solutions

31 Mar 2006

well for the second night in succesion(spelling??) its taken me at least half an hour to sign in,i have been drinking excessively etc and having a bit of a rough un so to speak(though the footie bet earlier was good)
when something personal go's horribly wrong for you lot what do you do to hide away from it????
at the moment i'm blanking but i dont think in the long term its best sad

1 Apr 2006

if it`s changable........we`d run straight at it....somethin like this..........probably sit and stress till our eyeballs shoot out mad

Quote by robbie_rob
well for the second night in succesion(spelling??) its taken me at least half an hour to sign in,i have been drinking excessively etc and having a bit of a rough un so to speak(though the footie bet earlier was good)
when something personal go's horribly wrong for you lot what do you do to hide away from it????
at the moment i'm blanking but i dont think in the long term its best

1 Apr 2006

That depends what's wrong hunni. Sometimes sharing your problems with a good friend can sort it, other times only you can find the answer. The crux of it is never ignore it as it won't go away...................bit like me really :giggle: Hope you find the answer soon kiss

1 Apr 2006

Oh it sounds like you're having a bad day :therethere:
Ignoring stuff doesn't work long term, just stresses you out.
Talk to some mates, even if they give you bad advice sometimes just saying things outloud helps polarize the problem.
(succession - for future reference)
H.x

1 Apr 2006

Robbie
Problems don't go away. They have to be solved. It's my opinion that we have to identify them and then deal with them.
But having said that - sometimes we just have to let them go. A partner leaves us? Then we just have to let it go. A few days of oblivion and let the pain die. There will always be somebody else to come along.
Your house burns down? Now you've got real problems especally if like me you don't have insurance.
Robbie, like the rest of us, I hope things come right. Time truly is the great healer. Take time.
Mollie xx

1 Apr 2006

Quote by robbie_rob
well for the second night in succesion(spelling??) its taken me at least half an hour to sign in,i have been drinking excessively etc and having a bit of a rough un so to speak(though the footie bet earlier was good)
when something personal go's horribly wrong for you lot what do you do to hide away from it????
at the moment i'm blanking but i dont think in the long term its best

I come on here lol...... always find the kind caring folk who really care about you make you feel soo so much better... and i realise I am sane when I log back off lol..
Apart from that Talk to someone!! It really does help....
Mike xx

5 Apr 2006

i'd like to apologise for this topic,reading back its sooooooooo attention seeking etc etc,thats not how it was meant,it was meant as a stress relief and it worked,thanks to all that replied and all that read.
i think the drink may have had a hand in writing it too.

6 Apr 2006

Don't worry about it, we all get days like that. I write myself e-mails, then when I'm in a less frazled state of mind - read them back and wonder what all the dramma was about. But if you can't vent a little to your friends, then the world is a sorry place.
I hope you're feeling better about life the universe and everything.
H.x