(Small) Gangbang advice

Hey!

After our rather large leap into swinging together and having lots of fun one of the things Sammy wants to try next is playing with more than two guys at a time.

We id a little post, got some significant interest to the post and a little advice here and there, but mainly just guys local and some virtually extraterrestrial in terms of distance wanting to be considered. As it turns out planning well in advance on this occassion wasnt a smart move as the world changed during the process. 

That being said its still something we want to try, moreso Sammy than I, (what guy wouldnt prefer a reverse gang bang lol)

To that end whilst we wait for some sort of normality to return, we would definately appreciate any more advice from those that have tried that you think newbies might find helpful. 

Not looking for sexy stories or anything like that, bullet point suggestions for instance will be very helpful

Thanks in advance!

Hi there Snuffles.

Used to arrange them for couples years ago and had a group of about 12-14 guys I'd vetted so I knew they always turn up (Nothing worse than no shows).

Any good club would/might arrange one for you if you asked (I helped out at a few and that's what we used to do if asked) just make sure you let them know what your ground rules are and your limits.

If you'd lke any advice feel free to contact me, more than happy to help you out if I can.

Sorry mate, we're not ignoring you. Everytime I found the thread again I'd forget about it by the time I spoke to Sammy again. Yesterday I decided to text her and get her to remind me lol. We'd be interested in chatting to see if you can help us. 12-14 definately isnt us just yet lol we were thinking more like 3  We shall see how lockdown goes as something outdoors would be great otherwise we may have to consider a club. I'll send this as a message too just in case you've stopped watching the thread.

I arranged an outdoor gang bang for a couple I am friends with. He wanted to just watch her having fun but it wasnt as easy as one would think, having advertised on a swinging forum had over 100 messages in 24 hrs from all over the country. Eventually arranged for 10 relatively local guys who sounded genuine and gave them time and place (local dogging area). Glorious lovely day and of the ten only 3 turned up there were 2 blokes, lucky for them, who were dogging who joined in and so including me she was gang banged by 6. She really enjoyed it but was disappointed more didnt show up, if you arrange a gang bang just be aware that if you arrange 3 they might not turn up as arranged so leaving disappointment. Sad that there are so many timewasters or those that bottle out at the last minute.

Yeah, Thank you thats helpful. We get that no shows are a problem, its the same even just trying to arrange an MMF sometimes sadly but for this wed rather invite three and only one show each time until we get 3 reliable ones than invite 12 and 5 show up. Slow and steady with the gang fun im afraid. 

Hi Snuffles, not a problem, this Covid has put everything off tilt, what seems like an hour turns out to be about six, lol.

I used to arrange these up to about ten years ago? so lost contact with most of the guys.

I arranged them around what the couple wanted so they dictated how many guys they wanted (As it happens I may be setting up another group as just before the Covid started I was contacted by a couple looking to have a five man gb and wondered if I could get the guys).

And yes you're right, slow and steady, took me a while to get the right guys but I had the advantage of helping out at a swingers club/adult events, although I had about twelve to fourteen guys only once or twice did I use them all at once, most couples wanted three or four to start of with. 

At the club couples would phone asking to set them up and we'd inform our regulars that a couple were/might be coming and may want a gb (At the end of the day nothing was guarenteed and the couple had to feel at ease), if they tuned up we'd go through the ground rules and what their limits were, they could choose how they wanted and if all ws well we'd sort a place for them to have their fun and there'd be someone on the door to stop anyone else getting in unless invited.

Hi,  when wr began swinging we started at a club, startrd slowly, played with another couple and the odd single guy. We got to know people well and knew who we were comfortable with over time. My wife had always wanyed to try mmf, mmmf mmmmf etc and by getting to know guys at the club was how we chose guys for ouwhen we were ready to try a gangbang.

we had a number of gangbangs a few years ago now. Organised by another couple we played with so it was them us and 5 of their male friends. It was much easier with someone else we knew there and got better after the first time when we all knew each other and were much more relaxed. So that would be my tip to start off with at least someone else you know there who you are comfortable playing with to break the ice xx

Having chaperoned a few friends at clubs and had the fortune to organise a couple of similar situations the following has always formed part of the experience.   1. the scene /experience can absolutely end/stop finish whenever requested, no judgement or barganing. 2. Clarity over safe sex and sexual health including ensuring that atleast one other partner is also checking in on ensuring those rules are followed. 3. Wipes and refreshments aplenty if you think two of you can work up a steam add two more bodies and you'll be parched. 4. More so for the men but be truly comfortable with the presence of and possibly intimacy of another willy. Nothing kills the mood faster than someone launching in shock that a cock touched them. 5. make some sspace for communication and chatting because if all goes well theintensity is amazing but without allowing a cool down and check in it can also be quite a rebound when its all over.   Other than that you look like you have good comms andideas and plans so have fun and play safe and make new friends that smile.