Yup - you're right. Very right.
But in the meantime, while I'm waiting, (and it could be a long wait), I'll settle for two men, maybe three.
Jezzay.
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Orgasminator
Quote by jezzay
Yup - you're right. Very right.
But in the meantime, while I'm waiting, (and it could be a long wait), I'll settle for two men, maybe three.
Jezzay.
Good job there are loads of us single men around if everyone is as greedy as you jezzay
Sex God
Quote by DeniseBabe
ohhh goody i like being right...... it makes my world so much easier
I have been here since oct 03 and the single fems remain the same.... single, is that cause they expect more than a swinger can give??
You maybe here since Oct 2003 but you only show since Jan 04 Denise ?
Oh no I'm getting picky aren't I ... :? :)
Orgasminator
Quote by DeniseBabe
ohhh goody i like being right...... it makes my world so much easier
I have been here since oct 03 and the single fems remain the same.... single, is that cause they expect more than a swinger can give??
Doesn't this defeat your own arguement?
P'raps they don't want a relationship if they have been single for so long.
Maybe they enjoy all the love & affection us single blokes are fighting to give them.
Sorry for making your world that bit harder DeniseBabe.
Sex God
Ah I'm enlightened Denise.......My apologies
Orgasminator
Quote by DeniseBabe
Im not single, i dont enjoy the attention that singles give to all single girls... how the hell can one feel special.......... women in chat make it pure and clear in decoded message they want long term, why cant they just be honest from the offset??????
Maybe 'cos women know men don't want long term so they have to reel them in gently like fish.
If they grab them too hard they might just wriggle out of their grasp and swim away.
Quote by littlemee
P'raps they don't want a relationship if they have been single for so long.
Perhaps. Or perhaps we just don't meet eligible guys. Or perhaps we do meet eligible guys but they don't realise we are eligible.
Do you have any idea how hard it is? Where do I go - on my own - tomorrow night (OK tonight) - as a single girl and meet all these guys I can THEN decide I don't really want?
Shut up, Roger. Yes I know I'm going to Peterborough!
Jezzay.
Orgasminator
Quote by jezzay
Perhaps. Or perhaps we just don't meet eligible guys. Or perhaps we do meet eligible guys but they don't realise we are eligible.
Do you have any idea how hard it is? Where do I go - on my own - tomorrow night (OK tonight) - as a single girl and meet all these guys I can THEN decide I don't really want?
Shut up, Roger. Yes I know I'm going to Peterborough!
Jezzay.
So go to Peterborough, let them know you are eligible and then take your pick. You'll probably have to beat them off with a stick 'cos there'll be so many.
I wish I had problems like that.
Sex God
Dont ya hate the term 'fems' ? How come fellas arent described as 'Mascs' or 'Ma's' ?
Or is it just that single women are thought of as comodities ?
Or is it just that single women are thought of as comodities ?
Sex God
LOL I wasn't having a go at you Denise :-)
Surely you havent been on the internet so long that you dont remember when you werent a fem but a female ?? :-)
Surely you havent been on the internet so long that you dont remember when you werent a fem but a female ?? :-)
Sex God
Quote by DeniseBabe
silk im so confussed with it all..... bless
and yes men want a shag....... single women pretend they want a shag but really they want a home and family
Hehehe your views will either be ignored or cause a great shit slinging debate . I gotta like you just for that alone LOLOL
Peace G
(wheres the cat ? What are all those pidgeon feathers ?? )
Sex God
Thats not ACTUALLY him in the avatar - although where the fuck he got a picture of my tax-inspector I do not know.
Sex God
Quote by DeniseBabe
There were a few of us today and we decided that only women want single men..... the single men are happy to play with a couple or with a single fem.
So with this we came up with the fact that single women only want to meet single men because deep down they want a relationship yet dont want to openly admit it......... are we right or wrong in our discussion and our outcome???
Do you also conclude that single men looking to meet single women are also looking for 'relationships', and if not, why not?
(Not that I wish to provoke any deep and meaningful sexual psychology type discussion or anything ;) )
Sex God
Quote by DeniseBabe
Oh dear its the morning after the night before........... whatever was i thinking :doh:
Vodka philosophy? Best kind.
Great debatable chat, so here my theory for what its worth.
The majority of Single Women sleep with only men they find attractive, they're looking for Mr Right, which means there will always be an element of emotional involvement.
Single Men on the other hand will sleep with anyone, all they want is the sex!!!
The majority of Single Women sleep with only men they find attractive, they're looking for Mr Right, which means there will always be an element of emotional involvement.
Single Men on the other hand will sleep with anyone, all they want is the sex!!!
more complex I tghink and people of both sexes here for lots of differant reasons.
Personally I have a daughter who got really jealous when I had a steady girlfriend before, so decided as she is everything to me, that I didn't want another serious relationship for a while. So looking for friendship fun and yes SEX.
Personally I have a daughter who got really jealous when I had a steady girlfriend before, so decided as she is everything to me, that I didn't want another serious relationship for a while. So looking for friendship fun and yes SEX.
Had to reply to this one.
I'm 45 and single, just come out of a 22 year marriage and very happy right now. I'm not looking for another relationship, other than friendship,been there done that etc, but thats not to say I don't get lonely, I miss the hugs and cuddles and yes the sex too. I like being with a man who shows me some attention and is interested in me as a maybe a sex kitten too!!
but to still keep my independence if that makes sense?
So no I don't agree that all women are looking for Mr Right.
Some of us are just looking for some laughs and hope to enjoy ourselves along the way.
Alleyson xxx
I'm 45 and single, just come out of a 22 year marriage and very happy right now. I'm not looking for another relationship, other than friendship,been there done that etc, but thats not to say I don't get lonely, I miss the hugs and cuddles and yes the sex too. I like being with a man who shows me some attention and is interested in me as a maybe a sex kitten too!!
but to still keep my independence if that makes sense?So no I don't agree that all women are looking for Mr Right.
Some of us are just looking for some laughs and hope to enjoy ourselves along the way.
Alleyson xxx
Sexlightened
i have come across several single women on here that will not play with married men, but as yet i have never come across a single man that will not play with a married woman
and i am not referring to cheating in any way , but playing with the spouses full approval
i dont mean this as a judgement on anyone , we all have the right to chose , but its just my observation. if there are any single men out there that are the exception then i am happy to be corrected
and i am not referring to cheating in any way , but playing with the spouses full approval
i dont mean this as a judgement on anyone , we all have the right to chose , but its just my observation. if there are any single men out there that are the exception then i am happy to be corrected
Orgasminator
Quote by Alleyson
Had to reply to this one.
I'm 45 and single, just come out of a 22 year marriage and very happy right now. I'm not looking for another relationship, other than friendship,been there done that etc, but thats not to say I don't get lonely, I miss the hugs and cuddles and yes the sex too. I like being with a man who shows me some attention and is interested in me as a maybe a sex kitten too!!
So no I don't agree that all women are looking for Mr Right.
Some of us are just looking for some laughs and hope to enjoy ourselves along the way.
Alleyson xxx
Puuurrrrrrrr!!!!
Some of us are on our own personal journeys of self-discovery, so are still learning what it is we're looking for, what we want from swinging and what our boundries are. Yes, the emotional does come into it. It's a matter of how much emotion do we want to give or hope to receive in return. I don't want to just fuck. I want a personal connection. I don't wanta relationship. I want relationships. I prefer sleeping with friends.
I'm not sure if swinging is my life-style choice or if I'm just dabbling. Sometimes I think I'd be too jealous to share someone I love, but then there is a big part of me that likes to share. And I know I'm not the only single female to go through these uncertainies, highs and lows and turn arounds. Sometimes us singles love being single. Sometimes us singles think we want love.
Does it matter if singles are looking for love?
And where would one go if one was looking for a romantic partner in a swinging relationship?
I'm not sure if swinging is my life-style choice or if I'm just dabbling. Sometimes I think I'd be too jealous to share someone I love, but then there is a big part of me that likes to share. And I know I'm not the only single female to go through these uncertainies, highs and lows and turn arounds. Sometimes us singles love being single. Sometimes us singles think we want love.
Does it matter if singles are looking for love?
And where would one go if one was looking for a romantic partner in a swinging relationship?
Quote by DeniseBabe
and yes men want a shag....... single women pretend they want a shag but really they want a home and family
I have a home and I have a wonderful family thank you very much. Jeez, how many other people think I'm just here to get someone down the aisle? :shock:
I originally came on here out of curiosity, and because I have fantasies that I would love to carry out - being the wuss I am, I've still not managed it :roll: but I'm still a step closer than I was before joining SH :?
I did not come on here to look for a life partner :shock: I'm a single fem that enjoys meeting men. I'm a straight fem (ok for the past few weeks that's been thrown into question :? but just the past few weeks, not the past year or so since I've been on here), so why would I want to meet up with couples or fems sexually?
If something more does happen to develop between me and a guy, then yeh, lovely, and it has done. So where's the difference between the single guy on here and the single fem?
One thing I never expected in a million years tho, and that's the friendships built on here, the social side. It's absolutely amazing and that's what has kept me here, not my desperation to find a life partner :roll:
Sex God
Quote by Shireen_Mids
(ok for the past few weeks that's been thrown into question
Ooohhhh Missy have I missed something??..... Do tell :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Shireen
xxx
I know, I know!!!
Sex God
Quote by Libra-Love
Some of us are on our own personal journeys of self-discovery, so are still learning what it is we're looking for, what we want from swinging and what our boundries are. Yes, the emotional does come into it. It's a matter of how much emotion do we want to give or hope to receive in return. I don't want to just fuck. I want a personal connection. I don't want a relationship. I want relationships. I prefer sleeping with friends.
I'm not sure if swinging is my life-style choice or if I'm just dabbling. Sometimes I think I'd be too jealous to share someone I love, but then there is a big part of me that likes to share. And I know I'm not the only single female to go through these uncertainies, highs and lows and turn arounds. Sometimes us singles love being single. Sometimes us singles think we want love.
Does it matter if singles are looking for love?
And where would one go if one was looking for a romantic partner in a swinging relationship?
My thoughts exactly Libra love, well said
Quote by MISSCHIEF
and yes men want a shag....... single women pretend they want a shag but really they want a home and family
I have a home and I have a wonderful family thank you very much. Jeez, how many other people think I'm just here to get someone down the aisle? :shock:
I originally came on here out of curiosity, and because I have fantasies that I would love to carry out
I did not come on here to look for a life partner :shock: I'm a single fem that enjoys meeting men.
If something more does happen to develop between me and a guy, then yeh, lovely. So where's the difference between the single guy on here and the single fem?
One thing I never expected in a million years tho, and that's the friendships built on here, the social side. It's absolutely amazing and that's what has kept me here, not my desperation to find a life partner :roll:
Snap - same here too, if it happened then fair enough but I didn't cme here with anyexpectations and love the social side of things more than anything.
So what if I'm single, it's not the end of the world and certainly isn't something I worry about.
I tried social conformity (house, live in partner, "normal" life, kids etc) and it didn't work for me. Possibly I was with the wrong partner but I'm mature enough to realise I don't need a partner to feel fulfilled or complete.
