Warming the Bed
I honestly think that there are a lot of timewasters on here, and they give the genuine guys a bad reputation. I'm happy to go in chatrooms and join in a conversation. I go to socials, not always to play but sometimes just to have a laugh and put names to faces. However I've been to meets where other guys were supposed to meet up and you usually get some drop outs. There's a lot of men here where I think the fantasy of meeting for them is enough, so they're happy to say they'll meet then get cold feet. On the other hand I know several genuine single guys on here too, and when chatting you get the feeling that the timewasters give us genuine guys a bad reputation. Most people with pics/shrep can be seen as reliable, but now it's very hard for new single guys on the scene to get established. I'd like to think that the minority of us single guys are timewasters, but they do ruin it for the rest of us
