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hi all please leave a message here for jennaj she needs cheerin up
she has had some bad news thanks to all who sign
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Awww sorry you`ve had bad news hun. kiss
(you`ll get a much better response if you ask for this to be moved to the cafe Jay)
Venusxxx
Why....Whats up with her?> confused:
I'm here, and Jennaj we are all here for you.
John
xx
The news didn't stop her browsing the forum earlier confused
Unless there's another jennaj who was showing online?
her auntie has past away and needs cheering up thanks all
well i've had some bad news recently as well. my best friend died in january, and my other close friend died last monday. i hope the news wasn't as bad as that. i don't wish that on anyone, but i'd just like to say i hope you feel better very soon jennaj! smile
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her auntie has past away and needs cheering up thanks all

I wouldn't be on here if I'd been bereaved. I would be grieving. confused Privately, not sharing it with loads of strangers.
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The news didn't stop her browsing the forum earlier confused
Unless there's another jennaj who was showing online?

Mars was once with a best mate when his mate received a phonecall that his father had died. He went right on playing the Playstation. Distraction can help break things down into managable chunks.
Venusxxx
Grief can be a funny thing, we all take it in different ways, and we all handle it differently.
If she has a friends here, it perhaps helps to ease the burden.
John
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her auntie has past away and needs cheering up thanks all

I wouldn't be on here if I'd been bereaved. I would be grieving. confused Privately, not sharing it with loads of strangers.
forgive me FB but that sounds extremely insensitive to me. hopefully you didnt mean it that way but i still have to take offence to it, it just hit home. maybe shes just trying to get back on the horse as they say
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her auntie has past away and needs cheering up thanks all

I wouldn't be on here if I'd been bereaved. I would be grieving. confused Privately, not sharing it with loads of strangers.
forgive me FB but that sounds extremely insensitive to me. hopefully you didnt mean it that way but i still have to take offence to it, it just hit home. maybe shes just trying to get back on the horse as they say
It might well seem insensitive and you are forgiven, but that's the way I feel, that's all. Take offence if that's how you feel. I can't imagine coming on here and browsing if someone who I was close to, had died. If, as Venus has suggested, the distraction is the key, then I wouldn't be telling all and sundry because then it would attract attention, not distract me.
A very strange thread that is a bit out of place here but I have to agree with freckled
hi thank you all for your support and love you loads but i am a bit still crying but i will soon be back to my normal self
had phone call and my auntie passed away the funeral is wednewsday but i can't go but i will be there in spirit.
i will be back shortly to my happy self after a good nights sleep.
no no don't get me wrong i agree with you FB but i'm just saying, matters like this, albeit out of place on a swingers website, should always be treated with sensitivity. we're all entiltled to our opinions i'm sure you'll agree.
More to the point, is it really anyones place to post that information other than JennaJ herself? confused
Sorry to hear of your loss, hope u r ok and are coping, cant wait to see jennaj back to her old self, Take Care.
BECKS
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no no don't get me wrong i agree with you FB but i'm just saying, matters like this, albeit out of place on a swingers website, should always be treated with sensitivity. we're all entiltled to our opinions i'm sure you'll agree.
More to the point, is it really anyones place to post that information other than JennaJ herself? confused

No, I don't think it's anyone's place to post it. It's a swinger's site. Maybe jennaj is coming on here for the distraction, in which case she won't appreciate someone drawing attention to her loss. I wasn't trying to be insensitive, believe me - I'm far worse when I'm tring to be insensitive :? :shock:
It's lucky that the funeral is so soon after the death. Things don't work that fast usually.
:shock: :shock:
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no no don't get me wrong i agree with you FB but i'm just saying, matters like this, albeit out of place on a swingers website, should always be treated with sensitivity. we're all entiltled to our opinions i'm sure you'll agree.
More to the point, is it really anyones place to post that information other than JennaJ herself? confused

No, I don't think it's anyone's place to post it. It's a swinger's site. Maybe jennaj is coming on here for the distraction, in which case she won't appreciate someone drawing attention to her loss. I wasn't trying to be insensitive, believe me - I'm far worse when I'm tring to be insensitive :? :shock:
Yay we're all friends again. except for the two guys that posted the news in the first place. who, by the way, i've never heard of before :confused:
Seeing as this thread is on Lets Meet Up, does anyone know a good medium?
she asked me to let you all know about her bad news
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Seeing as this thread is on Lets Meet Up, does anyone know a good medium?

boom boom
That is an interesting point FB, even if we ignore the fact that she didn`t start this thread. However, I`m aware many people find seeking support from those who are not so close to them a great deal easier than having to confront things face to face with someone closer. I hate people seeing me when I`m miserable.
:edit: ok she did ask for the thread. If it helps good on her!
Venusxxx
Quote by jay7110
she asked me to let you all know about her bad news

Why, when she's been on here browsing anyway? That's not distraction, that's attention seeking confused
Jennaj, condolences on your loss hun. :therethere:
And though you didn't start this thread your friends obviously care.
Chin up.
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More to the point, is it really anyones place to post that information other than JennaJ herself? confused

I was thinking exactly the same thing.....
My information is that she has asked the two people to tell others she is upset.
:P
well this is certainly one of the weirdest discussions i've ever known to exist. i thought this would have been locked ages ago but thats me for ya. i don't think it's our business to be discussing it to be fair, and i can't help but feel slightly rude in doing so. if i ask us all to leave it am i gonna be socially out-caste for spoiling peoples fun confused
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well this is certainly one of the weirdest discussions i've ever known to exist. i thought this would have been locked ages ago but thats me for ya. i don't think it's our business to be discussing it to be fair, and i can't help but feel slightly rude in doing so. if i ask us all to leave it am i gonna be socially out-caste for spoiling peoples fun confused

I don't think this is fun though really is it? Although I do agree that the thread might be better locked, if only to prevent it being a long drawn-out outpouring of condolence for jennaj.
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I don't think this is fun though really is it? Although I do agree that the thread might be better locked, if only to prevent it being a long drawn-out outpouring of condolence for jennaj.

at least she might be going to chamelians on the day of the funeral.. that should cheer her up and help her get over her loss!
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Hi mike and yvonne
I normally go on a wednesday night so if i see you again i will definitely say hello to you and I am glad you had a good time. Hope to bump into you some time
And i will say hello I will be there this wednesday and friday
Love JennaJ