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19 Apr 2006

Quote by mrcarrot_n_cream_41398
ok 2penneth worth coming
personaly i think people that have been members for years should have their opinions listened to wether they have paid or not, after all, without all those members this site wouldnt be where it is now.

Exactly.

19 Apr 2006

I kinda like the winks redface

however I agree about them being lame one liners!! ..... pretty stupid that half the ones I've had don't even have their profile filled in anyway!
rolleyes

Cx

19 Apr 2006

Quote by Dawn_Mids
I thought swinging was about consent
How can I know if I am happy with someone watching my cam or if I want to know if I should turn it off.
If I was swinging in a club, I could see who was watching and decide whether I was comfortable with it or not

Exactly .................. I was in a room this afternoon ................ on cam but not showing anything coz it doesnt float my boat .................. and the whispers I got were worse than usual ................. making everything a secret gives the numpties the opportunity to do whatever .............
I HATE IT and will not be going on cam in the rooms anymore
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

19 Apr 2006

Quote by Calista
I kinda like the winks however I agree about them being lame one liners!! ..... pretty stupid that half the ones I've had don't even have their profile filled in anyway!

Cx

Im either being stupid or just not used to the layout but I dont think I've had ANY winks yet.... sad

Oh well......
Im gonna re-open Mingers corner and BLOODY sulk in it......
lol

19 Apr 2006

Quote by blonde
I thought swinging was about consent
How can I know if I am happy with someone watching my cam or if I want to know if I should turn it off.
If I was swinging in a club, I could see who was watching and decide whether I was comfortable with it or not

Exactly .................. I was in a room this afternoon ................ on cam but not showing anything coz it doesnt float my boat .................. and the whispers I got were worse than usual ................. making everything a secret gives the numpties the opportunity to do whatever .............
I HATE IT and will not be going on cam in the rooms anymore
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I'd forgotten I'd said that Sam :eeek:
I've ranted rather a lot in a few places tonight but I think we make a good point there chick :thumbup:

19 Apr 2006

Quote by Dlep
I kinda like the winks however I agree about them being lame one liners!! ..... pretty stupid that half the ones I've had don't even have their profile filled in anyway!

Cx

Im either being stupid or just not used to the layout but I dont think I've had ANY winks yet.... sad

Oh well......
Im gonna re-open Mingers corner and BLOODY sulk in it......
lol

Ive had a wink now.....Shall I close mingers corner?
Thanks hun wink

:lol:

19 Apr 2006

Define paid member?
A person/people who has aided the community over a period of months/years, has organised Munchs and socials often out of there own pocket for the bennefit of other users new and old. Someone/some people who for months/years has used the photo ads section to meet other swingers in a responsible way thus enhancing the scene for everyone. A person/people whop have spent countless hours in various forums giving guidance to new and old memebers whilst at the same time creating a fun entertaining enviroment in which other members can interact. A person/people who have advised others on clubs and taken the time to arange meets at clubs or personaly meet other users at clubs sometimes at expense to themselves. A person/people who have researched dogging sites in there area/around the country and taken time to give advice to new/existing members on the subject ... I think you get the idea.
or
Twat with a credit card?
Mr Tweeky

20 Apr 2006

Quote by Dlep
I kinda like the winks however I agree about them being lame one liners!! ..... pretty stupid that half the ones I've had don't even have their profile filled in anyway!

Cx

Im either being stupid or just not used to the layout but I dont think I've had ANY winks yet.... sad

Oh well......
Im gonna re-open Mingers corner and BLOODY sulk in it......
lol

Ive had a wink now.....Shall I close mingers corner?
Thanks hun wink

:lol:
ive had too many flucking winks today....i keep seeing red spots at the side of my eyes, thought at first i needed to go and have my eyes checked....y oh y when there is site changes does every tom DICK or harry think they have the rite to pm me
cb
xxx

20 Apr 2006

If I get one more wink/PM that says .............
I'd like to know more ...................
I am gonna scream !!! :kick:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

20 Apr 2006

Quote by tweeky
Define paid member?
A person/people who has aided the community over a period of months/years, has organised Munchs and socials often out of there own pocket for the bennefit of other users new and old. Someone/some people who for months/years has used the photo ads section to meet other swingers in a responsible way thus enhancing the scene for everyone. A person/people whop have spent countless hours in various forums giving guidance to new and old memebers whilst at the same time creating a fun entertaining enviroment in which other members can interact. A person/people who have advised others on clubs and taken the time to arange meets at clubs or personaly meet other users at clubs sometimes at expense to themselves. A person/people who have researched dogging sites in there area/around the country and taken time to give advice to new/existing members on the subject ... I think you get the idea.
or
Twat with a credit card?
Mr Tweeky

Neither.
The first option is called a volunteer.
The second is just an abusive remark aimed at those who have made a choice to join the site after December last year or has chosen to upgrade their membership.
Mal

20 Apr 2006

I've had no winks (awwww)
Once again I know where I stand.
phredd
ps :- FFS who needs a wink to live and enjoy swinging and life.

20 Apr 2006

Quote by Jas-Tim
What Susie is saying is that he is better than us basically......

Not how I see it. I see it as someone expecting a better service for having paid for it. It doesn't seem unreasonable to me. If I paid to upgrade my cable package then I would expect more choice/service for my money than someone who has freeview.
Jas
XXX
I get you Jas...
If you book into a hotel and pay to be upgraded... would you not be pissed off if you ended up in the same size room as the 'standard room' guests and then they complained that you had a bathrobe in your room - so house-keeping comes along and takes away your bathrobe and deluxe shower gel - replacing it with the bog-standard mini soap bar that smells of old ladies.

20 Apr 2006

Ffs why is the wink icon in the exact place where the profile icon was????
We have sent winks inadvertently!!!!
The recipients will think we are right lazy arses......ah well the truth will out sad

20 Apr 2006

I've had more winks than I can shake a stick at ffs ! mad

If people are too lazy to write a proper intro then I don;t even bother to answer them but then that makes me look to them as rude.
Lose the damn winks !!!!!!

20 Apr 2006

Only 3 winks so far today rolleyes

20 Apr 2006

Only 3???? I've counted 9 in the last hour ! :shock: mad

and 4 of them from single guys :doh:

20 Apr 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Only 3???? I've counted 9 in the last hour ! :shock:
and 4 of them from single guys :doh:

Havent had any since I blocked certain groups from contacting me.. dunno

20 Apr 2006

But that just blocks the singles. What about the others? If they can't be arsed to write a proper message, why should I be bothered to answer? dunno

Besides that, there are a few singles on here who are mates so I wouldn't want to block them too

20 Apr 2006

And what about a single organising or helping to organise a munch for instance ???
Would he/she be able to send the info - or ask for info via the "no longer" PM system ???

20 Apr 2006

Valid point Dammie :thumbup:

20 Apr 2006

Everybody's opinions are important to us, the paying and existing membership have always been treated the same in that respect, the Extras are additional features that are there if you want to subscribe to them, true there is priority support but that relates more to the order that the tickets are looked rather than the content.

20 Apr 2006

We have the eyes back in the Chatrooms :bounce: I am going back in :giggle:
Thank you to the 4 Tops
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

20 Apr 2006

Quote by st3v3
Everybody's opinions are important to us, the paying and existing membership have always been treated the same in that respect, the Extras are additional features that are there if you want to subscribe to them, true there is priority support but that relates more to the order that the tickets are looked rather than the content.

Not quite true st3v3.
The girls that are getting annoyed about things like winks/stealth haven't subscribed to anything.
You (4T) have pushed unwanted attention onto them.
"unwanted attention" - in a swinging connotation ?????????????????????
Hardly surprising that some will be VERY upset by that rolleyes

20 Apr 2006

Quote by dambuster
Everybody's opinions are important to us, the paying and existing membership have always been treated the same in that respect, the Extras are additional features that are there if you want to subscribe to them, true there is priority support but that relates more to the order that the tickets are looked rather than the content.

Not quite true st3v3.
The girls that are getting annoyed about things like winks/stealth haven't subscribed to anything.
You (4T) have pushed unwanted attention onto them.
"unwanted attention" - in a swinging connotation ?????????????????????
Hardly surprising that some will be VERY upset by that rolleyes

:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
It's feeling less and less like a swinging site and more and more like a meat market!
Cx

20 Apr 2006

Quote by dambuster
Everybody's opinions are important to us, the paying and existing membership have always been treated the same in that respect, the Extras are additional features that are there if you want to subscribe to them, true there is priority support but that relates more to the order that the tickets are looked rather than the content.

Not quite true st3v3.
The girls that are getting annoyed about things like winks/stealth haven't subscribed to anything.
You (4T) have pushed unwanted attention onto them.
"unwanted attention" - in a swinging connotation ?????????????????????
Hardly surprising that some will be VERY upset by that rolleyes

Whilst on the one hand I personally see no benefit in sending a wink - it is just lazy - and I was finding deleting them annoying...
The benefit is (and it took me a while to spot this) at least I can spot a wink without having to open it and read some morons excuse for a one-liner. So I don't have to open a wink to decide if I need to delete it or not.
There has always been 'unwanted attention' to some degree - it just has a new name now. And they can only send 20 wank-wish-winks per day - there is no limit on the number of one-liner "let's meet" shite that anyone can send.

20 Apr 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
But that just blocks the singles. What about the others? If they can't be arsed to write a proper message, why should I be bothered to answer?
Besides that, there are a few singles on here who are mates so I wouldn't want to block them too

You can add them to your friends list biggrin

20 Apr 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids
But that just blocks the singles. What about the others? If they can't be arsed to write a proper message, why should I be bothered to answer?
Besides that, there are a few singles on here who are mates so I wouldn't want to block them too

You can add them to your friends list biggrin

so by adding certain single males to my friends list means I can still get pms from them even though I block all single men? Learn summat new everyday! rolleyes

20 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Everybody's opinions are important to us, the paying and existing membership have always been treated the same in that respect, the Extras are additional features that are there if you want to subscribe to them, true there is priority support but that relates more to the order that the tickets are looked rather than the content.

Not quite true st3v3.
The girls that are getting annoyed about things like winks/stealth haven't subscribed to anything.
You (4T) have pushed unwanted attention onto them.
"unwanted attention" - in a swinging connotation ?????????????????????
Hardly surprising that some will be VERY upset by that rolleyes

Whilst on the one hand I personally see no benefit in sending a wink - it is just lazy - and I was finding deleting them annoying...
The benefit is (and it took me a while to spot this) at least I can spot a wink without having to open it and read some morons excuse for a one-liner. So I don't have to open a wink to decide if I need to delete it or not.
There has always been 'unwanted attention' to some degree - it just has a new name now. And they can only send 20 wank-wish-winks per day - there is no limit on the number of one-liner "let's meet" shite that anyone can send.
Used properly then the winks system might be fun ... if you pay and can alter the text and use it in a fun way. But at the moment it's just being used by every chancer who can't be bothered to read what someone is looking for!

20 Apr 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
so by adding certain single males to my friends list means I can still get pms from them even though I block all single men? Learn summat new everyday!

Yep......Its exactly what I have done wink

20 Apr 2006

Quote by Calista
But at the moment it's just being used by every chancer who can't be bothered to read what someone is looking for!

Got that in one ! :thumbup: