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Is there a thing ?
Guess Jools falls into this bracket, likes boobies looking touching etc...
But not wanting to go downtown . Lol
Is this common or not ?
I wouldn't call this bi. For me it's normal to enjoy the sight of breasts and to be tempted to feel them. But that is where it stops.
I beleive that everyone is on a continuum on the straight - gay axis. Some people are completely straight, some completely gay, others somewhere in the middle. Many people will experience some homosexual/hetrosexual feelings at some point and so be somewhere in the middle of the axis.
Can you be slightly Bi? - most certainly!
Is it common? - I would say there are others like Jools!
If you get sexual satisfaction from touching any part of a person of the same gender then you are bisexual/gay.
Not all hetro-sexuals enjoy eating pussy, sucking cock, playing with boobs, having their boobs played with, it doesn't make them any less hetro-sexual, would you say your husband wasn't interested in women just because he didn't get enjoyment from playing with boobs or licking pussy, would you say he must be gay ? I doubt it.
Just because you don't like certain aspects of sex does not mean your any less hetro-sexual, homosexual, gay, bisexual, it just means that you are what you are and have preferences just like everyone else.
If the thought of touching any part of a persons body turns you off then your straight.
I am straight, not curious and not homophobic, I cannot watch two men kissing or doing anything else sexual together because it turns me off, but I can appreciate a good male body and accept that a male I might see has a good body just as I can look at a tiger and think it is a magnificent creature.
I do not like bisexual people who cannot accept what they are, sexually speaking, you are what you are and should not be proud of it nor should you be ashamed of it. I am not proud of being straight, I did not choose to be straight, I am not ashamed of it, I am what I am.
At the end of the day it is just a label of what we are and we cannot live without labels, otherwise my Sunday dinner today could be having custard instead of carrots from a tin smile
Quote by MidsCouple24
If you get sexual satisfaction from touching any part of a person of the same gender then you are bisexual/gay.
Not all hetro-sexuals enjoy eating pussy, sucking cock, playing with boobs, having their boobs played with, it doesn't make them any less hetro-sexual, would you say your husband wasn't interested in women just because he didn't get enjoyment from playing with boobs or licking pussy, would you say he must be gay ? I doubt it.
Just because you don't like certain aspects of sex does not mean your any less hetro-sexual, homosexual, gay, bisexual, it just means that you are what you are and have preferences just like everyone else.
If the thought of touching any part of a persons body turns you off then your straight.

Some interesting stuff in your post Jed, but regarding the bit I highlighted.
Your not a gay or bi man, but if you got no pleasure from touching / licking / shagging Sasha while certainly not making you gay, could you call yourself straight or would you have to call yourself "Unsexual" for want of a better term ?
John
What I mean is, some womens breast are not sensitive, so a guy playing with them for ages does nothing for them, that doesn't make the woman a lesbian.
Some guys love playing with boobs some prefer to do other things and ignore the breasts, that doesn't make them homosexual.
I might be explaining it badly but I think that if a woman likes playing with other womens boobs and gets sexually excited by it then they are bisexual, just because they won't go downtown is immaterial.
Some women will not let a man cum in their mouth, some women swallow some don't either way it does not make those women lesbians does it ?
it's like being 'a little pregnant' or, and this one really gets on my tits, 'a social smoker'.
Bi is bi, give it a go!
I will never understand why people have to stick a definative label on you ?
Does it really matter. And who cares. x
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I will never understand why people have to stick a definative label on you ?
Does it really matter. And who cares. x

very true, thanks lol
Its worth looking at Kinsey's research for all its faults. Its relatively common for straight people to have had a bit of a dabble with the same sex and for gay people to experience the opposite sex. IMHO applying the bisexual label to everyone whose experience falls somewhere between completely straight and completely gay doesn't help very much. On one level it might help categorize a particular sexual experience but it doesn't necessarily shed much light on the person's sexuality. Really its about the people involved and what feels right at the time. So I agree with mrkinkymrsbi comment. Search Kinsey Scale.
Hello my little antipodean.
Kinsey and his scale is stating what can sometimes be referred to as 'stating the bloody obvious'. lol
Quote by jools_fun
I will never understand why people have to stick a definative label on you ?
Does it really matter. And who cares. x

Yes it matters, it matters a great deal,
That is all well and good, but in the real world everyone does label everyone else
Older
Younger
Black
White
Tall
Short
Stunning
Handsome
Well endowed
single
couple
Ugly
Large
Slim
Bisexual
Straight
Gay
Lesbian
How would you arrange a meet if you could not label the type of person you want to meet, you yourself list yourseves as being straight male and bi-female
I do think labels are an integral and important part of being human, the only time it is a bad thing is when they are used in a malicious or derogatory way, call me slim or large it is a true and informative label, call me skinny or fat it is abusive. A fine line perhaps but a necessary one.
Oh hello Trevaunance, I agree with you :-)