single bi female...the holy grail?

28 Jun 2006

Hmmm, that has just made me think. :shock:
I know, calm down now... I'm not sick. lol

When I was a single bifemale the thing that used to drive me absolutely bats was people trying to flirt with me all the time. It became so annoying that some folks couldnt speak to me without double entandre undertones to the conversation that I would avoid conversation. I found it really irritating that my status as human being seemed to roll behind the status of 'single bisexual female' and that made normal chit chat quite often laborious, tedious and irritating. time and place didnt come into it at times, so while a little flirting was nice, constant flirting was simply not getting anywhere.
kiss

Gem. x

28 Jun 2006

I know what you mean Gem :shock:
One of the most off putting things for me is the comment "non pushy couple" and they then persist in emailing/PMing/following you in the chatroom all the time.... It's as though if they let you out of their sight for more than a couple of minutes then you will loose interest confused

:?

The minute they start getting pushy I back off.....

28 Jun 2006

well as this thread is still going then i thought i would update.....next weekend i have a meet with a couple off here lined up and im really looking forward to it!
its my first meet in many many months, we're chatting alot in msn and are getting on really well....above all theyre not making me feel that i have to live up to any unrealistic expectations, that i should be a "sexkitten" 24/7 and im broing if im not, or being over generous with he flattery....which is something ive struggled with in the past.

Quote by little gem
I've thought that many times when Ive looked at adverts in the past. Ive liked the pictures and the people but then when Ive thought about it its come down to do I think the author would want me... if the answer was possibly no then id not send a reply.

i can totally empathise with that as im the same, i dont know if im wrong or not.....but for example....i seriously do not beleive a slim toned size 10 with pert C cup boobs is going to fancy me....so even tho i do and have had replies off couples with a femlae half of that description (even when my profile states my preference for ladies over a certain size) ive had to say no because i just cant help but think theyre contacting me out of desperation/lack of choice rather than actually liking me!
does that make sense? dunno

28 Jun 2006

Quote by sexkittenhfx
does that make sense?

Perfect sense to me kitten kiss

28 Jun 2006

perfect sense...
I tend to go for women who are roughly (with a very generous margin) the same size as me. Having said that if I met someone in the flesh who was outside my normal field of vision who was interested in me and I felt the same way, then I wouldn't hesitate.
Feeling like you're being stalked is a bad thing. We have "friends" who we look out for and chat to and feel very protective towards... but not so much that we'd constantly text, follow them around chat etc... they have their own lives to live ffs.
It's all about being in that comfort zone... if everyone is happy then it'll be a happy experience... going off on a tangent now so I'll quit while I'm ahead lol

28 Jun 2006

i have soooooooo not been a-flirting and a-fluttering me eyelashes! mad

((( very long eyelashes though they are? perfect for them butterfly kissey things! biggrin

:P )))
erm . . . . no . . . i mean . . . . look just cos i've made more posts in the last 2 days than i have in the last two months, well, you're not to read anything into that? i'm just bored silly o.k. and i can't sleep cos there's no prospect of anyone to cuddle up to! sad

neil x x x ;)

28 Jun 2006

awww neil.... if you wanted a cuddle hunny you should have said rolleyes

28 Jun 2006

yep, im here for cuddles too smile

28 Jun 2006

What really pisses me off is the couples that think they can have a few short words in a chatroom with me & then they expect a meet.
As has been said before desperate or what.
I like to get to know people on line & msn. I also like to do socials as you get a better feel for the people then the written word can put across.
I have had some fantastic experiences but i have also had few bad ones. Doesnt matter how careful you are things can still go wrong but its the good experiences that out way the bad ones.
Body wise i have to agree that i do tend to go for ladies the same as myself but saying that i once played with a very large lady & it was her lovely, funny personality that won me over.

28 Jun 2006

FB wonders just how much fun could be had if all the bi females got together :twisted:

28 Jun 2006

Quote by Freckledbird
FB wonders just how much fun could be had if all the bi females got together :twisted:

There'll be a few of us on the 8th hun wink

28 Jun 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
FB wonders just how much fun could be had if all the bi females got together :twisted:

There'll be a few of us on the 8th hun wink

forgot to ask sass do you want me to bring a bottle on the 8th?? lol

28 Jun 2006

Quote by robbie_rob
FB wonders just how much fun could be had if all the bi females got together :twisted:

There'll be a few of us on the 8th hun wink

forgot to ask sass do you want me to bring a bottle on the 8th?? lol

:doh: you're nothing if not persistant hunni.

28 Jun 2006

so thats a yes then??? i knew you were wavering lol

28 Jun 2006

Quote by robbie_rob
so thats a yes then??? i knew you were wavering

If I see you this side of the Severn Bridge that day, I'll send the cockle pickers after you! poke

It just means we'll save it for another day hun wink

29 Jun 2006

Quote by Freckledbird
FB wonders just how much fun could be had if all the bi females got together :twisted:

I think we should find out FB :twisted: :twisted:

2 Jan 2007

Quote by DeviousLiasons

so i wondered....what exactly do you want in a single bi female?

1. Big tits
2. Lack of morals
3. Big tits
4. Easy
5. Big tits
6. Insatiable
7. Big tits
8. Attractive
9. Big Tits
10 . Adeventurous
11. Big tits.........
Shall we go on?
What do I want? Any/all of the above, but must have morals. What those morals are, I am willing to discuss.

25 Mar 2007

deserving of a bump IMO and I'm hoping the "morals" issue may be addressed too.
I'm still contemplating my thoughts on this thread.

25 Mar 2007

Quote by Marya_Northeast
I'm still contemplating my thoughts on this thread.

my thoughts havent changed - I still think SBF's are seen as pieces of meat (ooo she's bitter and cynical that Darkfire you know rotflmao

) ..but I do take on board the multitude of comments about 'being out of our/my league'. It's a bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy isnt it - SBF's dont want to be treated or thought of like that so they get picky, up their own arse (personally speaking, of course lol

) and very specific about what they want....that in turn sparks the whole 'outta my league' or 'attitude problem being compltely unattractive' circle and no-one's doing any actual shagging :lol:
Now then, this 'morals issue'.....

25 Mar 2007

well, nearly a year on and i dont know if my views have changed or not. very probably not. ive not been advertising/actively looking for quite some time so im not experiencing alot of those feelings anymore but im pretty sure it will all come flooding back when/if i return to the ads lol
it would be interesting to hear some of the newer forum members ideas on this i reckon. just coz im nosy and about to dip me toe in the single bi female swinging waters again wink

and as for the morals issue...did you have something specific in mind marya?

25 Mar 2007

No, not me, I was just hoping may expand on a sbf "must have morals" thingummy.

25 Mar 2007

ahhh, SH calling , SH calling , please elaborate lol