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Hi everyone wave
Mod’s before you start jangling keys, this is not a rant !
Ok, well I have thought long and hard about how write this post, the last thing I want is for it to come over like some kind of exhibitionistic brag.
I have two reasons for posting this, firstly because quite simply we believe the guy deserves the recognition, secondly its time the single guys got an even break.
Well we have at last met, and played with someone off this site :bounce:
He’s a single guy who lives relatively local to us, and I have to say that despite our reservations, mainly due to some of the remarks we have had from guys in the chartrooms, we were very pleasantly surprised.
The guy is well spoken, polite, courteous, non pushy, respectful and kind.
In a very short time he has become a close friend, and to be honest, he has been a rock to me during our current enforced separation.
He is good looking, has a good body and knows how to please a lady (Caron’s words, not mine, I’m a bloke :rascal: )
I am not going to embarrass the guy further by mentioning his name but I do hope that when he reads this he will make himself known, and if he does, couples, ladies, all I can say is that he gets our highest recommendation.
So, lets not tar all the single guys on here with the same brush, maybe we should give them a fair chance to prove themselves and not write them off too soon. dunno
wink
I agree, until the winks were introduced I'd never had a problem with any of the single men on here smile Some in particular have done me the world of good biggrin and some hve become extremely good friends :D
It's such a shame that the majority get "branded" with the minority.
Cx
Pete mate :thumbup: A great post and one that soothes a very raw nerve.
It is because of that rawness that I have cut down on postings.
The day that this fecking winking came in was the day it all started to fall apart. Admin dont give a shit, its all money and power to them.
Cheers mate I owe you at least a pint. :cheers:
Medic_1
Well said pete, I have met a few couples from here and all have said how polite I was and non pushy, advice to all single males; slowly slowly, catchy monkey! biggrin
I've never had a problem meeting single guys off this site lol
Some I have swung with :twisted:
Some I only met for a drink :lol:
Some have stayed and will remain friends for a very long time, with no swinging involved :lol:
As a said in a post elswhere the nutters are completly spoiling what otherwise been a good first few months on here. Though i'v not had any meets as yet but that hasnt spoiled anything about my experiance here.
Most of the nutters i suspect joined the site after SH made an apperance in the national newspapers when SH were boasting they had x00,000 members in a feature on swinging in Britain. They also use chat and not any other feature of the site.
The extras package was given to me on a trial period and i never used the wink system as i knew it would be a big issue, as was the stealth cam wich i absolutly hated and got me into a few shouting matches in the chat being called a perv and feeling compelled to let ppl kow i was watching wich i only do when i'm on cam. I was pushing for it to be removed and they finaly relented but kept the winks which i find odd.
Thats my perception anyway.
Quote by goose35
As a said in a post elswhere the nutters are completly spoiling what otherwise been a good first few months on here. Though i'v not had any meets as yet but that hasnt spoiled anything about my experiance here.
Most of the nutters i suspect joined the site after SH made an apperance in the national newspapers when SH were boasting they had x00,000 members in a feature on swinging in Britain. They also use chat and not any other feature of the site.
The extras package was given to me on a trial period and i never used the wink system as i knew it would be a big issue, as was the stealth cam wich i absolutly hated and got me into a few shouting matches in the chat being called a perv and feeling compelled to let ppl kow i was watching wich i only do when i'm on cam. I was pushing for it to be removed and they finaly relented but kept the winks which i find odd.
Thats my perception anyway.

Goose I have to say it's good to know there are single guys like you still joining the site :thumbup:
IMHO it's what this site needs.
I understand the admin are running a business and are here to make a profit and the "desperado quick shag hunting dross" are the also the types more likely to part with there money so they're always gonna be here.
It's just good to know that they're not putting off the decent people
Great post Pete- :thumbup: worship
I love a bit of positivitivitvy, vy. (hic)
Now send 'im over here ! :giggle:
Quote by mike48
Hi everyone wave
Mod’s before you start jangling keys, this is not a rant !
Ok, well I have thought long and hard about how write this post, the last thing I want is for it to come over like some kind of exhibitionistic brag.
I have two reasons for posting this, firstly because quite simply we believe the guy deserves the recognition, secondly its time the single guys got an even break.
Well we have at last met, and played with someone off this site :bounce:
He’s a single guy who lives relatively local to us, and I have to say that despite our reservations, mainly due to some of the remarks we have had from guys in the chartrooms, we were very pleasantly surprised.
The guy is well spoken, polite, courteous, non pushy, respectful and kind.
In a very short time he has become a close friend, and to be honest, he has been a rock to me during our current enforced separation.
He is good looking, has a good body and knows how to please a lady (Caron’s words, not mine, I’m a bloke :rascal: )
I am not going to embarrass the guy further by mentioning his name but I do hope that when he reads this he will make himself known, and if he does, couples, ladies, all I can say is that he gets our highest recommendation.
So, lets not tar all the single guys on here with the same brush, maybe we should give them a fair chance to prove themselves and not write them off too soon. dunno
wink

Hi Pete
Aww thanks for the nice words
And thanks for not mentioning me by name biggrin
:laughabove: :giggle: :laughabove: :giggle: :laughabove: :giggle: :laughabove:
smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
I knew there'd be one rolleyes and it had to be you rotflmao
Quote by winchwench
Great post Pete- :thumbup: worship
I love a bit of positivitivitvy, vy. (hic)
Now send 'im over here ! :giggle:

Damn! you beat me to it.
H.x
Quote by winchwench
Great post Pete- :thumbup: worship
I love a bit of positivitivitvy, vy. (hic)
Now send 'im over here ! :giggle:

Quote by winchwench
Great post Pete- :thumbup: :worship:
I love a bit of positivitivitvy, vy. (hic)
Now send 'im over here ! :giggle:

Damn! you beat me to it.
H.x
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: whip form an orderly que over there >>>>>>>>> lol
if he doesn't get his backside on this thread soon I might have to name him before we are inundated with imposters rolleyes
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
sh is just representative of "down your street" !!!!!!!!!!
there r those you know in passing......there r those that you would trust with a spare key or to babysit 4 a couple of hours.........
and then there r those you cross the road to avoid.....r nuisance noisy meighbours.....or just put your back up by something they say/do..........and there r those that r just trouble!!!!!!!!!!
we`ve met some lovely guys and couples off here and would be great to tell people how wonderful they r.........but you just can`t...........same as you can`t name the timewasters. biggrin
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
As a said in a post elswhere the nutters are completly spoiling what otherwise been a good first few months on here. Though i'v not had any meets as yet but that hasnt spoiled anything about my experiance here.
Most of the nutters i suspect joined the site after SH made an apperance in the national newspapers when SH were boasting they had x00,000 members in a feature on swinging in Britain. They also use chat and not any other feature of the site.
The extras package was given to me on a trial period and i never used the wink system as i knew it would be a big issue, as was the stealth cam wich i absolutly hated and got me into a few shouting matches in the chat being called a perv and feeling compelled to let ppl kow i was watching wich i only do when i'm on cam. I was pushing for it to be removed and they finaly relented but kept the winks which i find odd.
Thats my perception anyway.

Goose I have to say it's good to know there are single guys like you still joining the site :thumbup:
IMHO it's what this site needs.
I understand the admin are running a business and are here to make a profit and the "desperado quick shag hunting dross" are the also the types more likely to part with there money so they're always gonna be here.
It's just good to know that they're not putting off the decent people
Thnx HLB nice to know
great post here young fella...
we're not all bad buggers us single fellas,well not unless asked to be !!!
a beer waiting in the gfz next time ur in pete,u deserve it mate for this post and the week your having.
Quote by winchwench
Great post Pete- :thumbup: worship
I love a bit of positivitivitvy, vy. (hic)
Now send 'im over here ! :giggle:

Have you been at the vodka again winchy?
Quote by Pete_sw
Hi everyone wave
Mod’s before you start jangling keys, this is not a rant !
Ok, well I have thought long and hard about how write this post, the last thing I want is for it to come over like some kind of exhibitionistic brag.
I have two reasons for posting this, firstly because quite simply we believe the guy deserves the recognition, secondly its time the single guys got an even break.
Well we have at last met, and played with someone off this site :bounce:
He’s a single guy who lives relatively local to us, and I have to say that despite our reservations, mainly due to some of the remarks we have had from guys in the chartrooms, we were very pleasantly surprised.
The guy is well spoken, polite, courteous, non pushy, respectful and kind.
In a very short time he has become a close friend, and to be honest, he has been a rock to me during our current enforced separation.
He is good looking, has a good body and knows how to please a lady (Caron’s words, not mine, I’m a bloke :rascal: )
I am not going to embarrass the guy further by mentioning his name but I do hope that when he reads this he will make himself known, and if he does, couples, ladies, all I can say is that he gets our highest recommendation.
So, lets not tar all the single guys on here with the same brush, maybe we should give them a fair chance to prove themselves and not write them off too soon. dunno
wink

Pete
You know me mate i am a genuine desreet guy and wouldnt normaly name my self but i felt the need to reply to this nice post,
Pete its me how should be saying thank you to the both of you as your one of the most genuine couple i have had the pleasure to have meet.
Pete you are such a top bloke as a lot of people on here know that, but Caron is the nicest sexyest ladys i know.
I know you and caron have not had it easy in the last couple of weeks, and i know i have tryed to be there for you both not that i have done much, but you know you have been there in the time of need for me also. so i want to thank you for being there for me also
:thumbup:
Mikey55
Quote by mike48
Hi everyone wave
Mod’s before you start jangling keys, this is not a rant !
Ok, well I have thought long and hard about how write this post, the last thing I want is for it to come over like some kind of exhibitionistic brag.
I have two reasons for posting this, firstly because quite simply we believe the guy deserves the recognition, secondly its time the single guys got an even break.
Well we have at last met, and played with someone off this site :bounce:
He’s a single guy who lives relatively local to us, and I have to say that despite our reservations, mainly due to some of the remarks we have had from guys in the chartrooms, we were very pleasantly surprised.
The guy is well spoken, polite, courteous, non pushy, respectful and kind.
In a very short time he has become a close friend, and to be honest, he has been a rock to me during our current enforced separation.
He is good looking, has a good body and knows how to please a lady (Caron’s words, not mine, I’m a bloke :rascal: )
I am not going to embarrass the guy further by mentioning his name but I do hope that when he reads this he will make himself known, and if he does, couples, ladies, all I can say is that he gets our highest recommendation.
So, lets not tar all the single guys on here with the same brush, maybe we should give them a fair chance to prove themselves and not write them off too soon. dunno
wink

Hi Pete
Aww thanks for the nice words
And thanks for not mentioning me by name biggrin
:laughabove: :giggle: :laughabove: :giggle: :laughabove: :giggle: :laughabove:
No, I'm Spartacus
:giggle: bolt
Quote by mikey55
Pete
You know me mate i am a genuine desreet guy and wouldnt normaly name my self but i felt the need to reply to this nice post,
Pete its me how should be saying thank you to the both of you as your one of the most genuine couple i have had the pleasure to have meet.
Pete you are such a top bloke as a lot of people on here know that, but Caron is the nicest sexyest ladys i know.
I know you and caron have not had it easy in the last couple of weeks, and i know i have tryed to be there for you both not that i have done much, but you know you have been there in the time of need for me also. so i want to thank you for being there for me also
:thumbup:
Mikey55

redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops:
Awwww mate, youve been a rock :thumbup:
I can lend you a shovel for your mailbox rotflmao
Quote by meat2pleaseu
No, I'm Spartacus
:giggle: bolt

:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Quote by MidlandsBob
Great post Pete- :thumbup: worship
I love a bit of positivitivitvy, vy. (hic)
Now send 'im over here ! :giggle:

Have you been at the vodka again winchy?
Vodka! How dare you! No self respecting "Ships Slapper" would be seen without a spiced rum in their hand! smackbottom
(anyway, Vodka makes me cry! Rum makes me horny as hell.....run for the hills!)
Well done Mikey55 for making an impression, nice to see a single guy come out on top and not be in here moaning about never having any meets without even considering why smile
And well done Pete_sw for bringing this topic up
We have met quite a few guys from this site and there is some genuine nice ones out there that really do understand swinging and the fun involved without all the pushiness, winks and moaning :)
Now if all the single guys pm Mikey55 for advise on how to be pleasant and increase your success rate then you might be on to a winner :giggle:
Well done Mikey :)
Shaz x
I tell you an even better idea, why dont all you 'nice single guys' drop me a pm so I know who and where you are, and then I'll try to work out where it is I've gone wrong. :thumbup:
are you volunteering for PM victim of the week, Miss D? wink
Quote by Darkfire
I tell you an even better idea, why dont all you 'nice single guys' drop me a pm so I know who and where you are, and then I'll try to work out where it is I've gone wrong. :thumbup:

Oh and she forgot to mention, Don't forget to attach the cock shots to your pmlol :lol: :lol: :twisted:
Shaz x
oops... double posted!
thankyou thankyou thankyou PETE_SW for sticking up for the common garden single male :happy:
amongst all the negativity there is some positives :cheers:
there are a few on here who i think can warm to me a little but i still suspect a great many view me/single males in general as parasites(can't blame them when i see what go's on in chat)
posts like this help keep the pecker up wave
cheers mate worship
Quote by meat2pleaseu
are you volunteering for PM victim of the week, Miss D? wink

yep biggrin
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Now if all the single guys pm Mikey55 for advise on how to be pleasant and increase :giggle:
Well done Mikey smile
Shaz x

and if all the couples on here pm him 4 a meet with a nice genuine guy...............
he`ll be so busy pete & caron`ll never see him again biggrin :D :D