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This is something that has been on my mind for a while so excuse my doing another poll :twisted:
If I am out at a munch or social meet I really enjoy snogging and flirting with people who I like, in fact if I've had a good snog with a number of people then the evening is a success as far as I'm concerned regardless of whether I get anything more than that.
On the other hand if I'm at a club or a swinging meet I find that if I haven't had some good snogs any playing that goes on is nowhere near as fulfilling.
I don't know if this makes sense to anyone else or if I'm on my own here but for me the flirting and snogging makes any future playing a lot better.
So to the poll - would you prefer an evening of snogging and flirting with nothing more or a good sex session but with no kissing or flirting?
Roger the Dragon cool
Cant you have both?? confused
Roger - I am going with option 1. A good snog and a flirt leaves me feeling great even if nothing else happens biggrin
aRSexx :color:
Quote by fruity1976
Cant you have both?? confused

Yes and that is the best situation by far - but it doesn't allways work out like that! biggrin
I was wondering which people would rather have.
Roger the Dragon cool
Ok if i pick option one can I have a sly wank in the loo in between with nobody looking?? :P
Quote by Rainbows
Roger - I am going with option 1. A good snog and a flirt leaves me feeling great even if nothing else happens biggrin
aRSexx :color:

Me too, love a good snog and flirt, but can I ask the girls a question?
Have any of you orgasamed just by snogging alone? I once knew a girl that could.
John
smile
Quote by fruity1976
Ok if i pick option one can I have a sly wank in the loo in between with nobody looking?? :P

Thats fine - you can even have people watching if you'd prefer! :twisted:
k one it is then lol :twisted:
Well I voted but would rather have a hug today :cry:
Quote by Rainbows
Roger - I am going with option 1. A good snog and a flirt leaves me feeling great even if nothing else happens biggrin
aRSexx :color:

what rainbows said :D
Quote by Lil_Bunny
Well I voted but would rather have a hug today :cry:

kiss and (((((((((hug))))))))))) to go with it! cool
Quote by rachel-lane
Roger - I am going with option 1. A good snog and a flirt leaves me feeling great even if nothing else happens biggrin
aRSexx :color:

what rainbows said :D
It definately seems like I'm not alone here then! :D
Roger cool
As I don't snog :scared: , I'll have to go for the shag lol
Quote by Lil_Bunny
Well I voted but would rather have a hug today :cry:

come on then' i will give you a nice big hug smile
Quote by bluexxx
As I don't snog :scared: , I'll have to go for the shag lol

Blue - I think you might be in a whole seperate category!!!! :shock:
Roger the Dragon! bolt
Quote by rogerthedragon
As I don't snog :scared: , I'll have to go for the shag lol

Blue - I think you might be in a whole seperate category!!!! :shock:
Roger the Dragon! bolt
Well, yeah... I'd prefer to watch, but that wasn't an option!
:happy: :happy: :happy: ohhhhhh i love a great big snog - nothing better, love it, love it, love a bit of sex to go with it of course, but like u say, if i go out and have a good snog im happy!!
I say option 1. I love snogging.
sex would be a bonus biggrin
steve
flirting and snogging............... :twisted: does it for me
Quote by Lil_Bunny
Well I voted but would rather have a hug today :cry:

:therethere: Don't cry Lil_Bunny ... :therethere: kiss
I voted for Option 1 ... love a good snog!
Only 1 vote for the shag option ... makes Blue the shag-maester ... lol
Quote by stevefun32
I say option 1. I love snogging.
sex would be a bonus biggrin
steve

I totally agree with this comment
The WHOOSH Manâ„¢
Hmmmmm.....have to admit it. Love a good snog passionkiss
And this thread reminds me of a post by Neilinleeds describing the perfect snog.
*swoon*
:inlove:
Has to be snogs for me too passionkiss You just can't beat a good tonsil tickling :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
This is doing my head in.
I am soooo tempted to put myself down for option 1 and then a little bell goes off in my head and says "Where does foreplay fit in?" It's not a snog OR a shag.
snogging .... no doubts here whatsoever
maybe thats why i have snogged my way through every munch i have ever been to
redface
Quote by Parrot
This is doing my head in.
I am soooo tempted to put myself down for option 1 and then a little bell goes off in my head and says "Where does foreplay fit in?" It's not a snog OR a shag.

I'm with Parrot on this one put me down for 1 1/2 if that's allowed ?
kiss passionkiss hump somewhere in the middle now there's a thought lol
:love: xxx
I would opt for number one, a good evening of snogging and flirting sounds fine.
Tell you what i would also settle for, at a munch (and this is not directed at any one individual, honestly). At a munch I would love someone's undivided attentionfor say 15 minutes. I have lost count of the times I'm having a conversation with someone, and they start eyeing up another person in the middle of it, and beginning to flirt with them....and even in extreme cases moving straight on to them, leaving me talking to thin air. It's SO damned rude!
Mike.
Definately a good snog for me.
Given a choice, goes without saying that I would agree with Parrot, but if it's down to one or the other, you cant beat a good snog, entwined with a big cuddle.
Ummmm having second thoughts now. Do you find that some people are just not very good snoggers? In those cases I suppose it would have to be a shag. Oh hell decisions decisions. :doh:
Ok - if everyone read Neilinleeds post before going out then definately a snog. worship
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/26224.html
No excuses then for bad snoggers. biggrin :D :D
:twisted:
Rampant shag with no kissin today ...... cos I just feel like it biggrin
Have to say though a night/day of flirting and snogging can go right to a gals knickers!
Cathy x
:P PMSL @ Neil's post - I couldn't agree more. Raw sex is great but snogging is just..wow..well just incredibly intimate and exciting...its all in the anticipation..it suggests more intimacy to come. Can be delicate, peaceful and relaxing or raw, animal and passionate or anywhere in between. Lips, ears, eyes, a long neck of course a personal favourite of mine..ladies what DOES having your neck nibbled do to you?? You all seem to go orgasmic at the very thought!
Phew blimey...very hot n bothered now...need to have a cold shower...