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Sex God
make a few rules and stick by them
so long as u r both happy
theres loads of info if u do a forum search
enjoy yourselves
2`s
so long as u r both happy
theres loads of info if u do a forum search
enjoy yourselves
2`s
Sex God
Take your time....
Rules are a good idea... Make sure u both agree on them.
Respect everybodys limits
And remember..... from both sides....
No means No
good luck
Rules are a good idea... Make sure u both agree on them.
Respect everybodys limits
And remember..... from both sides....
No means No
good luck
Sex God
The only advice I would give is to talk, talk and talk again. If you are then still interested in doing this then the talking should start again!
Both of you need to be 100% sure this is what you want and both need to be sure you are prepared for the very mixed feelings that could perhaps come from this. You should also set rules between yourselves, even if the rules are, there are no rules, but you should discuss it in every minute detail before you go any further.
sometimes, things are much better left as a fantasy
Good luck and remember, there is no rush to do anything
Both of you need to be 100% sure this is what you want and both need to be sure you are prepared for the very mixed feelings that could perhaps come from this. You should also set rules between yourselves, even if the rules are, there are no rules, but you should discuss it in every minute detail before you go any further.
sometimes, things are much better left as a fantasy
Good luck and remember, there is no rush to do anything
Got to agree with everything that's been said so far.
Make sure you have boundaries that you're both happy with and more importantly, make sure you go through the whole process of choosing a 3rd party (for want of a better expression) together.
We've had some fun with 3somes and the key to it is talking...far more important than the sex at the end of the day
Make sure you have boundaries that you're both happy with and more importantly, make sure you go through the whole process of choosing a 3rd party (for want of a better expression
) together.We've had some fun with 3somes and the key to it is talking...far more important than the sex at the end of the day
we have talked abotu swinging and have adds on here looking for bi men bi fems and bi couple. it is somthing we both want but have agreed to start off with a soft swing. mind you g.f dose have her heart set on watching me with another male, and she has also mentioned she would want to see me with another woman too. i think as long as you talk about it, set your limits with each other and the people you meet, things should be ok.
like NWC said talk talk talk and you must trust each other 110% we i first started swinging we set rules and the ass broke everyone of them, dont get me wronge it can work my current partner and i have a good swinging life but be careful and like i say talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk ok i thing you get the message now 
hope you work it out and have some good fun
hope you work it out and have some good fun Sexlightened
I agree, you have to really talk about it. My wife wanted to try a 3some with another guy and to be honest i was a bit wary( the jelousy bit, you know) but we were lucky and approched a freind who seemed up for a bit of fun. we made some rules, common sence stuff relly, stop and no mean stop and no, and he wasn't allowed to cum in her apart from thet anything went. long story short, we had a great night and have done it a few times since, not too often mind, got to keep the thrill going. So talk alot, find some one you both klike the look of and above all have sure about having a bi male join us though, but who knows what the futre holds.
