if you look at the threads about "to the timewasters" I think yu will find you aren't alone.
sadly there are far too many arseholes around willing to spoil it for the rest (only need to look at all the press this section of life gets).
Don;t give up, not everyone is an AH. I think it was Angel who said she had 200 replies and mainly from idiots... bad as that is, there's 6000 people on here... most of whom seem to be able to read and understand!
Munches may be a better idea??
Well I'm sorry you've had a hard time with the Newbie's Shelly....it IS hard to find genuine guys, but they are out there....
Just keep on persevering, hopefully you'll find someone great to have fun with....or come to one of the Munches and meet some people there...
speaking on behalf of genuine males (albeit I am also a "newbie" to this site), please don't tar us all with the same brush.
I have been a member of a couple of sites over the past couple of years and there are also a lot of couples/single fems that also fall into this catergory. However there are also a lot of guniune ones, as there are men.
Like all things in life, there are a minority that spoil it for others
Ok I think I have had my say, and put the world to right, sorry for my little rant.
Hi again shelly,
No am sure you have had some bad experiences, as I am sure we all probably have. Unfortunatatly a lot (and I agree with you) mostly men use these sites as a form of titilation etc, and are probably not genuine.
I just felt that your posting makes it hard/er for genuine guys to meet up with other genuine like minded people.
Anyway enough said, I'm all for a healthy debate!
I wouldn't be so presumtious to say that I was one of the nice guys (ask my staff I can be a right bastard...lol), but if you want to stay in touch and make up your won mind I would be more than pleased.
Happy hunting, Luke
Stick to what and who you know Shelly,thats my best advice to know that there are genuinely guys out there that youve chatted to or have met you werent impressed by what occured meet up with sure you know a lot of gen guys that you havent had fun you want recommendations use that method too,if the guy is genuine im sure he wouldnt mind you asking somebody about him.I know i certainly dont.
Was that a subtle hint tonguey????
Me subtle Shelly,i think you know me better than some friendly advice thats all.
BTW do you fancy a good tongueing ?
Can I join the queue Shelly...Methinks you are worth the wait!!
Youre on Shelly,at least you have met me before so you know im not going to you all weird on you.
I have not taken offence to what you said in any way, I just wanted to put the single guy point of view over.
I may be persuaded Lukewarm, but I might have to punish you :whip:
never done punishing before, but hey in for a penny in for a pound as they say, and it sounds like fun :twisted: 
You know what, im going to keep me gob shut from now on
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: 
ready when you are tongue