Slow off the mark - yet again

12 Sep 2006

I may have missed this if it's already appreared in an earlier thread and if so apologise and sure someone will point me in the right direction.
On the way to a well known, well organised event a week and a bit ago I stopped off at a petrol station and bought a magazine ( you know - the womany kind of gossip one ).
Just getting to read it all, there's a little article, well a two page spread, yet again with a quote from a spokesman here at SH regarding the article about the whole swining scene and giving three small stories.
Anyone else read this one - and I quote from a ' sexpert ' - " .... swinging could be a positive move". - well, they do know one thing after all smile

12 Sep 2006

Quote by blueeyes6969
I may have missed this if it's already appreared in an earlier thread and if so apologise and sure someone will point me in the right direction.
On the way to a well known, well organised event a week and a bit ago I stopped off at a petrol station and bought a magazine ( you know - the womany kind of gossip one ).
Just getting to read it all, there's a little article, well a two page spread, yet again with a quote from a spokesman here at SH regarding the article about the whole swining scene and giving three small stories.
Anyone else read this one - and I quote from a ' sexpert ' - " .... swinging could be a positive move". - well, they do know one thing after all

I've not seen it. But then again, I can't read.
(the swining stories could be of concern though! :shock: )

12 Sep 2006

Quote by winchwench
I've not seen it. But then again, I can't read.
(the swining stories could be of concern though! :shock: )

Pig Farmer's Weekly again? :shock:

12 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren

I've not seen it. But then again, I can't read.
(the swining stories could be of concern though! :shock: )

Pig Farmer's Weekly again? :shock:
This just really tickled me!!!

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

12 Sep 2006

I'm off before winchy kicks my ass :scared: bolt

12 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I'm off before winchy kicks my ass :scared:

Nah...ass kickin is reserved for Mondays & Wednesdays- you're lucky.
Just go & line up next to Kiss......and I'll tickle you both! wink

12 Sep 2006

not tickling ! :shock: bolt

can't I just have a snog and a grope instead? dunno

12 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
not tickling ! :shock:
can't I just have a snog and a grope instead?

:thumbup:
In a light tickly manner....!

12 Sep 2006

Quite a few magazines and "experts" are now saying that swinging can be OK.
But would we want everybody to be in on this swinging scene? Is it not more "naughty" cos most people don't do it. Certainly wouldn't be as much fun for us if it was as normal as going down the pub for a drink.
John & Shel

13 Sep 2006

Does the increased coverage lately therefor mean this is ( and I may get grief 'cos I can't think of a better way of putting this ) is becoming more sociably accepted now or is there a lot of closet swingers just too afraid to confront it ?

13 Sep 2006

Quote by blueeyes6969
Does the increased coverage lately therefor mean this is ( and I may get grief 'cos I can't think of a better way of putting this ) is becoming more sociably accepted now or is there a lot of closet swingers just too afraid to confront it ?

Just so long as there is no organization setting up to forcibly bring swinger out to family and work mates. I'll stay in the closet, not so much room but cosy.

13 Sep 2006

is that the loveit magazine article?

13 Sep 2006

I think when it comes to sex and our interests most people with never bring everything out of the closet not because they are too afraid to confront it but for other reasons:
1) Sex can be an emotional and intimate event, to tell everyone about it would lessen that.
2) Even though we may be open and honest with some people about our interests (strangely alot of the time we seem to be more open and honest with strangers, as we do here) this doesn't mean we want everyone to know.
3) Even though the majority of people have sex, it still seems to be a uncomfortable subject with a lot of people and telling everyone would probably embarrass them more than you ;) I always get confused by the offense people take when called a "wanker" well yes I do thanks, i'm also an eater, sleeper and talker too!
4)Do we talk to other people about all our interests, I am sure some of my friends are not too interested to hear about my latest computer game or DVD but some are, we talk to those who are interested in what we are interested in. That's why we are here!
I know some of us would not want anyone to find out as it would cause problems with relationships, friends or even jobs, but I expect for most of us we don't tell everyone because:
5) Its not of their business smile

Quote by blueeyes6969
Does the increased coverage lately therefor mean this is ( and I may get grief 'cos I can't think of a better way of putting this ) is becoming more sociably accepted now or is there a lot of closet swingers just too afraid to confront it ?

13 Sep 2006

I have mentioned here before,workmates of mine,including one who had a phase of having a string of 1on1's with different men,some of them are appalled at the idea of swinging,and these are nice people NOT horrible bigoted types!

14 Sep 2006

Quote by KinkyLickers
3) Even though the majority of people have sex, it still seems to be a uncomfortable subject with a lot of people and telling everyone would probably embarrass them more than you ;) I always get confused by the offense people take when called a "wanker" well yes I do thanks, i'm also an eater, sleeper and talker too!

The offence is not in the word but the way it is used. That is just the I feel. I am sure that any word can be use as an insult, you just have to use it that way.

14 Sep 2006

Quote by KinkyLickers
I think when it comes to sex and our interests most people with never bring everything out of the closet not because they are too afraid to confront it but for other reasons:
1) Sex can be an emotional and intimate event, to tell everyone about it would lessen that.
2) Even though we may be open and honest with some people about our interests (strangely alot of the time we seem to be more open and honest with strangers, as we do here) this doesn't mean we want everyone to know.
3) Even though the majority of people have sex, it still seems to be a uncomfortable subject with a lot of people and telling everyone would probably embarrass them more than you ;) I always get confused by the offense people take when called a "wanker" well yes I do thanks, i'm also an eater, sleeper and talker too!
4)Do we talk to other people about all our interests, I am sure some of my friends are not too interested to hear about my latest computer game or DVD but some are, we talk to those who are interested in what we are interested in. That's why we are here!
I know some of us would not want anyone to find out as it would cause problems with relationships, friends or even jobs, but I expect for most of us we don't tell everyone because:
5) Its not of their business

:thumbup: Amen to that

14 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I think when it comes to sex and our interests most people with never bring everything out of the closet not because they are too afraid to confront....................
5) Its not of their business

:thumbup: Amen to that
Do I need to say grace now ;)

15 Sep 2006

Quote by Martin_M
is that the loveit magazine article?

Just wondering which other magazines do we have in common ( In the 60p range that is confused

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