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can shy unconfident men be brought out of their shells and enjoy this lifestyle?
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Quote by naughtynottslad
can shy unconfident men be brought out of their shells and enjoy this lifestyle?
You can only decide to come out of your shell yourself, no-one can do that for you.
Some people may be able to help you with that but if your friends haven't been able to do it then why do you think complete strangers will? :confused:
You can become friends with anyone so if that happens on SH then good on ya.
Get yourself known by being friendly & conversational and voila, shyness instantly cured and you haven't had to resort to any of that mucky stuff!!!
:welcome: from one shy guy to another.
Have fun!!!
Forum Virgin
awww ty stiletto u sexy thing u lol 
When I was 20 I was painfully, desperately shy. In some social situations I still am. But I will happily, happily take off my clothes and have sex in front of a bunch of people. You can be shy and still enjoy being physical with people. You don't have to be the life and soul - I'm sure people will respect that you might need some gentle encouragement.
Forum Virgin
hi rainbows,
thats great to hear, hopefully ill find out for myself over the next few weeks/months
love my new nickname btw NTNL (very nice) hehe
thats great to hear, hopefully ill find out for myself over the next few weeks/months
love my new nickname btw NTNL (very nice)
hehe 
Sex God
i would say that i am shy... i have to get to know people before i really open up...
my mates call me the "introverted extrovert" so fully understand, i think the thing that did my confidence no end of good was when i reallised that people liked me enough to want to play with me....
stick with it mate......
sean xxxxxxxxxx
my mates call me the "introverted extrovert" so fully understand, i think the thing that did my confidence no end of good was when i reallised that people liked me enough to want to play with me....
stick with it mate......
sean xxxxxxxxxx
Quote by fabio grooverider
i would say that i am shy... i have to get to know people before i really open up...
my mates call me the "introverted extrovert" so fully understand, i think the thing that did my confidence no end of good was when i reallised that people liked me enough to want to play with me....
stick with it mate......
sean xxxxxxxxxx
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Sex God
Quote by Kit
Hi NTNL
I have been shy all my life
But not here
How long did it take you to put up your first post?
You shy,
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Forum Virgin
hiya kit, only about 8 weeks lol
just wanna get out there and have some fun before its too late lol
just wanna get out there and have some fun before its too late lol
i can sympathise with this post myself as i can be very shy myself, i open up when out dogging and actually talking to people though, but my shyness stems from the fact i aint as endowed as many other doggers and feel kinda like an outcast lol, one on one with a couple and im fine but in front of others i hide in the corner and watch others enjoying themselves 
Sex God
Just give it a try and see what happens, reckon we are all shy really.
John
John
Sex God
Quote by Kit
You shy,
:shock: :shock: :shock:
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: You are not listening to me Sarah - I said 'not here'! :twisted: :twisted:
Yes please, :shock:
I think that people's shyness is based on their perceptions of themselves and others around them.
For various people, others seem more confident than themselves, but for those people their own perceptions of others can be greatly different. Some people might think they are shy because they see others interacting more easily in a social environment or in a social manner, without knowing if that person is interacting with friends or not. Others think they are shy because they aren't the centre of attention, or getting much attention. Others again think they are shy because they don't have the nerve to go up to apparent total strangers and start a conversation.
Then there's the opposite end where people see others as more shy. Some people are shy purely on a social level, they talk to friends and family with no troubles, but with strangers they get shy, quiet and generally non-talkative. Others might think someone's shyer than them because they won't strike up a conversation, some think others are shy because they don't interact with them, or on a social level.
Shyness is a term banded about to hide a number of other problems or traits for a particular person, that person might be a quiet individual, maybe not a social person, maybe they are social but not with you.
For various people, others seem more confident than themselves, but for those people their own perceptions of others can be greatly different. Some people might think they are shy because they see others interacting more easily in a social environment or in a social manner, without knowing if that person is interacting with friends or not. Others think they are shy because they aren't the centre of attention, or getting much attention. Others again think they are shy because they don't have the nerve to go up to apparent total strangers and start a conversation.
Then there's the opposite end where people see others as more shy. Some people are shy purely on a social level, they talk to friends and family with no troubles, but with strangers they get shy, quiet and generally non-talkative. Others might think someone's shyer than them because they won't strike up a conversation, some think others are shy because they don't interact with them, or on a social level.
Shyness is a term banded about to hide a number of other problems or traits for a particular person, that person might be a quiet individual, maybe not a social person, maybe they are social but not with you.
