So how exactly do I get laid?

6 Jul 2004

Quote by hornyderby
How does a single guy get laid on this website - i've posted ads and sat in chat rooms and still nothing
anyone got any ideas (and yes i expect sarcasm)

Sitting in a corner of a chatroom people are unlikely to get to know you, always best to get chatting on the forums and get yourself "known".
If your looking simply to get laid then I doubt this is the place for you ..... best popping down the local and sitting in a corner there!
Problem with single guys is they have some bad press, many see SH as a place to get laid and then get frustrated when they don't, many are out for a laugh ... and have no intention of making themselves unique enough to get noticed.
We're not looking for single males, we can invite ppl we know if we want that, but have no objection to getting friendly with some on here ... you never know when you'll be in their area, or need an extra.
Forget getting laid and look for friendships, the shag will happen if it's meant to.
Calista x

6 Jul 2004

Lie flat on the floor on a building site and make noises like a paving slab. wink

6 Jul 2004

Because life is too short to keep repeating myself, read what I said to a person in a similar situation yesterday:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/99713.html#99713
There's shit loads of advice available on this site, why can't people be bothered to read it?
If you want to get liad right here, right now, stop hassling the genuine swingers and go and call an escort.
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...... I'm trying to keep my temper intact, but it is REALLY hard sometimes
mad

6 Jul 2004

Unbelievable isn't it?
Rachel
wink

6 Jul 2004

great new aproach niceguy How do I make noises like a paving slab?
come on tell me ..go on go on :P

6 Jul 2004

not like this sad

6 Jul 2004

wait paitently like me smile

im sure it will be worth it!!!!!! wink

6 Jul 2004

Quote by bluexxx

Because life is too short to keep repeating myself, read what I said to a person in a similar situation yesterday:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/99713.html#99713
There's shit loads of advice available on this site, why can't people be bothered to read it?
If you want to get liad right here, right now, stop hassling the genuine swingers and go and call an escort.
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...... I'm trying to keep my temper intact, but it is REALLY hard sometimes

Invite him to your little get-together Blue. :giggle:

6 Jul 2004

Quote by hornyderby
How does a single guy get laid on this website

There's three things you need:
1. You need to be unqiue.
2. You need to be in some way desirable.
3. You need lots and lots of luck.
Unless you score well in all three categories of this Holy Trinity, you're screwed. Uh... well, actually you're not screwed. ;)

6 Jul 2004

I reckon hornyderby would freak if he knew what I had planned cool

8-) 8-)

6 Jul 2004

Maybe you should put a detailed photo strip on your site, Blue, let the new boys know EXACTLY what they can expect step by step!
Rachel
wink

6 Jul 2004

GOOD IDEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's time I did a new photo strip
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

6 Jul 2004

Quote by warwick
great new aproach niceguy How do I make noises like a paving slab?
come on tell me ..go on go on :P

Welll you only know its a paving slab when it goes "THUD" as it hits those 5 dollops of whatever!
then it is good that it gets a good thwacking just to make suree that it is in the right place
But yes Blue ought to be more proactive in dealing with these persons :twisted: ] GO Pink
dilbert

6 Jul 2004

Blue wrote:

Because life is too short to keep repeating myself, read what I said to a person in a similar situation yesterday:

Blue, I wish your post from yesterday could be put on the opening page of the forum, so everyone reads it as they come in. It would save such a lot of frustration!
Mike.

6 Jul 2004

Well dating sites are good! One worked for me and I had a very good time!
Just be honest and say what exactly you are looking for wink

I think this site is more about being a member of the swinging community, rather than about just getting laid!
Check out loopylove and match!

6 Jul 2004

Wasn't there a sticky at the top of the Cafe that had advice for single men or something? What happened to it? rolleyes

6 Jul 2004

you could always climb inside a chicken and hope you get laid that way!!
having said that... you might not get laid as an egg.. "Animal Farm" was a harsh reminder of that fact!! Not into that meself!!

6 Jul 2004

Kind of agree with roger on this one. As a single man you are frankly one in a somthing unique or special about yourself helps alot, but doesn't mean it will be easy. just remember people are inundated with pushy single guys so try getting to know people and don't expect anything. That way if it does happen its a bonus. I started out single in here mate but thanks to a few kind peoples help (The Gent) and my lovely new woman i'm living proof that patients and politeness pays.
ChrisG

6 Jul 2004

I am trying desperately to palm some of the hot chicks off me...honest. I may just drop you some of their numbers if I cant cope. I need an extra day in the week...
Its tough being furking good, but hey someone HAS to be???

6 Jul 2004

Love the attitude!
Just browsed through the Lets Meet Up forum and realised how stupid some of the ads really are. :shock:
I for one am guilty of making that my first port of call, but ive put that well behind me now smile

6 Jul 2004

Quote by Lovecommando
Wasn't there a sticky at the top of the Cafe that had advice for single men or something? What happened to it?

It's been moved to the "Advice" section of the website.