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Hi,
yes I'm another newbie single guy on the hunt for fun!
But wait that doesnt make me the lowest of the low!
Why oh why does being a SG make ladies and couples, think we are sooo desparate that we will f*** anything, put up with rudeness, unclean sweaty bodies and more besides!
We have standards too! I have been hounded with insulting emails just because i didnt fancy the lady in question, whether physically or because they are just so damm impolite.
And some of the husbands! pleaseee
Its time us single guys stood up and held our heads up high!
Will
Quite agree with you!! Before I met my partner, he had a fair bit of trouble from couples (although he also had some fab experiences) but it really makes me look at things from a different angle now after all the stories he's told me!
He was told once that he was far too choosy. Maybe he was but I also have a lot of respect for him saying no when he just didn't feel it was right.
smile
I am a married man who also enjoys dogging and sex with other couples as a 3 some i pride myself on my appearance and cleanliness and have been so turned OFF by the state of some couples I have refused to even watch never mind join in. so why do they expect all men to be sooo perfect when they carnt be bothered to even make a bit of an effort????
This is not sour grapes I have met and enjoyed the company of many couples without problems
would like to know what others think.
Cheer up m8 at least u've had some replys to your e-mails wink you must be doing something right m8 biggrin
No, dont get me wrong, Ive had fun too,
but like a lot of single guys it sure can be hard going sometimes!
And then you speak to a single lady and they have at least 15 mails a day!
Hi Will,
If you look around the site you will find men outnumber the ladies by several dozen to one. sad Hence the available ladies get a lot of emails. You will have to present a very good profile of yourself simply to get a single answer. rolleyes
Even then your chances of getting an actual meeting arranged is very slim :cry:
My advice is: Be honest in your description of yourself, your circumstances and what your looking for.
Be polite, no lady likes uncouth language.
Place an add in Photo Adds, a face shot often gets more replies than a cock shot.
Be prepared to wait, nothing happens overnight. confused
I have been sucessful, but it took time and patience. Once you get known in the swingers circuit its surprising what can happen.
Harry0
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So many lovely ladies, so little time left.
kiss for Harry
Good Evening Jags,
I just hope it was good advice 8)
kiss
Harry0
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Memo to myself, must meet Jags sometime.
yes I'm another newbie single guy on the hunt for fun!
But wait that doesnt make me the lowest of the low!
Why oh why does being a SG make ladies and couples, think we are sooo desparate that we will f*** anything, put up with rudeness, unclean sweaty bodies and more besides!
Its time us single guys stood up and held our heads up high!

Hey Will, take a look at my personal web page, then hold your head as high as you want, and think about first impressions.
:sleeping:
Kit
I sympathise, Will.
But swinging is like any other area of life - it involves people. People can often be warm and wonderful and light hearted and jolly good eggs... and sometimes they can be complete tossers! (I'm not giving any hints about who the tossers are! :twisted: )
Sounds like you've had a rough time, mate. Welcome aboard the SH ship. Almost everyone I've come across have been really good company... I hope you get as much fun from this site as I do. wink
Hxx
Whooooooooo!
what a response, but hey the last thing I intended was to come across as a moaning old git, far from it. Just wanted to put things over from the other side. Keeping the single guys "end up" as it were!
And kitkat, you want feedback on those pictures..... WOW fantastic body and I bet there is a lovely smile to go with it. I should have just pasted them in, theyll keep any blokes end up!
Hi everyone I got a email this morning from a couple who want to meet and if their pics are anything to go by it must be halloween needless to say wont be going.
but more to the point this couple dont seem to be on this site????
By the way great pics Heather and KitKat
The couple you are talking about probably just pop in to see the ads, that's why you haven't seen them around. You newbies can always take part in the initiation ceremony that is being arranged at the mo - that way, you won't be short of sex until decent couples turn up :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Oh, I feel mean today - it's a very liberating feeling wink
Thanks Blue but having read that topic not sure I fancy the dead male chicken lol.
though probably had one or two in my time
It wasn't me that mentioned chickens, I just wanted a gay gang bang (but don't I always) wink :wink: :wink: