Hi babe,
I think the qustion should be "what do us girls prefer............skinny or cuddly guys?"
Coz I actually think your man was telling the truth............lol
I have never understood men who narrow their scope down to going for a particular "look", whether it's slim women, larger women, blondes, brunettes, etc. etc. Personality is what counts.
Mike.
I'm attracted to healthy looking women. Very skinny and very fat, and I'm talking exteme here, don't look healthy to me so i'm not attracted to them, but the 'normal' range in between, if I can use that word, covers a lot of shapes and sizes.
Bad breath and the lack of a smile will put me off a lot quicker than a number on a set of bathroom scales.
I used to have a real hang-up about my weight, but since i decided life is too short, im way happier inside, im a curvy and so ive been told, sexy person. I'm a size 16 on a good day and an 18 on a bad day and i have no problems attracting guys of all ages and sizes!! Confidence and sexiness comes from within and a nice smile and a good personality goes a long way - thats what i keep telling myself anyway!!! Works for me!! xxx
a pulse and big tits is a good starting point.. but there again i am fussy lol
david
It's that same old question although this time it seems a bit dressed up with a tad of bias in there cos there's a world of difference between curvy and fat in my book as there is between skinny and slim,
My preference has always been for slim, but thats more than likely because thats what I'm used to. I'm with Icepie on this and would agree that somewhere between the two extremes of skinny and fat is a whole range of sizes that work.
I'm never really convinced by all the claims that "I'm fat and very happy with my shape" some folk truely are and good on em ,cos I actually think it's a rare thing, but when someone is comfortable with their size then I do think it kinda shows through in their body language etc ,which then shows their personality more readily, Wev'e all got this magical personality thing, but it can get buried in self doubt and very often that self doubt will be brought on by a physical feature, it may be a feature that no one else really notices that much, but still niggles at ya and supresses the real you, hence the boom in cosmetic surgery , often put down as pure vanity, but the reality for some folk is the fact that the vanity is born out of a desire to fix something that is dragging them down, might only be a little bit, but drag em down it does.
I don't get on the scales these days and guage my weight gains and losses by the fit of my wardrobe. I will be the first to admit that I'm overweight and that someone with a chart and a set of scales would work out that I'm probably a couple of stone over weight for my height and any other blah blahs they wanna chuck in there. Does it bother me? well the answer is a definate yes. Does it bother me enough to get off my fat arse and take on a better diet and excercise regime well the answer is a definate no.
I wouldn't mind betting that a lot of folk that are overweight, would take that ever elusive magic pill if there was one around despite being relatively happy with themselves. I can't comment on the skinny issue cos I really don't know what goes on at the other end of the scale having never been there. I am also not talking about the extremes at both ends of the scales which are a whole different ball game and would be dodgy to make a generalisation on.
On first sight then a good set of curves would GRAB my attention......but if the package didn't live up to the wrapping.
Saying that, a thin athletic build is a real turn on too....
Just thin (as in v thin) isn't nice at all.
Definitely a few interesting points here, although straying away from the theme of curvy or slim women.
First off I would have to agree with Maia, I detest labelling people, however if we look into our desires there will usually be a preference, but not solely based on appearance.
Which is why Mike’s point is also true, however you cannot always perceive someone’s personality from across a crowded dance floor. What you do see firstly is appearance, which is probably where preference comes into play. After an encounter then you need to see if you click and that’s where the personality really matters.
I suppose it’s one of the many good things about the net in that on a lot of occasions in chat sites, forums etc then it’s usually personality that you see first. From a personal perspective I click with personality first, however that is not to say that I don’t go for looks, as most individuals would look first in a real and not virtual world.
So, what am I trying to say here.
Looks are important, more so in a real world for first encounters. However to really click, the most important thing to me is personality. My personal preference is definitely for a curvier woman.
I am also very lucky indeed to have to have met someone who not only is stunning, but has a heart of gold and a personality to die for.
Bloody hell – first serious post I have done in ages – I must be having a sombre, reflective moment
Definately curvy, those really really skinny women are a bit scary like those so called super models yuck!
hi all i like all sorts of women but the curvy ones are mor they seem to have better sence of humour and are more bubbly
. Hmmm, questionable taste there...
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