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Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
How many singles out there would like to join either a singles only swing site or go to a singles only night swing club event??
I hope you have a sense of humour !!!
no i think hes serious flower! :lol:
Well he won't get many answers will he, if swinging is dominated by couples?
Sex God
One of the great things about swinging is its inclusiveness. I certainly wouldn't be attending an ANYTHING-only club or event.
If a person can't get a meet it won't be because they are single and there are too many couples. Loads of singels (male or female) get meets. It will be because they don't present themselves in a way that makes couples (or other singels for that matter) want to meet them.
Maybe we should be looking out for a "people who want to shag me - only" event being advertised. :giggle:
If a person can't get a meet it won't be because they are single and there are too many couples. Loads of singels (male or female) get meets. It will be because they don't present themselves in a way that makes couples (or other singels for that matter) want to meet them.
Maybe we should be looking out for a "people who want to shag me - only" event being advertised. :giggle:
Sex God
Quote by foxylady2209
One of the great things about swinging is its inclusiveness. I certainly wouldn't be attending an ANYTHING-only club or event.
If a person can't get a meet it won't be because they are single and there are too many couples. Loads of songels (male or female) get meets. It will be because they don't present themselves in a way that makes couples (or other singels for that matter) want to meet them.
Maybe we should be looking out for a "people who want to shag me - only" event being advertised. :giggle:
wonder who'll be advertising that one? 
Sex God
Quote by foxylady2209
One of the great things about swinging is its inclusiveness. I certainly wouldn't be attending an ANYTHING-only club or event.
Yep, that's a bit how I feel... and I'm a single swinger.
The way I see it is that we're a mixed bunch - when I go to socials and munches I can honestly say that I end up on a night out with folk I wouldn't normally socialise with... that may be because of the geographical location, or maybe it is because they are people who do different jobs than I do or whatever. The thing we have in common, I presume, is our sexual open-mindedness - and membership of this site. It's why I like attending socials and Munches; you never know who you'll meet.
If it was all singles, I think I would find it a bit uncomfortable.
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
One of the great things about swinging is its inclusiveness. I certainly wouldn't be attending an ANYTHING-only club or event.
If a person can't get a meet it won't be because they are single and there are too many couples. Loads of songels (male or female) get meets. It will be because they don't present themselves in a way that makes couples (or other singels for that matter) want to meet them.
Maybe we should be looking out for a "people who want to shag me - only" event being advertised. :giggle:
I thibk thats called a gang bang foxy,and the woman who organise them tell me they are well attended :giggle:
Very true
:D:D:D Not that I am familiar with such a thing 
Not so sure how a 1-man, many-women gang-bang would go. :D:D:D:D (Yes, BIoke - you can come too :D:D:D:D)
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
Now what would I do with 20 women? I'd be scared to death and wouldn't have a clue - bring yer boyfriends and husbands and I'll think about it...x
We'll take you in hand, don't you fret. :twisted:
We might even be gentle.
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
I misread the title and thought this was a thread about the Swingle singers...
Are they like Swing Out Sister?
(showing age!):karaoke: Don't stop to ask
Now you've found a break to make at last
You've got to find a way
Say what you want to say
Breakout :karaoke:
Great song!
Quote by Scottalottie
How many singles out there would like to join either a singles only swing site or go to a singles only night swing club event??
Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
I like swinging Heaven to much to join a single swingers site.
trav..
Sex God
I'm not sure there's such a thing asd a single swinger 
Sex God
Quote by noladreams
I misread the title and thought this was a thread about the Swingle singers...
Are they like Swing Out Sister?
(showing age!):karaoke: Don't stop to ask
Now you've found a break to make at last
You've got to find a way
Say what you want to say
Breakout :karaoke:
Great song!
:dunno: :dunno: :dunno: :dunno: :dunno: Maybe that's before my time. :giggle:
As for would I join a singles-only swinging site, what would I do with Kate? :dunno: :confused:
....... answers on a postcard to ...... :lol2: Would I get kicked out if I was a couple pretending to be a single male?
Quote by Lost
I'm not sure there's such a thing asd a single swinger
Is it someone who travels 100 miles to a hotel and then :wanker: ??? :rotflmao:
Sex God
Hmmmmmmmm.... A single's swinging club?? It may as well be a wank club as it would only be full of men!
Seriously tho, could you imagine it... 1 girl 50 men haha.. she would be petrified!!
Seriously tho, could you imagine it... 1 girl 50 men haha.. she would be petrified!!
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
as with all these singles/swinging debates, i think the OP is missing the subtle difference between NSA and swinging.
:thumbup:
So am I not a swinger then?
And all this time I thought... :doh:
Sex God
Quote by brucie
you know what nola you probably arent a swinger in the conventional sense of the word.
"2. Couples who knowingly have casual sex outside of their relationships "
"Swingers are people who are married or in a long-term relationship and who like to have sex with other couples. "
i know you have looser definitions, but i would argue that this is pretty much the accepted one. ergo as a single woman you are probably better described in some other wonderful way.
Ahh, but who has accepted that definition? I'm not trying to be argumentative - I'm merely wondering.
Sex God
Quote by brucie
as with all these singles/swinging debates, i think the OP is missing the subtle difference between NSA and swinging.
OK - that's it! I'm off to join NSA Heaven now then.
Interesting question there mind you.
Are all the swinging couples on this site, who have sex with singles, taking advantage of the singles' willingness to engage in NSA sex?
I feel so used!!
.
Sex God
From the Cambridge English Dictionary:
From The Oxford English Dictionary
Guess it's maybe a vanilla definition, but there's still no mention of long-term relationship, or marriage.
Definition
swinger noun
.....a person who dresses in a fashionable way and who goes to a lot of parties and nightclubs, or someone who is willing to have sex often with many different people
From The Oxford English Dictionary
.....swap sexual partners or engage in group sex......
Guess it's maybe a vanilla definition, but there's still no mention of long-term relationship, or marriage.
Sex God
Quote by brucie
im not looking for an argument either. a i said no definition is written in stone. hell, i make my living on interpretation of words. its all semantics in the end. but i just dont want you going round deceiving people... ;-)
Semantics indeedy! :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by easy
From the Cambridge English Dictionary:
Definition
swinger noun
.....a person who dresses in a fashionable way and who goes to a lot of parties and nightclubs, or someone who is willing to have sex often with many different people
From The Oxford English Dictionary
.....swap sexual partners or engage in group sex......
Guess it's maybe a vanilla definition, but there's still no mention of long-term relationship, or marriage.
:bounce: Does that mean I don't have to hang up my fashionable swinging-boots just yet then?! :bounce:
Sex God
Quote by noladreams
............... :bounce: Does that mean I don't have to hang up my fashionable swinging-boots just yet then?! :bounce:
If they've got anything less than a 5" heel, yes, hang them up. :lol2:
Sex God
One could say singles are more your facilitators too swinging couples. Other wise "singles" swinging are just shagging about really .
