We had been swinging already for a fair few years when we joined this site, and only joined because I wanted to play on cam. We have met some great people, had some great sex and now also really enjoy the social side of swinging that this site brings. Ultimately we are here for the sex. Meeting great people and making great friends along the way is a huge bonus.
I was in the chatroom today (for a change) and a guy whispered to me in a way that made me think that he wanted more than sex.
This started me thinking of all of the different interactions I've had with people since joining this site. Yes you get the "phwarrrr nice tits" whispers and the "Great pics, fancy meeting and I'll show you a great time" messages. I have been offered money for sex and I have been offered more money to spend a week with someone (both of which I refused of course) but there also seems to be lots of people who are here just for friendship or in fact to find a companion.
I felt quite sad to think that there are people here who are lonely and here for company.
Now I know that there are people who have met their partners while swinging, but I'm sure that it doesnt happen often as (I would guess) most people do this for no strings adult fun and of course if we make friends along the way ... bonus!!
Is it wrong that I find this upsetting?
So why are you here?
I came here to try a lot of new things. Some I have experienced... some I haven't(as yet). I have enjoyed meeting different people along the way, more socially and made a lot of good friends. I have also thought about leaving at times especially when it gets harder to meet as your kids grow up but have always just taken a break instead of closing that account because I know I will miss the laughs like crazy if I did go.
Lil x
Cock... and other lady-things sometimes too :twisted:
Was the first place we came to when we started swinging and found some amazing social along the way. Unfortunatly for a bit now since multiple room occupancy facility our local area chatroom is f*cked leaving the only really popular rooms being the main rooms. Great but not what we really want.
Keep hoping there will be a rethink about the multi room thing but alas in reality its not going to happen so I guess habit and the hope we have of bumping into cyber mates is all that keeps us. Those who have free accounts can consider themselves fortunate that they have them as £50:00+ for this a year is now looking a decidedly expensive but for free its still good value
I have thought about cancelling my account here on several occasions since becoming single as I didn't want to be just another single guy but some good friends have persuaded me not to and I'm glad they did as I am discovering new delights recently and rather enjoying it :-)
i joined (for free) for simple NSA sex, which was what i got for a while, i wasnt looking for a relationship at all, in fact definetly didnt want that cus i was loving having lots of sex with lots of people, i wasnt interested in the social side either
then i met gary and we now live together and we rarely meet anyone else for sex at all !!
i think i now come here out of habit a lot of the time and sometimes think il cancel my account but its a free one so that would be a daft thing to do incase i changed my mind later !!
I came here....6 years ago now...and thought..wow look at this ..free, easy sex.....i replied to 200 adverts in first day......" hello i'm dean..fancy a shag "..
Surprise, surprise i didn't get one reply....so started to look a little deeper. I then becoame a regular in the forums. Once the current format of chat rooms was open, my real experiance began. It gave me a chance to show the sort of person I was, and that genuine.. I went along and still do, to every local social, and have therefore made great freindships...and you know what....even got to shag a few.
My tag line....is sexy, erotic fun and freindship......and that about sums up what i am here for.
We had been swinging already for a fair few years when we joined this site, and only joined because I wanted to play on cam. We have met some great people, had some great sex and now also really enjoy the social side of swinging that this site brings. Ultimately we are here for the sex. Meeting great people and making great friends along the way is a huge bonus.
I was in the chatroom today (for a change) and a guy whispered to me in a way that made me think that he wanted more than sex.
This started me thinking of all of the different interactions I've had with people since joining this site. Yes you get the "phwarrrr nice tits" whispers and the "Great pics, fancy meeting and I'll show you a great time" messages. I have been offered money for sex and I have been offered more money to spend a week with someone (both of which I refused of course) but there also seems to be lots of people who are here just for friendship or in fact to find a companion.
I felt quite sad to think that there are people here who are lonely and here for company.
Now I know that there are people who have met their partners while swinging, but I'm sure that it doesnt happen often as (I would guess) most people do this for no strings adult fun and of course if we make friends along the way ... bonus!!
Is it wrong that I find this upsetting?
So why are you here?quote]
i went to bed but couldnt sleep so i come down and here i am ......tsk
i am laying down the foundations for some overage pensioner sex. i figure it could take at least 20 years to 'get known' on the site. i will be over 70 then and just coming into my most fulfilling sexual phase of life.
Every time I think out this I come up with a new answer.
I came here think it would be a way to meet.
Then I found the chat was fun. Just hanging out in the forum, and being open about things I could only say to my wife. Sometimes finding advice, even give it. There have been those times when I have been in tears reading posts that just take me behond laughter.
Now it has come full circle, I am looking for meets, but with those I have become familia with here in the forums.
travis
I think that this is a really interesting topic.
Why did I come here, well I was just out of many years of 'heavy' relationships and I wanted to be naughty and have unadulterated and filthy sex.
Have I achieved that? Yes, have I had odd experiences, yes.
Very (including getting robbed and stalked).
Sometimes I get fed up with time wasters and then go away for a few months, and then come back with more energy and patience.
I'm still learning, I've met some very very sexy people who have pushed my sexual boundaries in ways I never thought were possible.
For example I'm now a part time 'Mistress' - just for playing.
I think that a lot of people are here for very different reasons, and that we will all have very different reasons for signing on here at different stages in the year/our lives.
The next logical question, is did you get out of this what you expected?
Me - yes and more, much more, but I've also learned a lot about myself in the process, including how to be truly sexually confident and liberated, but to be respectful and kind to my lovers, and prospective lovers.
What have you learned about your sexuality / interaction sexually?
I've made mistakes with others and they've made mistakes with me, but you learn and you move on.
Overall I'm very happy to have ocme here, I know that I'm incredibly bi, but that didn't come around from being here.
A x
i came here to get rid of the fantasy of a threesum as thats all i was fixated on.... when it came to lady wanking time i would want a threesum... when thinkin about sex it was a threesum.... now three years on and i still want a threesum !!!
but from this site i have found some fantastic friends... who i know went the mood strikes me i can call on them to help me out quite lucky eh !
like DG habit
i still check the forums although seldom post anymore
the beauty of the site is that can dip in and out when i want, sometimes it fits what i want and need and sometimes it doesnt
i love the socials and getting to see people from all over the country i only get to see a few times a year
i was very naive when i first was directed to the site and learnt a lot about sex and about myself in the time i have been here, yes there have been one or two bad experiences, but they are far far outweighed by the good experiences. Ive met some fabulous people and some i count as friends.
if i want to shag, i can come on here and get a meet
if i want to chat, i can come on here and go in the chatrooms
if i want to spout off i can use the forums
or if i want to talk drivel, i can use the forums or the chatrooms
i like knowing i always have these options
LG. x
Thats not due to the site though its a bit due to life and some other stuff maybe fussiness for example. We have attended plenty of socials and Munchs and now getting back into the social scene too 
