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Shying Away from Munch Meeting
Warming the Bed
This topic was actually one of the ones that caused the missus the most concern. If we actually manage to talk on here enough to get an invite to the scottish munch (can it really be only a month away? I remember thinking; ach, we've got months to get known....oh dear!), the missus is dreadfully worried that we'll turn up and her uncle will be at the bar, or a cousin etc. Workmates she couldn't care about (she'd probably just 'arrange' for some fun with them....) but if a family member was there, she'd probably be a bit mortified. Hopefully that won't happen, since there's like 3 million people in Scotland. What's the chance of one of the 30 or so family members she has being into swinging!
Warming the Bed
We can't wait to go to are first munch, Had some bad luck on the adds with single guys so would be nice to meet gen people. Hope we don't seem to keen..... :P :P 
Quote by lusty_modesty
Now and then, we get newbie asking for advice on meet and one of the usual recommendations they get is for them to attend a Munch. Would this be a problem for some of you out there?
For me personally, I’d be more worried sick of meeting someone I know from the workplace or neighborhood etc. I wonder if this has happened to anybody as with the case of the major regional Munch expected to have up to 300 people attending.
I’ve actually met a staff from my workplace in my partner’s ‘grandish’ party held outside our region…crikey. Obviously I was very happy to see this person and we chatted merrily but at a Munch, Jesus what would you say?
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Hey Lusty, I would feel ill at ease - its ok for all those couples who are out in the open about it but I am a guy cheating on his partner and trying to be discrete ....for that reason I would not want to go to a munch .... I know there are a lot of us that wont own up to the fact about wanting some extra sex - its even on this site....some muches sound more like a trainspotters convention rather than people who enjoy sex... waiting for a good blasting now...1...2...3...and go....
Orgasminator
Me and Baz were at cupids one night ( a few months back) and we were standing at the bar talking to people from here when in walked the guy who owns our local chippy/ kebab shop i was a bit shocked at first :shock: and me and baz wanted to hide , but the barmaid said don,t worry he,s here for the same reason as you 
, he did try to join us but he was too late for the action so we sat and chatted to him before we left,we have,nt seen him in there since but baz went to his chippy and they both gave a sly smile 
i was a bit shocked at first :shock: and me and baz wanted to hide , but the barmaid said don,t worry he,s here for the same reason as you , he did try to join us but he was too late for the action so we sat and chatted to him before we left,we have,nt seen him in there since but baz went to his chippy and they both gave a sly smile Hi everyone, a forum newby here. Sorry I didn't really know what it was so haven't joined in before.
Bumping into people at a a party or a munch always has a certain element of risk to it but I think that party contributes to the excitement, and if anyone is small minded enough to "expose" other people there who are just enjoying themselves I'm pretty sure they wouldn't be welcome at many, if any other events or clubs in the locality.
Bumping into people at a a party or a munch always has a certain element of risk to it but I think that party contributes to the excitement, and if anyone is small minded enough to "expose" other people there who are just enjoying themselves I'm pretty sure they wouldn't be welcome at many, if any other events or clubs in the locality.
Sex God
Quote by GenHertsCpl
You're as likely to meet someone you know from RL at a munch as you are at a swinging club... however you're all at a swingers meet so who cares. No-one is gonna say anything about it afterwards cos you were all there for the same reason... social drinks and curious about swinging...
Problem solved!
Actually, this did happen to us, and YES they did say something to others
All I can say is, always go with your instincts Lusty. :!:
Maybe I'm just more scary and terrifying than you....
also might have helped a little bit that I kind of whispered... you tell anyone and I will seek revenge. :twisted:
;)Instincts are there to be followed and I agree, if it doesn't feel right then it's usually not.
Good luck! :thumbup:
Quote by scotsbicouple
This topic was actually one of the ones that caused the missus the most concern. If we actually manage to talk on here enough to get an invite to the scottish munch (can it really be only a month away? I remember thinking; ach, we've got months to get known....oh dear!), the missus is dreadfully worried that we'll turn up and her uncle will be at the bar, or a cousin etc. Workmates she couldn't care about (she'd probably just 'arrange' for some fun with them....) but if a family member was there, she'd probably be a bit mortified. Hopefully that won't happen, since there's like 3 million people in Scotland. What's the chance of one of the 30 or so family members she has being into swinging!
scotsbicple we originate from Glasgow , our families and friends from both sides live in Glasgow, I don't know what the odds would be on bumping into any of them would be especially in a private venue ?
but hypothetically speaking if any family Friends or neighbours did use the site and we bumped into them I guess our reaction would be followed by "Oh my what are you doing here ? " then probably just have a good about it, after all I'm sure they would have the same answer as us!! Warming the Bed
That's pretty much what i told her lucy. She's still a wee bit paranoid, but I guess that's women for ya 
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If we do come to the next munch (or the one after if we're too late..) i think we'd probably do as Steph said and ask someone to come meet us, so we're not going in to a totally blank room. That's always a scary thing to do.....
)If we do come to the next munch (or the one after if we're too late..) i think we'd probably do as Steph said and ask someone to come meet us, so we're not going in to a totally blank room. That's always a scary thing to do.....
Quote by scotsbicouple
That's pretty much what i told her lucy. She's still a wee bit paranoid, but I guess that's women for ya
If we do come to the next munch (or the one after if we're too late..) i think we'd probably do as Steph said and ask someone to come meet us, so we're not going in to a totally blank room. That's always a scary thing to do.....
That would not be a problem :)
I'm sure many would offer to meet before a munch you including us
Lucyxx
Sex God
Quote by Cheetah
Now and then, we get newbie asking for advice on meet and one of the usual recommendations they get is for them to attend a Munch. Would this be a problem for some of you out there?
For me personally, I’d be more worried sick of meeting someone I know from the workplace or neighborhood etc. I wonder if this has happened to anybody as with the case of the major regional Munch expected to have up to 300 people attending.
I’ve actually met a staff from my workplace in my partner’s ‘grandish’ party held outside our region…crikey. Obviously I was very happy to see this person and we chatted merrily but at a Munch, Jesus what would you say?
Hey Lusty, I would feel ill at ease - its ok for all those couples who are out in the open about it but I am a guy cheating on his partner and trying to be discrete ....for that reason I would not want to go to a munch .... I know there are a lot of us that wont own up to the fact about wanting some extra sex - its even on this site....some muches sound more like a trainspotters convention rather than people who enjoy sex... waiting for a good blasting now...1...2...3...and go....
Sex God
Quote by Cheetah
Now and then, we get newbie asking for advice on meet and one of the usual recommendations they get is for them to attend a Munch. Would this be a problem for some of you out there?
For me personally, I’d be more worried sick of meeting someone I know from the workplace or neighborhood etc. I wonder if this has happened to anybody as with the case of the major regional Munch expected to have up to 300 people attending.
I’ve actually met a staff from my workplace in my partner’s ‘grandish’ party held outside our region…crikey. Obviously I was very happy to see this person and we chatted merrily but at a Munch, Jesus what would you say?
Hey Lusty, I would feel ill at ease - its ok for all those couples who are out in the open about it but I am a guy cheating on his partner and trying to be discrete ....for that reason I would not want to go to a munch .... I know there are a lot of us that wont own up to the fact about wanting some extra sex - its even on this site....some muches sound more like a trainspotters convention rather than people who enjoy sex... waiting for a good blasting now...1...2...3...and go....
can i have a blast....
you SO don't have a clue what a munch is about........maybe what you have written says more about your aims of just trying to get your leg over, as opposed to actually wanting to get to know people as friends.....
for someone who has been on the forum for 1 day... you sure know how to win friends and influence people......
Sex God
Quote by Cheetah
some munches sound more like a trainspotters convention rather than people who enjoy sex... ....
I think this man has misunderstood what the steam room is all about.
:lol: Quote by Sexysteph
If you are apprehensive on the night pm one of the regulars that appear on the list or the organiser and they will see if they can get someone to meet you outside and come in with you. I did this in Notts for one of the newer couples and made two smashing mates meeting them.
Most of all relax and enjoy the night.
Steph
I did this for my first munch, and it help me out loads, the person I contacted invited me to start the night in her hotel room, where a few others started there night too, went with me to the munch, introduced me to a lot of people, left me to it, coming back to check up on me periodically, I'll always be grateful of that, big respect to you, you know who you are.
Chris
