Hello everyone ...
I've been on the swinging scene for over 3 years now, and while I've met a few memorable couples and single fems, some of whom I'm still intouch with, it seems that all my successful meets have happened by chance...
What I'm trying to say is... it seems almost impossible to find the right single fem or couple to swing with using the ad section of swinging sites! I'm saying this because I've put allot of effort into my ads (#53828 & #166997) however all the responses I get are spam e-mails! I aslo reply often to ads that match what I'm looking for and that I think I match what they're asking for, and I put allot of effort into these replies as well, but again all I get back is spam, unsolicited emails, and referals to porn websites!
Am I missing something? Am I doing something wrong? Are my ads bad? Are there real genuine single fems and couples who look for contacts through the ad section???
Help me out here .... please!
Thanks
PassionateWildStallion
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Sex God
can i also suggest that not everyone wants to see a picture of a penis on the profile....
(in fact you have given me an idea for a poll)
as someone said a few days ago...... you can paint a picture with words....
(in fact you have given me an idea for a poll)
as someone said a few days ago...... you can paint a picture with words....
Quote by SXBOY
can i also suggest that not everyone wants to see a picture of a penis on the profile....
(in fact you have given me an idea for a poll)
as someone said a few days ago...... you can paint a picture with words....
the nob is mightier than the sword
So true SXBOY
And god know's I've penned a few lines in me time
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personally i think a 'normal' pic would go down well on your add, cock pics are ok but as an as well as not an instead of pic.
Oh no :doh: what a quandry????
Does one become a cockless face pic poster or a faceless cock pic poster??
Many people who advertise want to be discreet and don't want all and sundry to see their faces on an adult site, some of the people looking at ads don't want to see bits n pieces. Some do. I guess its a case of you can please some of the people some of the time, but none of them all the time.
So with that in mind ladies please take a perv at my ad :small-print: There is nekkidity in abundance
Sex God
Mr Firey Horse
Dont lose heart.
When we first joined, we had our add and "bumped" it regularly (and for all I know it's still in the adds section if you search hard enough!!) We now have a link to it in our sig. and dont bother with the bumping.
We have successfully met with people as a direct result of it so they do work, honest!!
We now see our add as more of an info slot that lets those who get to know our character on the forum, know a little bit more about us.
Without doubt, in our experience, the forum is the place to be if you want to make friends to....errr....play with
Dont lose heart.
When we first joined, we had our add and "bumped" it regularly (and for all I know it's still in the adds section if you search hard enough!!) We now have a link to it in our sig. and dont bother with the bumping.
We have successfully met with people as a direct result of it so they do work, honest!!
We now see our add as more of an info slot that lets those who get to know our character on the forum, know a little bit more about us.
Without doubt, in our experience, the forum is the place to be if you want to make friends to....errr....play with
Sex God
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Laird - fancy playing??
:inlove:
Jags
I nearly fell off my seat there
I can't think of a better offer
Sex God
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You the Laird of Glenbogle or Auchtermuchty??
I'm the Laird of SH !!!!!!
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That reminds me, am off to see the Twin Boys from Auchtermuchty soon.
And how far would you walk for that??
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Right Laird, prepare to dive.
:inlove:
The pleasure will be ALL mine Jags
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Sex God
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You need to listen to 'Oh Jean' by the Twins of Auchtermuchty. That will let you know what you're in for.
As long as it involves you........
:inlove:
Sex God
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You an expert??
:inlove:
Dont claim to be but I'll take all the practice I can get
Sex God
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You an expert??
:inlove:
Dont claim to be but I'll take all the practice I can get
I'll help you out. I've got the map!
:inlove:
Professional Map reader me!!
Get yer coat, you've pulled...........
xx
Sex God
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Oh, errrr...... just off to bed Laird. Come and join me??
*BUM... so far away again*
:cry: :cry: :cry:
Gladly
it's well within the 500 miles limit
let me just get my kilt on
:inlove: You see pwstallion is that despite the fact some people ask for cock picks and some dont your better of with a fice pick then providing a cock one if the ad specificaly asks for one or if you get a reply asking you to provide some of your man hood but what you must remember is that any normal person knows that how its used whatever the size makes the difference so theres no need to have in the foreground of your ad
Sex God
Quote by sexyfella
You see pwstallion is that despite the fact some people ask for cock picks and some dont your better of with a fice pick then providing a cock one if the ad specificaly asks for one or if you get a reply asking you to provide some of your man hood but what you must remember is that any normal person knows that how its used whatever the size makes the difference so theres no need to have in the foreground of your ad
Bloody hell sexyfella, have some full stops. They make sentences, well, sentences.
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Quote by freckledbird
You see pwstallion is that despite the fact some people ask for cock picks and some dont your better of with a fice pick then providing a cock one if the ad specificaly asks for one or if you get a reply asking you to provide some of your man hood but what you must remember is that any normal person knows that how its used whatever the size makes the difference so theres no need to have in the foreground of your ad
Bloody hell sexyfella, have some full stops. They make sentences, well, sentences.
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god don't you just bloody hate teachers? :shock:
:lol: :lol: Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
You see pwstallion is that despite the fact some people ask for cock picks and some dont your better of with a fice pick then providing a cock one if the ad specificaly asks for one or if you get a reply asking you to provide some of your man hood but what you must remember is that any normal person knows that how its used whatever the size makes the difference so theres no need to have in the foreground of your ad
Bloody hell sexyfella, have some full stops. They make sentences, well, sentences.
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god don't you just bloody hate teachers? :shock:
:lol: :lol::lol: I think I've been very restrained considering I've had no kids to take it out on. Sorry Sexy fella, but it would help to make your posts easier to read/understand.
Quote by freckledbird
You see pwstallion is that despite the fact some people ask for cock picks and some dont your better of with a fice pick then providing a cock one if the ad specificaly asks for one or if you get a reply asking you to provide some of your man hood but what you must remember is that any normal person knows that how its used whatever the size makes the difference so theres no need to have in the foreground of your ad
Bloody hell sexyfella, have some full stops. They make sentences, well, sentences.
.........................................................
god don't you just bloody hate teachers? :shock:
:lol: :lol::lol: I think I've been very restrained considering I've had no kids to take it out on. Sorry Sexy fella, but it would help to make your posts easier to read/understand.
Thats fine frecklebird but I did knock it in a few secs but if it makes your life easyer heres a full stop for
Sex God
Doesn't make it easier, I'll just ignore it if I can't make sense of it. So will others - you never know, you might lose out because people can't make sense of your posts.
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You see, pwstallion, is that despite the fact some people ask for cock picks and some dont, your better of with a fice pick then providing a cock one if the ad specificaly asks for one or if you get a reply asking you to provide some of your man hood, but what you must remember is that any normal person knows that how its used, whatever the size, makes the difference, so theres no need to have in the foreground of your ad.
Bloody hell sexyfella, have some full stops. They make sentences, well, sentences.
.........................................................
There is only one sentence here. To put full stops in, when there are already connectives, would be gramatically (tm skegnessswingers) incorrect. The only missing full stop appears to be the final one which sexyfella has provided in a later post.
However I'm sure the lady protesteth too much and could make sense of it really because it wasn't that difficult to understand the gist of what seemed a genuine attempt to offer meaningful advice.
Sex God
NWC yes, I could understand it. I think even you would agree that it is a very awkward sentence even with all the connectives. It would be easier if it had been broken down into several smaller sentences and more full stops would then have been necessary. However, I have taken your point and accept that, on this occasion, the punctuation didn't alter the actual meaning of the message, ie. the advice 
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... TURN on the anon email system this will prevent spam sites from such easy access to your email acct.
Its there for your protection hun suggest you use it.
...
Thanks for the advice Steph... only problem with that is people can only send one single pic, the size of which cannot exceed 50k, so it's a bit limited... but I'll give it a thought x
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can i also suggest that not everyone wants to see a picture of a penis on the profile....
Quote by naughtynymphos1
personally i think a 'normal' pic would go down well on your add, cock pics are ok but as an as well as not an instead of pic.
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Does one become a cockless face pic poster or a faceless cock pic poster??
Quote by sexyfella
...your better of with a fice pick then providing a cock one if the ad specificaly asks for one or if you get a reply asking you to provide some of your man hood ...
Fabio, Naughtynymphos1, Jim and sexyfella, thanks allot for your input... it's a very difficult issue to decide about though.... I am a bit shy and so wouldn't like my face pic there for all to see... but I'm always happy to send it to genuine replies to my ad and to ads that I reply to...
I know that some people would rather not see a penis pic and some would... so do I put it or do I not??? If I don't put it ... and dont put a face pic either... then the profile has no pic at all... and my impression is that most adds with no pics get ignored... so... still confused really... and still need advice... please
Oh and NaughtyNymphos1... do you have an ad somewhere? do you play with single guys?
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Mr Firey Horse
Dont lose heart.
When we first joined, we had our add and "bumped" it regularly (and for all I know it's still in the adds section if you search hard enough!!) We now have a link to it in our sig. and dont bother with the bumping.
We have successfully met with people as a direct result of it so they do work, honest!!
We now see our add as more of an info slot that lets those who get to know our character on the forum, know a little bit more about us.
Without doubt, in our experience, the forum is the place to be if you want to make friends to....errr....play with
I can't thank you enough Laird for your reassuring comments .... :) thanks
oh and lovely ad by the way... do you only play with couples? I'm single and I wanna play too ;)
