When I joined here over a year ago, I advertised in the hope of fulfilling a specific fantasy, a year on and Im in a loving relationship, having the best sex ever, and that should be enough shouldnt it?
So why am I still fantasising, please tell me Im normal, and Im alright, and no I havent told her about it.
I think you're normal, and I don't think there's anything wrong if you choose not to share your fantasy with your lover.
I think the only way you will 4-fill your fantasy is to keep fantasizing
Fantasies are normal, healthy, and in my opinion necessary. Better to have private fantasies than be tarting around behind your partner's back.
After all, if we didnt have dreams what would we have to look forward to??
Nothing at all wrong with fantasies, I fantasise about stuff that I have done already, and stuff I would like to do, whatever turns me on at the time. Sex ties in very closely with imagination and without sexy thoughts we wouldn't feel sexy. You have to think about having sex with someone to make you want to do it in the end after all!