Well since sharing my vanilla thoughts with the forum I must say I've had some very interesting PMs - and I mean that in a positive way. It seems I am not alone in my opinions
and that a certain attitude attracts a certain guy. I'm not saying I will date them all because I want to look outside of SH but it's refreshing to get private thoughts and non-sex-related compliments from men who see exactly where I'm coming from.
I am not dissing swinging in any way , it is just not for me. Not as a single. Anyone who knows me will know I am naturally adventurous and I think threesomes will always feature in my life, but that doesn't make me a swinger.
SunBunny Mark 2 is about to play a whole different ballgame.
(And would like to take this opportunity to thank her dear friend PoloLady, without whom Sunbunny the Confused would not have coped at all with the overwhelming barrage of hurt and disappointment she has recently had to deal with, due to unreliable, unthinking, uncaring men. Thank you babe you mean so much. xxx)
for goodness sake . . . what exactly is vanilla dating?
Is it going out for a date with someone without, expecting them to jump into to the sack with you, while screaming fuck me? . . . or is taking a chance with someone you happen to have met through serendipity; that may or may not have the same sexual confidence and openess of someone you might meet on this website.
In or out of a relationship I never shy and always acknowledge if there is chemistry between myself and that girl who for some reason I always find myself smiling at and that she always smiles back. In a relationship I just feel glad and better about the world if that happens. Out of a relationship perhaps I'll chance a cheeky compliment and ask her for her phone number and see where it leads.
I can't say I've met many women that aren't little sex pots at the best of times, while swapping partners and moresomes are fun, I'm quite happy to explore this new girls realm sexual experience and sexual exploration.
So bollocks to saying she can't be a 'little goer' cause she's not open minded or pro-active enough to spend time on a site like this . . . chase her you horny Dawg . . . .
. . . no sex on the first date? . . . If you read those eyes right the first time by the second date she'll be ripping off her knickers and sitting on your face :grin:
That's my thoughts anyway . . . .
. . . . and just for the record . . . . what is a vanilla date?
Percy x
iF ANYONES INTERESTED IN A NEW GIRLS OPINION....I'm still looking to date but i ideally want a partner who will swing with me now.
I keep getting offers of swinging partners for occasional events, but it's always to get the guys to places or with people that wouldnt entertain them as a singleton.
So guys....i'm 40, size 26, newish to all this and loving it.
I'm 5/6, green eyes, clever funny and sexy.
Why waste time on a girl who doesnt like what you do?
I live nr Worcester...... try me before you buy me....
Evie x x
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