I have noticed that most of the meet ups on the forum are for doggers and swingers. Obviously that is a crucial element of this site but I also (from experience) think that this site is an excellent place for bi guys to meet up.
I wonder if a separate page on the forum would help make that easier. I think too that forums for other subjects that appeal to people other than myself, may also be welcomed.
I find a few guys from adverts but it can be slow. The chat rooms are better but they can be cliquey and tend to be difficult to find people in the local area. A forum page would give a third option to what must be a huge proportion of the swinging community.
Love the site, but it would be nice to see the forums more open and topic based - thank you!
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Should we have a gay/bi room on the forum?
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Do you think there should be more forum options?
Hi Mart 
IMO if you start adding another category for bi males then you'd have to have one for bi fems, couples only etc etc and then it just starts getting very messy and confusing and where do you stop categorising people?
The LMU works as it is together with the photo ads and the Cafe is the perfect place to chill out and get to know people.
I personally don't like to pigeonhole members too much as that's where the cliques start in earnest, as seen by some chatrooms.
Stick around the forums and use them to their full extent. Might see you at a social or munch sometime :thumbup:
IMO if you start adding another category for bi males then you'd have to have one for bi fems, couples only etc etc and then it just starts getting very messy and confusing and where do you stop categorising people?
The LMU works as it is together with the photo ads and the Cafe is the perfect place to chill out and get to know people.
I personally don't like to pigeonhole members too much as that's where the cliques start in earnest, as seen by some chatrooms.
Stick around the forums and use them to their full extent. Might see you at a social or munch sometime :thumbup:
If you refine your options down too far with a lot of set catagories you could end up missing out cause you have limited your choices.
Simple is best IMHO.
I am sure half the fun of looking for playmates here is finding out for yourself what people really like, rather than have people put into a fixed box .. and what if you don't fit into any of the available boxes ...
DD
Simple is best IMHO.
I am sure half the fun of looking for playmates here is finding out for yourself what people really like, rather than have people put into a fixed box .. and what if you don't fit into any of the available boxes ...
DD
Sex God
very, very quick, off the cuff reply while my bath is running.
absolutely not! like in the real world, if you give someone a specific ghetto to hang out in, it rapidly becomes a ghetto.
one of the joys of the place is that you don't need to segregate into specific areas, and very few people ((( i think? IMO? ;) ))) would encourage it?
it may take some work on your part to find what you're looking for among every other kind of sexual identity you'll find here, but that's valuable, cos even if they don't share your particular sexual identity, many people will often share a particular mindset.
'like minded people' and all that! ;)
to segregate into specific areas, either cos it's presented to you as the way forward, or cos you think you'll feel comfier in them, or think you'll find what you're looking for quicker and easier? it risks losing something really valuable for all concerned.
neil x x x ;)
absolutely not! like in the real world, if you give someone a specific ghetto to hang out in, it rapidly becomes a ghetto.
one of the joys of the place is that you don't need to segregate into specific areas, and very few people ((( i think? IMO? ;) ))) would encourage it?
it may take some work on your part to find what you're looking for among every other kind of sexual identity you'll find here, but that's valuable, cos even if they don't share your particular sexual identity, many people will often share a particular mindset.
'like minded people' and all that! ;)
to segregate into specific areas, either cos it's presented to you as the way forward, or cos you think you'll feel comfier in them, or think you'll find what you're looking for quicker and easier? it risks losing something really valuable for all concerned.
neil x x x ;)
Sex God
Quote by Marya_Northeast
I agree with Sassy totally.
Then again, I would like a Forum just for beautiful people.
That's me stuffed then
Thats Marya stuffed as well
Dave_Notts
Stuffed with prettiness. :smug:
And cock?
Sex God
Can I have a room just for me please :
Oh I forgot to say, I voted no too....sorry!
:Oh I forgot to say, I voted no too....sorry!
Sex God
Nope ..............there isnt one for miserable arguamentative bastards , so we cant all have one can we.
