I have been going to Abfabs for a while now and can watch and play with cpls or groups in open play areas. What I am trying to do is sit next to and talk to cpls in the social area. How do I break the ice and what do I say to them. Hello, how are u? or how long have you been here this evening etc?. Does not help sometimes when the music is loud.
I know some cpls are looking for single males and others are not.
Does anyone have ideas how to break the ice and what to say.
Cabin1
I think its fair to say that a couple will usually indicate if they are not interested fairly quickly. Some do like a good conversation before playing.
I don't think you can beat asking if they mind you joining them. If there is any attraction at all, and they want to chat they will of course invite you to sit with them.
Once sat, just say thanks, be yourself and start by introducing yourself.
I never knew what to say or how to break the ice so now I always start with "Fancy a shag?"
It never works :-)
Politeness works, just chatting is a good start, if it does not lead to anything so what. Nothing worse than everyine sitting there in silence.
Confidence, eye contact and good manners are essential - asking if you can join them is sound advice and then enjoy their company! Even if it ends up just a chat you've made new friends who can introduce you to other lovely folks! If you worry about what to say you'll never get round to saying anything! Enjoy :-)
We look for single guys and go to naturist / sauna type places.
Fact is Mrs needs to know what the guy is bringing to the party - so to speak. Nothing sillier in our opinion than guys walking around covered up with a towel. We need to know about the asset to make a quick decision in those environments so why flipping hide it?
