in there about your real sexual persuasion!

my fear exactly. she's bin in the chatroom often enuf, on a kinda stalking, deep throat ball wash basis.............erm..........now what FFS!
younger than me, fantastic sex, ((( IMHO ))) alpha male in her house, ego massage every which way for one not used to that! hate to have to give it up but seems like i need to............
neil x x x x x x

20 Jun 2004

Quote by neilinleeds
Tell her your really gay and was only experimenting to see if it were true or not - tell her to log on the chat room and ask, she'll get told in there about your real sexual persuasion!

my fear exactly. she's bin in the chatroom often enuf, on a kinda stalking, deep throat ball wash basis.............erm..........now what FFS!
younger than me, fantastic sex, ((( IMHO ))) alpha male in her house, ego massage every which way for one not used to that! hate to have to give it up but seems like i need to............
neil x x x x x x
methinks young Neil you have just had a reality check. Be flattered but remember that people are real and although they may say all sex is without attachment I feel many inlcuding myself, if you are attracted to the other person as she obviously is to you, may find it hard to stay detached. Treat her with respect as a friend and she will fade away. Treat her with contempt - your nightmare. Good luck and maybe next time keep it to once a week not 3 wink

20 Jun 2004

invite her to meet your "wife".. thats might help, rolleyes

or better still, just accept it.. and send out the invitations! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
surprised

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20 Jun 2004

seriously though hun, if she reads the forum, the chances are any thread started by YOU will be read eagerly....so she may see this and get the hint!
good luck babe
x x x x x

20 Jun 2004

morgan..........erm.....yes......like to think i could never treat anyone with contempt no matter what........though i can be a complete twat at times i admit........ ((( holds his hands up, we've all bin there, done that! )))
and wellbustybabe.........she don't come to the site any more as far as i know ((( and i have opping powers even if i don't op ))) not much slips past me.............didn't post for her to read honest!!! ;=_
neil x x x x x

20 Jun 2004

This is actually a response from her/she who I'd like to introduce as C
C says (and is dictating) "Tell her that as being as you're only fuck-buddies, then you've seen somebody else you'd like to fuck. And you're telling her out of commom decency in case she doesn't want to fuck anymore if you're going to be fucking somebody else. You could also tell her that you feel you can do this as you don't want a serious relationship"
(Now you know that wasn't from me 'cos I would have said Shag, not F**K wink

)

20 Jun 2004

:shock:

20 Jun 2004

miss/mrs c.........
now there's the rub. seems we had an immense fall out cos she felt i was chatting her mate up!! which i told her would happen and i'd see other people if the opportunity arose? her mate weren't a great idea but she's bloody lovely! i'm a complete fecking slag i know, but hey............or so it seems.........
neil x x x x

20 Jun 2004

Quote by well_busty_babe
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:shock: What? ? ?
'C'

20 Jun 2004

Quote by dambuster
:shock:

:shock: What? ? ?
'C'
am not used to the "f" word! lol

20 Jun 2004

Quote by neilinleeds
miss/mrs c.........
now there's the rub. seems we had an immense fall out cos she felt i was chatting her mate up!! which i told her would happen and i'd see other people if the opportunity arose? her mate weren't a great idea but she's bloody lovely! i'm a complete fecking slag i know, but hey............or so it seems.........
neil x x x x

maybe you should have started a little bit "further" from home! lol
worked upto the mate.

21 Jun 2004

You dont half get in a pickle dont you neil confused

Meeting so frequently might have done it,
Back off a little if she still dont get the picture beat a hasty retreat

21 Jun 2004

was up all night worrying about poor neil, i have come to the conclusion that there is nothing else for it but to had her over to the SH inquisition. confused

this will involve the SH inquisitors subjecting her to various forms of torture till we get the truth out of her, you will then know what her expectaions are. :twisted:
WBB knows neil will do the right thing, so sets about collecting all the torture tools...... butt-pluggs in box under bed, batteries in draw... hmmm WHERE is everything?

21 Jun 2004

Quote by well_busty_babe
was up all night worrying about poor neil, i have come to the conclusion that there is nothing else for it but to had her over to the SH inquisition.
this will involve the SH inquisitors subjecting her to various forms of torture till we get the truth out of her, you will then know what her expectaions are. :twisted:
WBB knows neil will do the right thing, so sets about collecting all the torture tools...... butt-pluggs in box under bed, batteries in draw... hmmm WHERE is everything?

:shock: :shock: :shock: redface

ops: :oops:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
awww thanks for your concern WBB! kiss

i've now slept on it and decided texting her mate was a bad idea. but has possibly got me off the hook cos now i'm all the bastards under the sun! :oops: i try to be nice and generally lovely honest..........and certainly wouldn't subject the poor lovely girl to such ruthless treatment. tho actually knowing what's under her bed she might like it?? lol

enuf said now regret the thread, but hey i was pissed! and if anyone knows how to disable the "submit" button depending to alcohol intake........please tell me! :lol:
neil x x x x x x x

21 Jun 2004

ffs neil i never knew u thought that about me :shock: u bicurwanker u lol

i dunno neil u will never learn will ya hun ....wot about just stoppin shaggin her dippy..... mite work dunno

... but then again i know ya :doh: and u cant do that :silly:

21 Jun 2004

Oi FFS! <<< tuts rather loudly >>>
erm..............yes! :P i mean no not you dippy FFS! other one!
neil x x x x x x

21 Jun 2004

NEIL!
Just tell her u have the clapp and move on

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
love debbiexxx c u soon wink

:wink:

21 Jun 2004

LMFAO ......u did mean me then u big nose git u .......other one .....tuts back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :twisted: rotflmao

21 Jun 2004

Whatever you do DO NOT tell her u r gay. This will be cue for redoubling her efforts to save you from yourself, if you tell you have a social disease be careful , you could soon be watching your relationship blossom while spending hours together in the waiting room at the GU unit .
When you are catering for thr reception I would like a vegetarain option pls.

21 Jun 2004

Quote by neilinleeds
look i'm confused
is it at all possible to have a regular shag buddy without her thinking, despite dozens of convos, that she's now a g/f and getting all scary, stalker, bunny boiler all of a sudden?
i've been completely honest again and again and again, but shagging on a 3-4 times weekly basis sending the wrong message obviously?????
she's a lovely girl but has never been / will never be a g/f, and thought i'd made that abundantly clear??????? all advice gratefully received........
neil x x x x x x x

Here we go again...another whingeing male who is getting far too much sex!!! rolleyes

I don't know...the well seviced male who is surrounded by female admirers offering him sexual favours is rather sad really...The guy who is getting laid on a regular basis has become a bit of a cliche on this site and all in all is becomming rather tiring. The attempt to garner sympathy for their overly successful sexual exploits will not work here! Perhaps we should have a sticky with "advice for men who have been getting too much sex!" wink

21 Jun 2004

Neil i have great sympathy for you :cry:
i too have been having far too much sex and have far too many female admirers :cry:
Its such a b8stard being so damn good looking and loveable :cry:
The crosses we have to bear :cry:
Anyway cant hang around here posting yet another one wants a s*ag wink

21 Jun 2004

Quote by BiPaula
u did mean me then u big nose git u

Can't ya just feel the love between Neil the nose and BiPaula

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Dawn :silly:

21 Jun 2004

FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT

21 Jun 2004

Poor Neil you come on for some advice and what do you get? lol
good job no one has a big stick!!!
love peppsxxxx wink

21 Jun 2004

typo error or did you MEAN big stick...?

21 Jun 2004

I SAID STICK YOU LOT!!
LOVE PEPPSXXXX

21 Jun 2004

ROCKY HORROR TRUST YOU!! LOL
redface

LOVE PEPPSXXX

21 Jun 2004

TRUST ME... ?
firstly I am an MAN...B) I am tone deaf, and if you have read any of my stuff you will know better than to expect me to be anything BUT myself...DOH