Some people are just a nuisance, I think they may have worked in cold calling where volume is king.
I still get messages from gay and bi guys, as long as they are polite and stop sending PMs after I say 'No thanks' then I couldn't care less.
I wouldn't group block them because a few don't get the message. Hell those with interesting or amusing things to say wont get a fuck out of me but may well make my friends list if they are good people.
What's a profile? Wanna hook up fer some naughties?
p.s. I'm only single when the mrs isn't about.
yup, I'm actually a bored truck driver......sorry BF :lol2:
Well I get PM from bi-males, and whispers in the chatrooms. I just take it as a compliment. Then think poor chap, all the bi/gay guys have rejected him.
Did you ever stop and think how many single guys read your profile and didn't message you ?? I know I didn't.
I reckon we must be doing something wrong as we get very few mails from single guys, despite our profile saying we do meet with guys on their own. Sure we get the odd mail from people who have a very loose interpretation of "tall, slim and under 40", but not in the numbers to get stressed about.
when these single male threads come along i am usually left with the feeling that the plaintives, despite their protestations and reasons, were really more dissapointed about not getting enough offers from single males.
tbf, even though we have also asked for no single men, we really have only had maybe 3 messages from that pool, so cant really complain too much. (had more friend requests from single guys than actual messages. lol)
the problem we seem to have encountered more of is with couples, where the guy seems to either have to (yeah right) or want to do all the communicating.
when even their own profile states fem/fem contact, you get a bloke on the other end of a phone or keyboard, and likewise, when you get messages from couples, and state you want contact from the fem, all contact stops.
me thinks there are a large number of profiles on here, of couples that are either not couples at all, or no longer couples, yet the guy seems to think he can get his rocks off by talking to my other half, or we will organise a meet when we have no interest of further cock.
does it make sense?????
BA
Just to change the angle a little,
Us single guys get a hell of a bad bad press!
We are called "desperate" and just after a shag.
We don't fit the criteria of those seeking couple to couple.
When we reach a certain age, we are considered past it!
We are often cited as being a problem because we are single!!
If I were to scour the ads for hours and hours and hours on SH, I would find that, as a 39 year old single bloke has no chance, zero chance and naff all chance.
It's true.
When you are 39 and single, life is, in effect, over.
It is also around this time, that a single man realises that there is no chance of becoming an astronaut.
Oh, and for those who think it's weird that a bloke can be single at 39, I'm divorced, enjoying life, earning loads and supporting my kids through their schooling. I travel internationally and live the life most dream of.
I hate being single!!!
Bell x
We have had the same problem. The profile clearly reads no single men.
I am so tempted to start listing there names on the profile to say they are idiots.
I think the techs need to impliment something where
1. single men posing as couples can be reported then they have to prove they are not.
2. An option can be given where you can select what you are not looking for, and if the person contacts you any way you can report them in some way.
We are getting to a point where we are thinking of removing the public pictures, and making them private.
