i just got to thinking this morning (as you do ) about sizes of women and men
having not been to a club yet and not being the smallest of guys in the build department
and also after looking at varies clubs on the net all of which boasting they have romenesque model men and women in there clubs
is there many guys and girls with weight problems and or beer bellies
is there a stigma and cliqueness that stops large men and women going to clubs or getting into clubs or even being involved in the fun that happens at said clubs
??
Or is it something that is very much excepted
like to hear everyones thoughts and experiences
cheers
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Quote by aperfectc23
i just got to thinking this morning (as you do ) about sizes of women and men
having not been to a club yet and not being the smallest of guys in the build department
and also after looking at varies clubs on the net all of which boasting they have romenesque model men and women in there clubs
is there many guys and girls with weight problems and or beer bellies
is there a stigma and cliqueness that stops large men and women going to clubs or getting into clubs or even being involved in the fun that happens at said clubs
??
Or is it something that is very much excepted
like to hear everyones thoughts and experiences
cheers
aperfectc23
curious swingers
I am not aware of many clubs that would turn anyone away from the door, based on size. However, everyone has their own personal opinion as to who they like to play with.
You have preferences on your ads, so you can expect others to have their preferences also.
Mal
Sex God
The clubs I have been to are frequented by people of all shapes and sizes, and larger people of both sexes get fully involved in the action. It might be surprising to people who go to a club for the first time, as it was for me, but I can assure you that there is no need for club participants to be especially good-looking. Those clubs that have pics on their website obviously want to attract people to come along and are inclined to choose people who look good to "model" for the club, but that's the nature of all advertising isn't it.
Mike.
Mike.
hi you all
im glad to hear from people who have had some experience and no we will one day attend its nice to no that there are larger people about and wont feelso nervous walking through the door
and yes people do have there own taste of who thye want to play with and admit have
not really had a problem playing in the past just not in a club inviroment and that was really where my self conscience lies
cheers you guys for your help
im glad to hear from people who have had some experience and no we will one day attend its nice to no that there are larger people about and wont feelso nervous walking through the door
and yes people do have there own taste of who thye want to play with and admit have
not really had a problem playing in the past just not in a club inviroment and that was really where my self conscience lies
cheers you guys for your help
We attend chameleons and I can assure you that all shapes and sizes attend and all have fun. I have read negative reports on the clubs and parties site that chameleons is full of fatties but this is not the case. It is just full of normal down to earth people who want to chill out and enjoy themselves. From our own personal experience we have found that the so called beautifull ones are to up themselves to really enjoy themselves. They usualy stand round posing. I have seen clubs that want photos before you can attend makes me wonder what they consider beautifull 
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. Most of the larger people we encounter tend to have more problems at clubs which operate a towel system. Like Seagull says Chams but Chams environment is a busy one usually. Personally I am not against such clubs but it does play on peoples minds when they are already nervous enough.
I agree if you are the larger type you might find wearing a towel a bit daunting but once you are in a club like chameleons you will wonder what the fuss is about as everyone is really chilled. My wife is a size 16 and the place has built up her confidence
Phew, don't have to type this again lol - I remember doing a post about this ages ago and have found it!!! 
Tis just about my first experience of a place, my worries etc (exactly the same as yours aperfecto
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Oh and another post I found while I was digging out the above one ....
I was so worried at first - but (touch wood) I've thoroughly enjoyed it each time I've been. Be proud of who you are :D
Tis just about my first experience of a place, my worries etc (exactly the same as yours aperfecto
)Quote by MISSCHIEF
Dafodil, oh that could've been written by me about a year ago!
Eventually someone persuaded me to go to Rios in London with them. It's a naturist spa (amongst other things :twisted: ) I have never been so terrified in my life, a few drinks in the pub beforehand only calmed me enough to put one foot in front of the other and actually get there. We stood outside the place for about 10 mins, me a gibbering wreck. All I could imagine was loads of gorgeous, size 10 visions of beauty strutting around naked ........ and me
Walked into the changing rooms, full of women - nearly fainted that they were actually normal women. Where were all the models! They were young/old, large/slight, bronzed/lilly white - absolutely everything. A whole bunch of women of every shape, size and colour ........ even more wonderful was that they were fantastic. They could see I was scared outta my mind and were so chatty, in fact spent so long in there changing and chatting, I forgot my poor date was patiently waiting outside on his own - he must've thought I had chickened out and legged it when he wasn't looking
After another drink, we went in the jacuzzi - this is where I let myself down (I had to do it) ...... I'm not one of those cute dainty little things either, so tried stepping in the jacuzzi as dainty and ladylike as possible ....... but missed the last step and done a massive belly flopboobs flying everywhere, water all over the place, me nearly drowned and my date just stood there stunned lol
Relax, have fun and be proud of what you are, one of the many varied shapes/colours/heights on this planet that makes up the human species :cheers:
Oh and another post I found while I was digging out the above one ....
Remember you can go in, do absolutely nothing, just take a look around, soak up the atmosphere - just stay for an hour or so, if you don't like it you can always leave. You don't even have to venture further from the loungy bit, although once you're in there for a little while, the curiosity will get the better of you :lol:
It's easy to explain all that to you, but you really don't realise how relaxed these places are until you see for yourself. Good luck for the next timeto you both.
I was so worried at first - but (touch wood) I've thoroughly enjoyed it each time I've been. Be proud of who you are :D
Sex God
At clubs you get everything from big fat bastards to little skinny runts...
Yeah, who said I can't do this political correctness shit :lol: :lol: :lol:
Yeah, who said I can't do this political correctness shit
:lol: :lol: :lol: well, not being mr body wonderfull, i thought i would be really out of place when i first went to bsc....but was amazed .... i was welcomed with open arms..and even a few open legs (sorry, i had to get that one in...damn, an unintentional pun there also) .
it really didnt matter what body size you were, with all the diversity of body shapes and styles, i felt as if i fitted in, and so was able to relax and enjoy myself.
it really didnt matter what body size you were, with all the diversity of body shapes and styles, i felt as if i fitted in, and so was able to relax and enjoy myself.
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We attend chameleons and I can assure you that all shapes and sizes attend and all have fun. I have read negative reports on the clubs and parties site that chameleons is full of fatties but this is not the case. It is just full of normal down to earth people who want to chill out and enjoy themselves.
Thats comforting to know. I have thought about joining chams.... I checked out there web site it states " It is advisable to call the club for details before your first visit. Please remember membership cannot be guaranteed over the telephone" and as i'm a single (short arsed) male and not exactly full of confidence it sort of put me off ..... maybe i'll think again
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We attend chameleons and I can assure you that all shapes and sizes attend and all have fun. I have read negative reports on the clubs and parties site that chameleons is full of fatties but this is not the case. It is just full of normal down to earth people who want to chill out and enjoy themselves.
Thats comforting to know. I have thought about joining chams.... I checked out there web site it states " It is advisable to call the club for details before your first visit. Please remember membership cannot be guaranteed over the telephone" and as i'm a single (short arsed) male and not exactly full of confidence it sort of put me off ..... maybe i'll think again
Hi JGB4fun
Don't worry about going there the staff have excellent customer service and I am sure you would be made very welcome.
Quote by JGB4fun
Thats comforting to know. I have thought about joining chams.... I checked out there web site it states " It is advisable to call the club for details before your first visit. Please remember membership cannot be guaranteed over the telephone" and as i'm a single (short arsed) male and not exactly full of confidence it sort of put me off ..... maybe i'll think again
Chams is excellent JGB, I would recomend it to anyone. I was so nervous I almost cried the first time we went
However you do need to give them a call because I have heard they are not taking new single males on at the moment. Maybe its worth checking to see if they have a waiting list or something
was a chams last night. People of all shapes, sizes, colors, ages, clothing preferences (underessed preferences) people with tattoos people with out tats people with a few tats, piercings, baldies, smokers non smokers..
etc.. you get the drift...
also, been to club lick, and they only people they turn away are abusive/rude people.
-ms. ocky
etc.. you get the drift...
also, been to club lick, and they only people they turn away are abusive/rude people.
-ms. ocky
I have been to a few clubs myself, and as a more cuddly female it dosent bother me, thers always someone there bigger, and skinner than yourself, but i must admit, wearing a towel in a club as put me off going to it...i know once i got there and seen evryone i would be fine, its just taking that initial step in getting there, so for now i just think i will stick to the clubs were u dont have to wear a towel, and maybe one day, hopefully venture to the other ones.
Linda xxx
Linda xxx
Well, not being the smallest guy in the world, (understatement) I have to say that it took an awful lot to go to Rio's. The fact that I was encouraged by 2 fab people really helped.
However, the nerves really kicked in as I was sitting in the pub beforehand and I almost backed out.
However with the kindness and understanding of a fantastic lady I did take the plunge. I shall never forget going through the front door, getting changed then immediately wanting to hold her hand for re-assurance.
Once at the bar and you start to meet people you soon come to realise that it’s not about size. People will still converse no-matter how you look. Everyone, and I really mean everyone, made me feel really welcome and I just forgot about the nerves.
That was the first time for me and I have to say it was one of the best afternoons I have ever had and I can’t wait to go back.
I don’t think I could have done it without being with someone who is very very dear to me. That said, if I hadn’t gone I would have missed a huge life experience.
However, the nerves really kicked in as I was sitting in the pub beforehand and I almost backed out.
However with the kindness and understanding of a fantastic lady I did take the plunge. I shall never forget going through the front door, getting changed then immediately wanting to hold her hand for re-assurance.
Once at the bar and you start to meet people you soon come to realise that it’s not about size. People will still converse no-matter how you look. Everyone, and I really mean everyone, made me feel really welcome and I just forgot about the nerves.
That was the first time for me and I have to say it was one of the best afternoons I have ever had and I can’t wait to go back.
I don’t think I could have done it without being with someone who is very very dear to me. That said, if I hadn’t gone I would have missed a huge life experience.
i first went to a club last year with a realy sweet guy but i went in the daytime i know very quiet but it realy gave me an insight into what goes on in clubs me im size 16/18 so not at all thin but i must say im not the biggest iv seen in clubs no body looks if they do its becouse there interested and i have had many a happy day and nite in clubs so far specialy if i go on my own hehe naughty or what who cares im a horny minx xxxxxxxxxx
