single guys and fun, has it ever happened for you ?

20 Apr 2004

How may single guys off this board has actually "been" with a swinging couple or found what they are looking for sexually?

20 Apr 2004

ive met 2 couples off here
one couple was very nice but we didnt suit each other
the other couple were fantastic and i see them regular

20 Apr 2004

Gravelrash!! hey!! welcome to the site (if i may say so! not really my place! ;-) )
had my first meet within 2 weeks of using the chatroom!!! ;-)
nowt since!!! sad

but that's my fault so coulda had ;-)
but didn't get there! :(
that do ya?????? lol

neil x x x x

20 Apr 2004

Hi Gravelrash,
I have.
Good luck.
Mike.

20 Apr 2004

We have met 2 or 3 guys but then we have turned down about 400 to date!!!
If your new to it have a look at this on the xxxxx site about how guys should act. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Most of the 400 fell foul of a majority of the don'ts so didn't get a look in. We don't agree with every point but it would be an improvement for most guys.
There is another guys guide on here which is funny as hell but I wouldn't follow any of its points lol

:lol:
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21 Apr 2004

we are a married couple who have met two single men in the chat room on this site! Each guy has been worthwhile meeting and "M" full swaps with them quite regularly!

21 Apr 2004

I've met some wonderful guys from this site... as ever, the trick is respect, communication and a good sense of humour.
Hxx

21 Apr 2004

Hi Gravelrash
I have met several couples and some ladies from this site. Some have been sexual encounters, some have been as friends. The friendship should be the first thing to develop, along with trust and then see how where it goes.
It does happen, but have patience and let people know about you and what you like and don't like. Your personality needs to shine through first, then people will want to talk with you and develop the friendship.
Mal
lol

21 Apr 2004

Mal;
Your Avatar is starting to disturb / hypnotise me :shock:
Paul

21 Apr 2004

Im with Paul on this one mal.
what really worries me is I think I know her lol

On the subject I think patience has to be applied. Why not just join in have fun and see what happens confused

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21 Apr 2004

Quote by JudyTV
if things do happen quickly and often, then it will be a bonus (spelled miraculous :shock: )

I don't know, Judy... this is Heaven, shouldn't we expect Miracles? lol

Just for comparison purposes... I started hanging around swinging websites in the hope of improving certain aspects of my life in March 2003. In the intervening time, I physically met nobody from these sites until I went out for a drink for a couple last week. I'm sure my experiences are very typical.

21 Apr 2004

Quote by warwick
Im with Paul on this one mal.
what really worries me is I think I know her
On the subject I think patience has to be applied. Why not just join in have fun and see what happens :

Her? :? I thought that it must be Mal!!!!
Paul

21 Apr 2004

wow
Thanks for all the replys
Some very good points and words of advice there
Of course i did not expect to come on here and hope to get a "shag" in the first instance , all this is very new to me i was just wondering if things do really happen, i will be staying around no matter what its good to make new friends on these BB's i post on a few other sites ( not swinger) and have made some very good mates over the last few years. so you stuck with me for a while yet...lol
thanks
grav

21 Apr 2004

Errrrrrrr im passing no comment on numbers of females and couples i have met.
I presume that you you use "met" i presume you mean in a playing sense rather than a social one.
Ive found that virtually ever person that ive met from both categories have been really nice ppl.I hope that i can go on from here and met plenty more.