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Of course one persons 'unwanted PM' is another persons ideal meeting . Seems to me that anyone who doesnt want messages from strangers shouldnt really be posting on an open dating site . That is what the site is now .....isnt it ?
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Of course one persons 'unwanted PM' is another persons ideal meeting . Seems to me that anyone who doesnt want messages from strangers shouldnt really be posting on an open dating site . That is what the site is now .....isnt it ?

it's become that, even if we didn't want it to be!! :cry:
Mal
The Ignore and Delete buttons are your friends! rolleyes
Now then, I only posted that once, so how come it appeared twice?
You got a stammer, Jon?? :lol2:
Mal
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n..nnn....
nooooo
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You got a stammer, Jon?? :lol2:
Mal
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He's been wanking too much again :wink:
T-J
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You got a stammer, Jon?? :lol2:
Mal
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He's been wanking too much again :wink:
T-J
Most likely cause is your avatar TJ :wink: :wink:
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You got a stammer, Jon?? :lol2:
Mal
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He's been wanking too much again :wink:
T-J
Can I come and watch????????? :twisted:
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You got a stammer, Jon?? :lol2:
Mal
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He's been wanking too much again :wink:
T-J
Can I come and watch????????? :twisted:
Sure you can . . . but bring plenty of tissues with you :grin:
T-J xx
We have had an increasing number of PMs in the last few days (mainly from single males), if they don't appeal to us, we'll just reply with a polite 'no thanx' and ignore the rude one. If you don't reply to the PMs, it's unlikely that they will try to PM you again.
Think the ban might be a bit harsh although three strikes and you are out sounds good. Will the PMers receive a warning each time tho if that happens?
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Of course one persons 'unwanted PM' is another persons ideal meeting . Seems to me that anyone who doesnt want messages from strangers shouldnt really be posting on an open dating site . That is what the site is now .....isnt it ?

it's become that, even if we didn't want it to be!! :cry:
Mal
My Beloved SH :cry:
Quote by Mal
Of course one persons 'unwanted PM' is another persons ideal meeting . Seems to me that anyone who doesnt want messages from strangers shouldnt really be posting on an open dating site . That is what the site is now .....isnt it ?

it's become that, even if we didn't want it to be!! :cry:
Mal
It's not even a dating site .... that implies people who are looking for like minded individuals ... nothing like-minded here .. well apart from the casual sex part!
The majority of people appearing are no more swingers than I'm a virgin ..... May as well change the site to Slappers R Us and be done with it!
I feel really sorry for the genuine swingers signing up for the services of the site, what must they think? Please do make yourselves known ... we not totally anti new members, just anti new-prats.
Calista x
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The majority of people appearing are no more swingers than I'm a virgin ..... May as well change the site to Slappers R Us and be done with it!

Judging by some of the pm's/replies to ads people have received both before and since the change over, I'm sure that's what some guys think the site is called anyway rolleyes
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I feel really sorry for the genuine swingers signing up for the services of the site, what must they think? Please do make yourselves known ... we not totally anti new members, just anti new-prats.
Calista x

I doubt anyone on here would class themselves as anything other than genuine. How many times have we heard on forum or read in the ads the old war cry "I'm a genuine male/couple/fem" etc, only to find out they are total prats and far from being gen swingers, they're just out for a quick shag? confused
Take this example of someone who contacted me today and is supposedly a gen swinger by his own account
"yo is da bitch. total horny i cracked one off on your pics. wanna sex me up babe?"
I assume this is a compliment and is asking for a shag, but since I don't speak that particular tongue, I really can't be sure dunno :undecided:
Hopefully in time things will settle down and the chaff sifted from the wheat. How many of us will hang around to see that day is another matter sad
T-J
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Take this example of someone who contacted me today and is supposedly a gen swinger by his own account
"yo is da bitch. total horny i cracked one off on your pics. wanna sex me up babe?"
T-J

naw T-J, you're having a giraffe surely. come on, you just made that up. noone could be that fucking crass and dumb . . . could they? :shock:
rolleyes
neil x x x ;)
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Take this example of someone who contacted me today and is supposedly a gen swinger by his own account
"yo is da bitch. total horny i cracked one off on your pics. wanna sex me up babe?"
T-J

naw T-J, you're having a giraffe surely. come on, you just made that up. noone could be that fucking crass and dumb . . . could they? :shock:
rolleyes
neil x x x ;)
:shock: I kinda think the wording is poetic in a sort of urban way
rotflmao
I'M sure TJ aint neil, you should see some of the emails we had as a result of an ad....never again!
*wonders if a masterclass in pornographic emails might come in handy*
hhhmmmm!!
bolt
i'm only kidding calista, promise! :P
neil x x x ;)
smackbottom
tea all over the laptop
NEIL!!!!!!!!
rotflmao
Cx
check this out though calista . . . . this is bleedin' well uncanny this is . . .
Yow bitch wha'gwan you sexy mo-fo

and . . .
yo is da bitch. total horny babe

how scary's that? fake PM, real PM, fake PM, real PM, you just can't tell anymore can yer?
rotflmao
neil x x x :P
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check this out though calista . . . . this is bleedin' well uncanny this is . . .
Yow bitch wha'gwan you sexy mo-fo

and . . .
yo is da bitch. total horny babe

how scary's that? fake PM, real PM, fake PM, real PM, you just can't tell anymore can yer?
rotflmao
neil x x x :P
Collect another 20 like that string em together and you might just have the lyrics for the next eminem or 50 cent track.....just a thought dunno
Neil ....... smackbottom no wait you'd like that too much rolleyes someone is bound to spoof you in my in box I've already had this willy pic from a comedian :shock: :shock:

Cx
Some of the PMs are a bit blunt, but I have had equally blunt PMs from before the change over. confused Same wankers only more of them.
I must admit that though I am here to have fun, I resent the fact that some people PM me with the view that they are doing me a favour because a) they live near me b) they have nothing better to do c) they think I have nothing better to do.
I only answer PMs if they have more to say, explain about themselves; who they are etc or who actually want to get to know me first.
Quote by Calista
Neil ....... smackbottom no wait you'd like that too much rolleyes someone is bound to spoof you in my in box I've already had this willy pic from a comedian :shock: :shock:
Willy Pic
Cx

Sup ma byatch? Is you sayin ma Willy aint da biz? :cry:
Quote by RedHot
Take this example of someone who contacted me today and is supposedly a gen swinger by his own account
"yo is da bitch. total horny i cracked one off on your pics. wanna sex me up babe?"
I assume this is a compliment and is asking for a shag, but since I don't speak that particular tongue, I really can't be sure dunno :undecided:

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Priceless :lol2: Bluddy brilliant :rotflmao:
Quote by Missy
Take this example of someone who contacted me today and is supposedly a gen swinger by his own account
"yo is da bitch. total horny i cracked one off on your pics. wanna sex me up babe?"
I assume this is a compliment and is asking for a shag, but since I don't speak that particular tongue, I really can't be sure dunno :undecided:

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Priceless :lol2: Bluddy brilliant :rotflmao:
oi you! don't you bloody laugh! it'll only encourage 'em if they think it's funny!
you should have been really, really indignant, and shown 'em some scary modding powers or summat?
((( and i know you don't really do indignant missy, bless ya little heart, but just pretend. they'll never know the difference, trust me! ;) )))
nods as good as a wink to a blind man, know what i mean!
*taps nose, winks, nods cryptically* ;)
neil x x x ;)
Well, as I am a 7ft tall muscular gay man I don't expect to get many unwanted PMs hehehehehehehehehehehehehehe. Anyone who knows me already knows that I am not actually that tall, but the small white lie stops all the wankers from sending me stupid unwanted shit. Fair dos, if I was paying to get sex from the site I'd expect something from my membership on here, but as I do not want these people contacting me then I think it is quite fair that I don't state my honest details on here any more. I would change my avatar to something more appropriate to my new ID but I don't know how to rolleyes
Anyways, I did get one stupid PM from a newbie today and I did reply in two words - the second being "off".
Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
I haven't had any PMs.
What am I doing wrong? I'm only 103. Surely somebody must fancy me. Some of you 104 yr olds maybe?
Mollie
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. I would change my avatar to something more appropriate to my new ID but I don't know how to rolleyes
Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe

If that's really true, blue - ping me and I'll walk you through it rotflmao
dammythenotsonumpty :lol2:
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Anyways, I did get one stupid PM from a newbie today and I did reply in two words - the second being "off"

Seven letters, two words, starts in F and ends in F wink rolleyes